Help with how to behave with the saggie guy...

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1goodluck
7/23/2012 11:27:10 PM | IP
1goodluck

26 years old female

Hey everyone,

I'm a leo/ libra rising/ moon in pisces.
I met this saggie online a year ago, and he was acting all flaky so i never even became interested. And then two weeks ago, he got in touch with me and asked to meet uo since now he's in my city often. He was texting/calling me consistently every day until we met. And we hit it off right away. We were pretty close to having sex, and if i weren;t interested in him for something more serious, i'd totally sleep with him. Long story short, I'm falling hard. It's too early, and I know Im being impatient, but regardless..
One time I did not text him, he texted me saying I could've at least said hi ( in a nice way). And then a couple times, he wouldn't get in touch with me, and I'd obsess over it ( don;t judge me, I;m just a girl), I'd text him, and he'd be calling me back and texting and asking all kinds of questions..
Since I don't know what his chart looks like, my questions is this. generally, do you need to be available for saggies because they want attention or do you need to be less available because they like the chase? If it were up to me, I'd be in this guys face and in his bed 24/7, but since I can't do that and I need to stop obsessing, I need the general direction.

And another thing, sometimes he says things, and I totally believe he means them when he says them, and then he'll just forget about them. He followed through with everything he said, but for instance, if he says: I wanna go see that movie on thursday night, and then later, because we're seeing each other friday, he starts talking about friday plans and never gets back to thursday, can I point that out to him, or will he feel all threatened and limited? It's not an issue with him. I;m just wondering because I know that saggies think really quick..

How do saggie behave if they really like you?

Thanks guys
DMV
7/24/2012 7:42:56 AM | IP
DMV

31 years old

anybody else wanna be a hero? Sag S

sag men are into the chase and gettin the BOO-TAY. u can hold out if u want, but then he will get bored and move on to another stable.

Rafa13
8/13/2012 7:27:57 PM | IP

I can tell/relate to the last part "he means them when he says them" (since I am a saggitarian as well and sounds familiar):
He (I bet) really means it, but if he lost interest in hanging out, then he just doesn't want to do it anymore, isn't that he lied to you from the beginning, he just changed his mind later and didn't keep his promise (sounds rude, but hey other saggittarian ones, let's face we are like that), since we don't like to feel obligated to do something if we don't like it, not even obligated from us (this doesn't count when it comes to something really serious that may put someone else in hazard), so is just that. BTW, leos are way too good for sagittarians (so I have been told and witnessed on others, but for me not that much), and if yet he there isn't click between you both, you must look at your moon, moon is usually stronger in girls than the sun, and the other way around for men, so you are more a pisces with a secondary sign as leo, it can also be tell from the way you write about the situation and how do you feel (lovely btw, i can relate to pisces cause of my rising, but that is as far as it goes), so try to see where you stand first and then approach him. Pisces are told not to be a good match for saggs, but hey! don't let that stop you ever, everything is possible (saggitarius expansive mind talking).
Wynter
8/13/2012 9:41:19 PM | IP
Wynter

female from Jupiter  

Sagittarius

:::sighs:::
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