Hi all. I'm a libra female and I'm interested in a sag male. We get along really great in most things, and there's hardly any subject in which we can't come to an agreement. The trouble is that we seem to have a commitment issue. Since he initially sparked our interests, I didn't feel threatened by his wanderlust. I'm okay with him wanting to explore, and space is not an issue, but I'm wondering, will he ever remember that I also have needs? It seems as though it's a perfect relationship for him, but I'm feeling stifled. Any suggestions?
I don't have the exact experience with a Sag... But did have a relationship with a male Aquarian that was the ideal relationship for him...but, not for me! I put up with promises for years...too long really... I finally realized that if I didn't do something about it...it would stay that way forever because he was so content with it...
You have to decide what is more important to you...your happiness or his...
Thanks for the advice MN. I think that I have given him everything that I am to make him happy, and what you said is just the case- he's just too content to want to change anything. I'll talk with him again, and if there is still no change... well, I'll have to be true to myself. Hopefully we can find a solution. I really do care alot for him.
Well, here's my 2 cents worth. Hope it helps: I too am a Libran female and have always had positive experiences with Sag males. You should have a good relationship with him, although, you might want to find out what year he was born in because the Chinese astrological calendar is just as valid as the Western one. This DOES make a difference. Ask to compare driver license cards to get a glimpse of his birth year. Look it up online and you'll find out what chines eanimal he is ruled by and whether your animal and his are compatible. Hold onto him for now. It could be that he's ambivalent about something--which may be unrelated to his sign. Good luck. Sloane
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Since he initially sparked our interests, I didn't feel threatened by his wanderlust. I'm okay with him wanting to explore, and space is not an issue, but I'm wondering, will he ever remember that I also have needs? It seems as though it's a perfect relationship for him, but I'm feeling stifled. Any suggestions?