Do Scorpio men like affection or being "chased"?

9/20/2010 3:46:19 PM | More
Km12

I can never tell if the Scorpio man I'm dating is going to deny me if I reach in for a kiss or touch his hand. He gives off all the clues he's interested but comes off a bit shy or unsure to make a move. He says at school I don't act like I'm interested or miss him but it's because of his shyness. In all reality I do miss him and do like him. So Do they like subtle affection during the day? Any thoughts? Also do scorpios like to be chased or do they want to be the chasers?

The affection I want to give him at school is a quick kiss or a nice touch. I told him the other day I would kiss him at school and he said he doesn't believe me. Lol. So should I? Or no?
9/20/2010 4:03:33 PM | More
PhoenixScorpio

lol how young is this Scorpio? I'm assuming you're both in high school? Kiss him at school if you won't get suspended or something. He wants you to. Also take charge because you're dealing with a baby Scorpio. When I was in high school I was like that. Very very shy. He might be hard to read, but he will not reject you if you lean in for a kiss or show him affection. Actually shower him with affection. Build his confidence. Don't hold back. What I mean by that is show him the natural honest affection you want to show him. Don't overdo it, but if you feel like you want to say you miss him. Tell him. Let him know how much you really like him & miss him.

When he said, "I don't believe you." he was saying, "I want you to kiss me!!!! A LOT!!!!" lol

When I was younger I liked to be chased because if I was being chased I knew I wouldn't be rejected. It sounds like the same with this guy. He hasn't grown his balls yet. I'm assuming he's a virgin?

Anyway don't be unsure. He wants affection from you. He wants you to hold his hand. He wants you to kiss him. He wants to know how much you miss him & care about him. He won't deny you unless you start getting ridiculous & become a stalker or really really clingy. Just do what you want to do. You're going to have to take the lead & start initiating from now on until he grows a pair & gets some confidence. Before you know it he's going to start kissing you once he knows you won't reject him & once he's comfortable with you.
9/20/2010 4:07:07 PM | More
Kleo

30 years old from Planet Earth  

Love child

Everyone needs some affection, unless you're a weirdo. Kiss him at school

I've chased Scorpios and they've chased me. No clue how, but I've attracted quite a few triple scorpios. Being a Gemini, supposedly they can't read me very well, so they are often unsure in their approach, albeit persistent in attempts. When I start initiating contact with them a bit, it gives them confidence that I'm into them.
9/20/2010 4:22:59 PM | More
Sea Siren

from Full Fathom Five  

Pisces Sun/Scorp Rising Moon/Mars/Mer

My hubz doesn't dig PDA. But he DOES dig sex in public places. So *shrug* figure that one out! Ah, the enigma that is scorpio.

A lot of Scorpio men are used to being pursued so they tend to just wait for women to fall into their lap. By contrast, a woman who doesn't do this intrigues them and, if she gains his trust, he will pursue her to the ends of the earth.
9/20/2010 4:28:48 PM | More
scorpiopics

Posted by Km12
I can never tell if the Scorpio man I'm dating is going to deny me if I reach in for a kiss or touch his hand. He gives off all the clues he's interested but comes off a bit shy or unsure to make a move. He says at school I don't act like I'm interested or miss him but it's because of his shyness. In all reality I do miss him and do like him. So Do they like subtle affection during the day? Any thoughts? Also do scorpios like to be chased or do they want to be the chasers?

The affection I want to give him at school is a quick kiss or a nice touch. I told him the other day I would kiss him at school and he said he doesn't believe me. Lol. So should I? Or no?


Yes, yes and yes.
9/20/2010 4:58:55 PM | More
Shadows



Sun Aquarius Moon Aries Mercury Pisces

Posted by Sea Siren
My hubz doesn't dig PDA. But he DOES dig sex in public places. So *shrug* figure that one out! Ah, the enigma that is scorpio.

A lot of Scorpio men are used to being pursued so they tend to just wait for women to fall into their lap. By contrast, a woman who doesn't do this intrigues them and, if she gains his trust, he will pursue her to the ends of the earth.


Ive found that its hard to earn their trust without falling all over them, no?

9/20/2010 5:11:36 PM | More
Sea Siren

from Full Fathom Five  

Pisces Sun/Scorp Rising Moon/Mars/Mer

It's hard to earn their trust no matter what. The classic Catch 22. It's like a balancing act. You can show affection without losing your dignity, and thereby also earn his respect. Scorpios see right through forced sentiment, anyway, so it would do no good.
9/20/2010 5:33:24 PM | More
Shadows



Sun Aquarius Moon Aries Mercury Pisces

Definitely a balancing act!
9/20/2010 6:36:50 PM | More
Km12

Thanks everyone for the feedback. Tomorrow I'm just gonna do it. Funny cause my horoscope today told me to take a risk at something im unsure about. I may just hit jack pot! Lol let's hope this is the case.
9/21/2010 1:17:09 PM | More
CancVenusGem

Posted by Kleo
Everyone needs some affection, unless you're a weirdo. Kiss him at school

I've chased Scorpios and they've chased me. No clue how, but I've attracted quite a few triple scorpios. Being a Gemini, supposedly they can't read me very well, so they are often unsure in their approach, albeit persistent in attempts. When I start initiating contact with them a bit, it gives them confidence that I'm into them.


Do scopios like gemini? I am a cancer, but my rising, venus and moon in gemini...And most of the time I behave like gemini..Scorpios seem to love me, even though they don't know me..
9/21/2010 3:00:13 PM | More
PhoenixScorpio

lol people like people. It's not like Scorpio is a gang & we don't mess with the Geminis. Traditionally Scorpios & Geminis don't last in the long run though. I get a long great with Geminis at first, but it never lasts. The ones I've interacted with would last in a long term romantic relationship. We just think in entirely different ways.


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