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|give me a few minutes to gather my thoughts.|
(btw, let me apologize to you in advance.)
|(btw, let me apologize to you in advance.) lol ok|
|dont really know,gotta find a way to keep it moving for the positive though|
|we were walking around for about 2 months brooding over bills,then her mom offered to let her live there bill free and she decided she wanted to bounce,real abrupt,obviously well thought out though|
|Okay, first lets talk about you.|
You have a nice chart. I'm not being sarcastic.
Plus, you are a cusper? October Scorpio....born close to or on the cusp of libra. This makes you an awesome guy. Seriously, scorp/libras are very laid back kind of guys. Very fair and not as intense as some of the later scorpio decans.
Virgo Moon - you can be overcritical. Think back....were you riding her ass about something? Only because you cared, but riding her ass nonetheless. You can tend to be overcritical to the ones close to you and that can wear on someone's nerves. Especially if you ever did it in public, even moreso if you did it front of family.
You also overanalyze everything. Chillax a little. Let things work themselves out. You don't need all angles, sometimes things just need to take their natural course.
Your merc in libra tries to keep the arguments balanced and fair and you always try to see both sides. Unfortunately, with her personality it sometimes seemed impossible. Like you were talking yourself in circles? This is, by far, one of the best mercs to have.
Venus in Sag. You like your independence and you don't like all the deep mushy crap. You can be loyal to your partner but you have no problems drawing the lines with female friends. You like to have female friends that are strictly platonic and see no problem with that. That may be a problem for her...I'll tell you about that in a minute.
Mars in Virgo. You take on a lot of responsibility and can be a little passive. You carry a full plate and sometimes that makes you seem scattered. You don't have to juggle everything. Let a few of the balls your juggling fall to the ground. The world is not going to come to an end. You take on too much and then you may become annoyed as hell and a bit resentful (hence the riding her ass about something petty). You have a system and a routine and you don't like when it gets effed up. Lighten up just a bit and take time appreciate the little things around you. Life is not a planner...sometimes things need to go off course for you to enjoy yourself.
Lilith in Sag. You have to be aware of this. You can like too much independence and the people around you can feel exiled because you can jump to friend to friend to friend...burning bridges in your path. I'm not saying you are like this. Lilith is a demon we have to overcome. Hold your friends close and make sure they know you care.
Posted by brandon24
dealt wit scorpios like this before, she just cant let go and is angry at either herslef for being incapable of detachment or you for abandoning her
and im not saying you did but scorpio women that are fucced up mentally(not all of them are, i know i couldnt believe it at first either)will do the typical water sign thing and victimize themselves, theirs is just more malicious and they blame you for butter.
i wouldnt even give her any answers but yall have kids together, so kinda hard not to keep some form of contact
|Let me guess, her mother never liked u? EXACT OPPOSITE,FAMILY LOVES ME|
Bill free, it wasn't working out anyway...you didn't give her a good enough reason to stay. YOUR PROBABLY RIGHT, I GUESS I HAVE TO LIVE AND LEARN,NOT SURE
|Moon in gem. This is tough for a scorp because we are naturally introverted. She likes to talk. She likes to tell stories and exaggerate them. When she is pissed.YOU KNOW IT. There is no hiding it. She wears emotions on her sleeve and can tend to have a larger than normal ego. We have large egos anyways but hers is a little bloated. Everything is about her, especially if she is upset about something...well, even if she is happy about something. She can seem a little selfish sometimes but it's not selfishness. Google gemini in moon and you will see what i mean. |
Merc in scorp. Her merc is a good one too. She doesn't beat around the bush but she may hide the truth for the sake of hurting feelings. She tries to be diplomatic but it doesn't come out that way. It just comes out as statements. Pay attention to those. She calls it the way she sees it. Right, wrong or indifferent. It's how she sees it.
Venus in scorp. Here is the one that is kicking YOUR ass. She's possessive, jealous and can tend to be insecure. You even look at another chic and it's ON. You don't get this because you have no problems being friends with women but SHE DOESN'T. So tread lightly. Venus in scorps don't give up. You have to pull their cold dead fingers from the grip they have. She must be mad pissed at you over something. They never walk away peacefully when scorned.
Mars in cap. Predictable, controlled. She has incredible will power and once she makes a decision she has tunnel vision. If you stood in her path and tried to hold her back she'd immediately resent you. She's possessive. This is a double whammy with the venus in scorp. She wants to claim her man and to be claimed back. This combination can be a little clingy, especially on a water sign like scorp. You have to show your love, with actions. Words don't mean crap. But be careful because EVERY word that is spoken is FOREVER remembered. They don't forget anything or the context in which it was said.
Lilith in cap. This is difficult to have. She can have violent mood swings. Happy. Sad. Depressed. Doom and Gloom central. She has no limits. She will try anything and her mind will push her further. This is one of those demons I was talking about. If you are aware of what it is that you should expect, you can control it. I'd say it's probably worse for a woman, especially after giving birth and hormones are all over the place. This will test your patience to the fullest, but if you know what it is...you can deter it
|i wouldn't even give her any answers but y'all have kids together, so kinda hard not to keep some form of contact|
I mean we speak,but i give one word answers,maybe a little hurt and bitter for sure no problem admitting that,the positive is i will NEVER bad mouth her in front of my son,i believe parents that do that reap the consequences in the long run,i want him to think his mom is superwoman,and i honestly don't think she bad mouths me in front of him,and that is a huge positive for him,i am thankful for that
Don't take anything I say to the bank. Take it with a huge grain of salt. I'm just an anonymous scorpio chic on a message board.
|Don't take anything I say to the bank. Take it with a huge grain of salt. I'm just an anonymous Scorpio chic on a message board.|
thank you for doing all that,i appreciate it,sincerely,no sarcasm
|you are welcome.|
you have a interesting battle in front of you Mr. Scorpio.
but I think you have the tools within yourself to master it.
Posted by brandon24
hmmmmm...if you say so i was good as hell with the family, was in th same situation, stayed bill free, and im not talking about the family i was talking about her
i wouldnt post things on here that im defensive about tho only hurts yourself