Why do I get bored so easily?!

happykitsune
I hate it how I really adore a guy for a while and then the next thing I know I want them to pull away a lil or just get away from me all together. If a guy makes it past a 1-2 week mark I'm very surprised and happy because I get bored so easily.
Do any other sagis have this problem?
I feel like the things I love so much are the things I end up hating the most later on. Maybe I should start hating first and then it'll end in love lol
DMV
yeah people especially the ones ive already slept with tend to get boring as hell. no depth.

ive learned to create my own fun...scorpio moon
Sagittarius89
Maybe you like the "idea" better than the actually thing. But hey don't we all?
bassace
self-destruction. sometimes i just feel driven to destroy things like that in my life. im not sure why, it doesnt happen all the time. maybe its the smart part of ourselves pushing away the people that the dumb part thinks its ok to hang out with
happykitsune
Actually I think I'm aquarius asc ....so what does that mean?
happykitsune
Posted by bassace
self-destruction. sometimes i just feel driven to destroy things like that in my life. im not sure why, it doesnt happen all the time. maybe its the smart part of ourselves pushing away the people that the dumb part thinks its ok to hang out with


Yeah I think you're onto something here. I'll get this moment where I find all the things I don't like about that person and say to myself "do you really want to get into something serious with this person?" Which can be very helpful and sobering because I take a min and step out of the infactuation to realize if this is the best idea for me. This is probably why people who pass this test are the ones I end up in relationships with for a long time. Either that or they pass the test then decide I'm not what they want.
bassace
ive read in a few places that sags "love their freedom, more than youll ever know". sad to say, but its true. i figure i take my "freedom" for granted because usually im just normal, but when soemthing or someone starts putting all these restrictions and commitments on me, i get all crazy inside and its like "back the treetrunk up!". this is prob the biggest reason i dont do well with cardinal signs, its like their thing to try and control you. fixed signs are alright, though scorpio and aqua lie a decent amount and thats pretty much a restriction. despite popular belief, not all tauruses are slave drivers..some i reallllly cant stand, but others are actually very appealing. mutable signs are like wtf. theres always some connection, but then it gets lost somewhere along the way (unless its another sag..its hard for us to get under each others skin). so yeah-freedom. taurus leo sag and pisces are the only signs i dont end up trying to push away from, though pisces have a bad dating rep in my book so ill have to keep them as the excellent friends they are
buttercup
I'm dating a sagiguy just like this, actually i've been dating sagis like this, classic sagi traits.
I'm a virgo and with sagis, I always find the greatest connections.
We always share the same idea of freedom & philosophical beliefs.
And I've come to an understanding that sagi needs that 'pushing people away' moment now and then.
I guess if your partner is strong enough by his/herself, he/she won't bother that much because they come around when they come around. Sagis know good stuff when they see it. They just need to sort their crazy emotions first.





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