Do Sags go back to ex flings?

3/23/2010 9:18:27 AM | More
FUMRedFairy_tales

female

Sun Scorpio Moon

is that part of Sag trait?

This younger man I dated on/off 2 years ago contacts me every 3-4 months wanting another run. Lately he is pursuing me even more agressively. He is writing me emails (super short ones like 'one more time?'); he is showing interest in my business; he invites me on his msn list. He asks me every week now if we can back together again. It is not in a romantic sense, we were more like FWB. There were times when I said, sorry.. am seeing someone... OR sorry... I am looking for more meaningful relationships.


He is an attractive man 16yrs my junior. I know there are tons of older women out there wanting just the occasional fling. I don't think he would have any difficulty finding one. So why ME???



3/23/2010 9:43:39 AM | More
brianafay

female from Florida  

December 9 1987.

He's already tried you on and you fit well?
It's like your favorite outfit or pair of shoes...even when you buy new things you still end up wearing your favorites more because they're comfy and they look good on you, you know what to expect.
3/23/2010 10:56:31 AM | More
FUMRedFairy_tales

female

Sun Scorpio Moon

LOL... thx, Bri


I never thought that way...
3/23/2010 12:46:35 PM | More
Sagittarius89

24 years old female

Can you feel the fiyaaaa?!

Relationships - NO

Flings- Shometimes

I think if a sag is actually putting in effort to get to you, he may really wanna be with you again. Maybe it really worked, just need time to realize?


3/23/2010 5:31:51 PM | More
sagiluv

dont give it up.....he'll become more persistant, but once he does get it you wont see him for another 3-4 months..lol
3/23/2010 6:02:15 PM | More
FUMRedFairy_tales

female

Sun Scorpio Moon

Sag89 -- at the time it was great. Quite the revolution for me too, to be with someone like him. He is snake in chinese zodiac. I am Ox, which is one of the best matches. I felt it at the time, but because I was first fling as old as me for him... lol ... he kept on telling that he needed to find someone his age. All good...

3/23/2010 6:06:48 PM | More
FUMRedFairy_tales

female

Sun Scorpio Moon

sagiluv -- it's been 2 years since last time we were together. He is just contacting me every few months. When I said 'No' last time.. I think in February that was, he said, ok .. will ask you again in the summer

but it seems different this time.. I don't know...

was just wondering what is happening. I like his straightforward ways. If he had more charm working for him... like invite me to drinks or dinner,.. it may come to the sweet part of things, but he doesn't.. he insists on just having sex. That part is what I don't get...

3/23/2010 6:11:15 PM | More
FUMRedFairy_tales

female

Sun Scorpio Moon

jade -- yes that's him!

3/23/2010 10:38:05 PM | More
FUMRedFairy_tales

female

Sun Scorpio Moon

he doesn't want to meet for drinks..... just asking for straight sex


but why me?

would he be possibly afraid meeting for drinks because afraid of any kind of attachment?


Briana mentioned comfort... so I dont know. I wrote him back last night if he wants to meet than to find ways of charming me first.

I seriously don't get such level of bluntness.
3/24/2010 6:16:44 PM | More
sagiluv

Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
sagiluv -- it's been 2 years since last time we were together. He is just contacting me every few months. When I said 'No' last time.. I think in February that was, he said, ok .. will ask you again in the summer

but it seems different this time.. I don't know...

was just wondering what is happening. I like his straightforward ways. If he had more charm working for him... like invite me to drinks or dinner,.. it may come to the sweet part of things, but he doesn't.. he insists on just having sex. That part is what I don't get...



I Think he's simply Horney!! and Wants to have sex with "YOU"..but once he gets it, you wont hear from him again for a while...If you want him around play the game and dont give it up....
3/24/2010 9:04:35 PM | More
FUMRedFairy_tales

female

Sun Scorpio Moon

for how long...? lol

3/25/2010 11:30:55 AM | More
sagiluv

I'd suggest to make him do the chasing for a few Months like 3 or so, then give him the bestttt He's ever had....get him hooked!!
3/27/2010 11:23:48 AM | More
FUMRedFairy_tales

female

Sun Scorpio Moon

LOL...

2 months of chasing are already behind. He may get tired of it though.

hm... giving him the best doesn't sound such a bad idea...

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