Do Sags go back to ex flings?

FUMRedFairy_tales
is that part of Sag trait?

This younger man I dated on/off 2 years ago contacts me every 3-4 months wanting another run. Lately he is pursuing me even more agressively. He is writing me emails (super short ones like 'one more time?'); he is showing interest in my business; he invites me on his msn list. He asks me every week now if we can back together again. It is not in a romantic sense, we were more like FWB. There were times when I said, sorry.. am seeing someone... OR sorry... I am looking for more meaningful relationships.


He is an attractive man 16yrs my junior. I know there are tons of older women out there wanting just the occasional fling. I don't think he would have any difficulty finding one. So why ME???



brianafay
He's already tried you on and you fit well?
It's like your favorite outfit or pair of shoes...even when you buy new things you still end up wearing your favorites more because they're comfy and they look good on you, you know what to expect.
FUMRedFairy_tales
LOL... thx, Bri


I never thought that way...
Sagittarius89
Relationships - NO

Flings- Shometimes

I think if a sag is actually putting in effort to get to you, he may really wanna be with you again. Maybe it really worked, just need time to realize?


sagiluv
dont give it up.....he'll become more persistant, but once he does get it you wont see him for another 3-4 months..lol
FUMRedFairy_tales
Sag89 -- at the time it was great. Quite the revolution for me too, to be with someone like him. He is snake in chinese zodiac. I am Ox, which is one of the best matches. I felt it at the time, but because I was first fling as old as me for him... lol ... he kept on telling that he needed to find someone his age. All good...
FUMRedFairy_tales
sagiluv -- it's been 2 years since last time we were together. He is just contacting me every few months. When I said 'No' last time.. I think in February that was, he said, ok .. will ask you again in the summer

but it seems different this time.. I don't know...

was just wondering what is happening. I like his straightforward ways. If he had more charm working for him... like invite me to drinks or dinner,.. it may come to the sweet part of things, but he doesn't.. he insists on just having sex. That part is what I don't get...

FUMRedFairy_tales
jade -- yes that's him!

FUMRedFairy_tales
he doesn't want to meet for drinks..... just asking for straight sex


but why me?

would he be possibly afraid meeting for drinks because afraid of any kind of attachment?


Briana mentioned comfort... so I dont know. I wrote him back last night if he wants to meet than to find ways of charming me first.

I seriously don't get such level of bluntness.
sagiluv
Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
sagiluv -- it's been 2 years since last time we were together. He is just contacting me every few months. When I said 'No' last time.. I think in February that was, he said, ok .. will ask you again in the summer

but it seems different this time.. I don't know...

was just wondering what is happening. I like his straightforward ways. If he had more charm working for him... like invite me to drinks or dinner,.. it may come to the sweet part of things, but he doesn't.. he insists on just having sex. That part is what I don't get...



I Think he's simply Horney!! and Wants to have sex with "YOU"..but once he gets it, you wont hear from him again for a while...If you want him around play the game and dont give it up....
FUMRedFairy_tales
for how long...? lol
sagiluv
I'd suggest to make him do the chasing for a few Months like 3 or so, then give him the bestttt He's ever had....get him hooked!!
FUMRedFairy_tales
LOL...

2 months of chasing are already behind. He may get tired of it though.

hm... giving him the best doesn't sound such a bad idea...





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