Sitting on a guys lap?

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12/31/2009 5:33:20 PM | More
sexyariesgurl

female from UK  

well what can i say i am an 18 year old

Is sitting on a guys lap considered an intimate thing to do? or just something to be taken lightly? girls have you ever done platonic lap sitting? or there is no such thing? and guys why do you like it when a girl sits on your lap and can it just be platonic? thanks
12/31/2009 5:45:22 PM | More
The-Dream

25 years old male

Answer this, would you let a random chick or your boyfriend female friend sit on his lap?
12/31/2009 5:54:11 PM | More
sexyariesgurl

female from UK  

well what can i say i am an 18 year old

no i guess not, would want to smack that girl haha, but assuming that both you and the guy were single
12/31/2009 6:16:18 PM | More
P-Angel

55 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

single/taken .... no difference.



The principal here isn't contingient on status. If you think it wrong for a chick to sit on your mans lap .. then the principal here is that you think its a wrong thing for a woman to do .. whether or not this man is taken isn't a part of the equation.
12/31/2009 7:56:13 PM | More
P-Angel

55 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

Probably, what this boils down to is this ...

.. you sat on a mans lap and caught grief for it .. now, you want to find justifiable reason for sitting somewhere you shouldn't have, so you won't have to feel any guilt.



Sorry ... principal applies, regardless ......
1/2/2010 2:27:11 AM | More
RainingPeanuts

female from California  US  



It depends how you look at.

I, personally, only sit on my significant others lap.

My reason is that lighthearted a gesture as it may seem... well have you ever had someone sit on
your lap? You can feel their ass and even their butt crack! Tell me that won't put a dirty thought
in your friends head?! LoL

1/2/2010 2:29:55 AM | More
RainingPeanuts

female from California  US  


Ok to put it short, I don't think it's platonic. It's flirty.

I sure as hell would not appreciate another females ass on my
bf's lap!




1/2/2010 3:18:36 PM | More
scorpdude

a Libra friend did that. it was flirty and sexy.
if its your man then you're the one who should be doing it.
1/2/2010 4:55:13 PM | More
scorpdude

i meant lap dance.
1/2/2010 5:41:46 PM | More
lildol

female from the abyss of confusion  

If you caught grief over it, it was well deserved. Sorry, not unless you've got a thing for the guy and he's not taken - you're still walking on thin ice if he doesn't appreciate it though, not to mention how it looks to others!
1/3/2010 6:57:12 PM | More
krysrenee7

female

Popcorn is best for these kinds of occas

Personally, I consider sitting on someone's lap moreso an intimate thing. Here's why...of all the chairs & things to sit on in the world, why chose that person's lap? Sitting on someone's lap represents comfort & closeness. It's also another way to flirt or be territorial. The reason alot of women sit on their boyfriends laps is b/c it represents a small form of intimacy & closeness b/w the 2 of them. And when you see a woman sitting on a male friend's lap, it represents the same thing, regardless of whether or not the title is there. Depending on the circumstances & depending on what the person sitting on their lap means to them, can decide if the whole "lap" thing should be taken lightly. If I walked up & saw a friend or some stranger sitting on my man's lap, I'd be offended b/c of what sitting on his lap could and probably DOES mean. It'd be a direct implication of disrespect, 1. b/c the woman is sitting on his "manhood" & possibly activating the part in him sexually that only I, as HIS woman should have access to. But it all depends on the person, the relationship/friendship & the circumstances. The whole "lap" thing is no different than giving men hickeys. To some, it represents being territorial over the person you already have OR want. To others, it's just a harmless sign that fun has or WILL take place.

1/3/2010 9:47:28 PM | More
P-Angel

55 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

"The whole "lap" thing is no different than giving men hickeys."



Sitting on laps is the same as sucking on someone's neck?



lol
1/3/2010 9:48:35 PM | More
P-Angel

55 years old female from Planet Neptune  

Just

I guess then ... looking deep into their eyes is the same as sucking his dick.
1/6/2010 6:02:41 PM | More
ninjamu

32 years old female

Ascendant: Aquarius Sun: Leo Moon

depends. i have male friends, some with girlfriends/boyfriends, whose lap i've sat upon in a purely platonic way. some of them are more naturally flirty than others. the girlfriends/boyfriends already know of it so it's not a big deal. would i be ok with some girl sitting on my guy's lap? depends on the girl and the relationship. some random chick in a bar would make me uncomfortable. however, i know that he isn't the type to allow that to happen anyway. he's not a PDA phobe but he's not really into it either.
1/6/2010 8:16:33 PM | More
The-Dream

25 years old male

^Would it still be platonic is two guys were sitting on each others laps?
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