How to please a Sagittarius woman in bed

muffdivingvirgo
I??m a Virgo, yeah I know all the hate bashing, we Virgo??s suck in bed. Anyways, I??m getting married to a Sagittarius woman this April (2013), how do I please a Sagittarius woman?

Here??s some background, my ex-wife divorced me because I was routine (I think). I know this because, as I look back. I did nothing but the same thing in bed. Eventually, she cheated and left me.

I don??t want this to happen again.

I??m very good when it comes to oral, even the ex-wife told me (I think that??s why the marriage lasted as long as it did). And my Sagittarius fianc?e says, ???You??re better than a vibrator.?? Great, but I want to completely please her. I don??t want to be the nice guy in bed, that boring, routine, vanilla sex.

I love pleasing my woman, I love giving her total pleasure. But I feel that I??m mechanical. A dead fish. Yuck!

Any ideas on how to sexually please a woman?

Thanks help would be greatly appreciated.

beautifulsoul74
Ask her and watch a few porn flicks! Tell her your fantasies and ask what are her! Go to Hustler Hollywood. Just a few suggestions.
beautifulsoul74
You should've posted this thread in the Sagittarius forum.
muffdivingvirgo
Posted by size zero superhero





I don't want this to happen again
The solution is to avoid getting hitched with a self-serving, traitorous partner similar to your first spouse.
Besides, (at least)two sources of skilled input is necessary in order for optimal enjoyment, as opposed to having just one partner bear the burden.

I don't mean to come off as dismissive, however there will always be individuals out there, whom you are sexually incompatible with. In other words, their technique doesn't appeal to you and vice-versa.

IMO your best bet is asking your fiancee how you could improve, if at all. She's a Sag, therefore she'll probably give an honest answer if she feels improvements are needed on your behalf.



The good thing she hasn??t said anything negative. She said she??s happy. I??m trying new things all the time. And she loves sex. WOW, what a difference from the ex (twice a month).

I??m learning not to just thrust in and out. But grind and gyrate my hips.

I do rush foreplay though. I??m trying to slow it down, trying to give her total physical pleasure, her total body.

But I look years down the road.

I??ve had 9 sex partner my whole life, I don??t have a lot of sexual experience.

I??ve recently read this somewhere:
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Any guys reading this take my advice- explore her ENTIRE BODY. Don't worry about coming. Explore her deliberately. Should work really well. If not, go get some how-to porn.
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This got me thinking. But is there more I should be doing?

muffdivingvirgo
Posted by beautifulsoul74
You should've posted this thread in the Sagittarius forum.

Yes, I know now. By the time I found the "Sagittarius forum" it was too late. Thanks.
muffdivingvirgo
Posted by Ligeia
Posted by muffdivingvirgo
Posted by happykitsune
Posted by DMV
i think with your venus in cappy...you should try dating older men.


I'd gladly date older men. I don't get presented with older men tho. I'm a senior in college already so the pool of older man has grown smaller. Especially in a christian school where the older men are nearly all married. Aside from that I really don't know where to find older men. Bars are out and parties are really no better. If I'm not at school I'm usually working and if I'm doing neither of those things I'll get out drinking with my friends (haven't been in over a month cus I've been so busy)

So it's not that I don't know this. I've known this for a while :/ Just can't find the older men.
I'm an older Virgo, I met my Sag girl online. I??m four years older, and she's the best. She's fun, exciting, witty, sexy, very sexual, off balance, I love this girl.

We get along so well. She's quirky like me. She'll say things out of the blue, does things like dance in the middle of the grocery isle. Then I??d chime in with her.

Two weeks ago, we walked the beach naked together at midnight, full moon shining, the ocean water roared wetting out feet. Made love, got tired, and we slept on the beach, naked ! Clothed couples walked by us like it was nothing. It was so sensual, and off beat.


When you find your true soul mate, it??s an incredible feeling. The love and sex energy surges through your body and tingles your heart.


On a side note you killing me with that user name lmao.


Ahh, yes Ligeia I remember this post. We still feel the same. The passion is still steamy hot. However, I don't want to lose this loving feeling (Isn't that a song?). I want to keep the sex alive. I don't want to be that boring Virgo.

And thanks. I chose the name because I have to admit I'm good at it. I have her wetting the bed in seconds and her having the Big "O" in less than 3 minutes. Then I go for the penetration.

She says it's great. I feel it's becoming routine. And I know she will get bored. I focus too much on the end result. She admits ???she enjoys the journey.??
DMV
haha @ muff diving virgo
dimitri
oh please...
dimitri
big deal
dimitri
smoke a joint
dimitri
Sagittarius is a bore for a virgo
dimitri
and you're getting married to that....
P-Angel
Posted by muffdivingvirgo

... we Virgo??s suck in bed.





agreed
P-Angel
And not because the Virgo doesn't know the routine, rather ... because they know the routine.

A good lover is one who doesn't have to ask ... a good lover is intuitively able to respond/react to the nuances during the heat of the moment ... a good lover instinctively knows how/what to do according to the responses garnered from/during sensuality.


Now, with your situation .... you are asking how to be a good lover? For the fact that you have to even ask what it is to be a good lover is evidence that you know nothing about making love at all .. no matter how many times you've eaten kitty.
BoomShakalakaBoom
^Its sad how narrow-minded people can become when they are old^

Age is supposed to give us the wisdom we didnt have in our younger years, in reality it also seems to limit our mental flexibility and vision in the same degree. At least I can be conscious of this right now and make a conscious effort to try to curb it before Im old, I feel sad for old people who were never showed perspective in their younger years.

In reality the only thing that's truly obvious here is that P-Angel's understanding of astrology is extremely limited compared to the magnitude of the claims she makes about sun signs alone, aka generalizations.
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