why didnt she tell me?

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7/30/2012 7:43:31 AM | IP

31 years old

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ok so tauri broke up with my aries bff in a bathroom of a party a couple months ago. since then, she's been trying to reconcile with him but he tells her that he isnt ready. behind her back, he tells virgo that he doesnt want to be with her.

i dont really ask her "whats happening" but i felt like because we were friends that if she wants to talk she would give me the 411. i found out from virgo that tauri gave aries an ultimatum. he told her that he would take her back if he could watch her have sex with another man and than he would have sex with her. when virgo told me, i wasnt shocked. what i was shocked about is that she never told me about it. i kinda feel like ive let her into my life when she's been holding back on hers, u know? virgo told me that this isnt the first time tauri had asked her to do something like that. i got mad about that 2 because again, she never told me about it.

you can say that "well DMV, she doesnt have to tell you everything." but why tell virgo and not tell me? it comes across a bit fake to me. so ive adjusted and ive started to hold back with her.

in the past when she would tell me things about her relationship with the tauri, it was all the good stuff...almost bragging you know?! now that when things arent so rosey, i dont hear a word. when she would tell me something negative i would diagnose it and give her my opinion and be right nonetheless.

do u think she's embarrassed to tell me? do u think she trust virgo more than she trust me?

Wynter

7/30/2012 1:13:49 PM | IP

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Wynter

7/30/2012 1:15:21 PM | IP

female from Jupiter

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It sounds like aries lost trust in you.

jru2

7/30/2012 1:36:06 PM | IP

42 years old male

how do you feel about that proposition her guy made? do you think she should leave him? She might just be worried about being looked down on. Sometimes people already know what they are going to do, and they just want other people to assure them that whatever it is, it's "OK".

DMV

7/30/2012 1:42:26 PM | IP

31 years old

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Posted by jru2
how do you feel about that proposition her guy made? do you think she should leave him? She might just be worried about being looked down on. Sometimes people already know what they are going to do, and they just want other people to assure them that whatever it is, it's "OK".

i dated a tauri for about as year, so it doesnt surprise me. this guy hit on me b4 they met and he just came across as a sleazeball. i let her know b4 she dated him but she like his attention and gifts and dated him anyways. i guess she is a bit embarrassed since i called it.

i think that if she can match his level of freakiness, she should stay. if she cant then, she should cut her losses because he is going to be unhappy and cheat; relationship will breakdown. it isnt that he doesnt respect her, its that he is into a different kind of sex. she isnt really into sex, shes more into relationships.

DMV

7/30/2012 1:44:38 PM | IP

31 years old

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Posted by Wynter
It sounds like aries lost trust in you.

i think there is a reason why she picks and chooses what do talk to me about. maybe virgo is better at delivering the truth than i am. virgo seems to soften things up and not really tell the whole truth, if u get my drift. virgo will decide what tell aries because virgo hates delivering bad news. so she wont give her the whole story.

DMV

7/30/2012 2:01:50 PM | IP

31 years old

anybody else wanna be a hero? Sag S

by the way, i cant bring it up to the aries bec then she will know that virgo told me when she obviously doesnt want me to know.

Wynter

7/30/2012 2:19:17 PM | IP

female from Jupiter

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Posted by DMV
Posted by Wynter
It sounds like aries lost trust in you.

i think there is a reason why she picks and chooses what do talk to me about. maybe virgo is better at delivering the truth than i am. virgo seems to soften things up and not really tell the whole truth, if u get my drift. virgo will decide what tell aries because virgo hates delivering bad news. so she wont give her the whole story.

Perhaps Virgo is trying to drive a wedge between you and aries. They do have an insinuating way about them that could promote distrust in others, if it serves some sort of agenda they have.

DMV

7/30/2012 2:20:51 PM | IP

31 years old

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naw. virgo is harmless.

DMV

7/30/2012 2:42:09 PM | IP

31 years old

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Posted by MzSag
Just a few questions,

How often do you an the Aries talk? Perhaps she just hasn't gotten around to telling you about her relationship.

Does the Virgo drill information out of the Aries or does the Aries naturally confide in the Virgo? Maybe you should just ask her what's up!

Are you a worrier or do you have other things going on in your life that'd make the Aries not want to talk to you? Would there even be a reason why she wouldn't want to talk to you?

How often do you an the Aries talk? Perhaps she just hasn't gotten around to telling you about her relationship.

maybe its the sag in me, but i hate talking on the phone.

Are you a worrier or do you have other things going on in your life that'd make the Aries not want to talk to you? Would there even be a reason why she wouldn't want to talk to you?

i think this is it. thank you. i started a new job where i dont have anytime for anyone really. that would make sense.

very good. i feel better now.

LunarMaiden

7/30/2012 3:25:12 PM | IP