Sitting on a guys lap?

sexyariesgurl
Is sitting on a guys lap considered an intimate thing to do? or just something to be taken lightly? girls have you ever done platonic lap sitting? or there is no such thing? and guys why do you like it when a girl sits on your lap and can it just be platonic? thanks
The-Dream
Answer this, would you let a random chick or your boyfriend female friend sit on his lap?
sexyariesgurl
no i guess not, would want to smack that girl haha, but assuming that both you and the guy were single
P-Angel
single/taken .... no difference.



The principal here isn't contingient on status. If you think it wrong for a chick to sit on your mans lap .. then the principal here is that you think its a wrong thing for a woman to do .. whether or not this man is taken isn't a part of the equation.
P-Angel
Probably, what this boils down to is this ...

.. you sat on a mans lap and caught grief for it .. now, you want to find justifiable reason for sitting somewhere you shouldn't have, so you won't have to feel any guilt.



Sorry ... principal applies, regardless ......
RainingPeanuts


It depends how you look at.

I, personally, only sit on my significant others lap.

My reason is that lighthearted a gesture as it may seem... well have you ever had someone sit on
your lap? You can feel their ass and even their butt crack! Tell me that won't put a dirty thought
in your friends head?! LoL
RainingPeanuts

Ok to put it short, I don't think it's platonic. It's flirty.

I sure as hell would not appreciate another females ass on my
bf's lap!




scorpdude
a Libra friend did that. it was flirty and sexy.
if its your man then you're the one who should be doing it.
scorpdude
i meant lap dance.
lildol
If you caught grief over it, it was well deserved. Sorry, not unless you've got a thing for the guy and he's not taken - you're still walking on thin ice if he doesn't appreciate it though, not to mention how it looks to others!
krysrenee7
Personally, I consider sitting on someone's lap moreso an intimate thing. Here's why...of all the chairs & things to sit on in the world, why chose that person's lap? Sitting on someone's lap represents comfort & closeness. It's also another way to flirt or be territorial. The reason alot of women sit on their boyfriends laps is b/c it represents a small form of intimacy & closeness b/w the 2 of them. And when you see a woman sitting on a male friend's lap, it represents the same thing, regardless of whether or not the title is there. Depending on the circumstances & depending on what the person sitting on their lap means to them, can decide if the whole "lap" thing should be taken lightly. If I walked up & saw a friend or some stranger sitting on my man's lap, I'd be offended b/c of what sitting on his lap could and probably DOES mean. It'd be a direct implication of disrespect, 1. b/c the woman is sitting on his "manhood" & possibly activating the part in him sexually that only I, as HIS woman should have access to. But it all depends on the person, the relationship/friendship & the circumstances. The whole "lap" thing is no different than giving men hickeys. To some, it represents being territorial over the person you already have OR want. To others, it's just a harmless sign that fun has or WILL take place.
P-Angel
"The whole "lap" thing is no different than giving men hickeys."



Sitting on laps is the same as sucking on someone's neck?



lol
P-Angel
I guess then ... looking deep into their eyes is the same as sucking his dick.
ninjamu
depends. i have male friends, some with girlfriends/boyfriends, whose lap i've sat upon in a purely platonic way. some of them are more naturally flirty than others. the girlfriends/boyfriends already know of it so it's not a big deal. would i be ok with some girl sitting on my guy's lap? depends on the girl and the relationship. some random chick in a bar would make me uncomfortable. however, i know that he isn't the type to allow that to happen anyway. he's not a PDA phobe but he's not really into it either.
The-Dream
^Would it still be platonic is two guys were sitting on each others laps?
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