how can one tell if a scorpio girl is interested?

DrZhivirgo
Hey Folks,

I have previously posted here before.

as I have been in the dating/friendship/courting process with a sublime Scorpio girl... who has got me in her spell.

The girl has a partner, but I have been in touch with her daily for almost 3 months we go out pretty much 5-8 times a month together doing various stuff.

It has been fun and I am fully enchanted by this creature.


I just would like a scorpio girl here to express to me how they have been known to show their interest in the opposite sex?


what I have struggled with so far with my scorpio girl is, when we both run out of things to say to each, there is the most intense awkward silence one can think of.... it's un-bareable.

bare in mind folks we do have a good conversational repoire but sometimes it just goes quiet and I can't bare it.... neither can she and she has voiced out about this to me.

how can I as a man be more intriguing to her during these moments.

btw I ama Virgo if you couldn't tell by the names


DrZhivirgo the bastard son of Dr Seuss


&2gedanow
Haha, cool name.
FUMRedFairy_tales
Ask her...


she will tell you if she is charmed by you or just wants to be friends.

Don't play with her mind later on if things get more serious. She is not free and you shouldn't think of yourself as the fixer upper. Only take this step if you can see yourself going to the next level with her.









FUMRedFairy_tales
oh.. and to your question

she probably is interested in you since she spends so much time with you. We are not social butterflies...

Eaglegirl
Hmmmm........

Agree with the poster who said "If she's spending time with you, she likes you -- we are not social butterflies." My guess is that the man she's with is not giving her enough affection or sex to make it a long-term thing -- but we Scorps are usually pretty loyal and hang on till the end.

Scorp females are like guys in that we are usually sexually interested in our friends of the opposite sex -- so the Scorp/Virgo spark is definitely there.

A worry: between her real boyfriend and you, how is she finding time for work/career which we girl Scorps usually take seriously? If she's a flakey immature Scorp, that's okay, I guess, as long as you are willing to hang in there for the agonizing inner changes we have to go through to get our butter together! Still, if you're game for it

If I were trying to get my hooks into the female Scorp, I would: a) talk about how interested you are in finding a life-time soul mate and how willing you are to take a lot of time to get to know the other person b) sigh, and complain about your high sex drive and how you feel it's a way to express all sorts of deep feelings c) tell her how wonderful and deep she is, and how she has a special aura, but be very polite, too, open doors for her etc. She may not show as much appreciation outwardly as many signs, but inside her volcano will be getting ready to erupt.

You have to be willing to put ALOT into the Scorpio female in terms of love and affection and making her feel special, and at first you may not be rewarded. But your reward will come, my friend
Eaglegirl
Also, let drop subtley how well you are doing in your work and career. Scorps don't like clingy people, and need to know that you have other outlets. Good luck.
Pride of 0ctober
if she fuccs u she likes u
DrZhivirgo
Eagle Girl..... thanks for your well responded post, What you have stated in your emails has resonated with me fully.

The Scorp girl I have fallen for is price



QUOTE...."If she's spending time with you, she likes you -- we are not social butterflies."

My scorpio girl has stated often it is rare for her to bother with people, yet she likes hanging around with me??


QUOTE "Scorp females are like guys in that we are usually sexually interested in our friends of the opposite sex -- so the Scorp/Virgo spark is definitely there."

TOTALLY AGREE and what a spark it is, well for me, I never felt this way before!!

QUOTE "A worry: between her real boyfriend and you, how is she finding time for work/career which we girl Scorps usually take seriously?"

She is very loyal to her boyfriend, which I really respect, but at the same time the tension frustrates the hell out of me, cos once I erupt I will be a volcano hahaha, she takes her work very seriously, she is ambitious & I like that about her, she is successful.


QUOTE - If I were trying to get my hooks into the female Scorp, I would:
a) talk about how interested you are in finding a life-time soul mate and how willing you are to take a lot of time to get to know the other person

DONE, multiple times

b) sigh, and complain about your high sex drive and how you feel it's a way to express all sorts of deep feelings

DONE, but my sighing is truthful, as for the sex drive... well my mojo is messed up.

c) tell her how wonderful and deep she is, and how she has a special aura, but be very polite, too, open doors for her etc. She may not show as much appreciation outwardly as many signs, but inside her volcano will be getting ready to erupt.

DONE.... in fact I open doors loads.... for example I will open her door on the car for her etc?? I never knew this actually worked??

You have to be willing to put ALOT into the Scorpio female in terms of love and affection and making her feel special, and at first you may not be rewarded. But your reward will come, my friend

WOW I Can't wait!!!!


thanks Eagle GIRL,

DR ZHIVIRGO..... the man who can?
VirgoHero
If she likes to tie you up and bite, you're in.
MissSting
she has got a partner, scorpio's are loyal to the person they are with...you will just have to wait your turn..
thefish
Im not even sure why your posting .... oi anyone whos chasing a woman who is clearly taken is a cur. I mean if she likes you and she broke up with him to chase you or get together thats one thing. But i think your reading to far in and pushing the envelope. If she did cheat and go with you i could guarantee your fate would be the same some day. So really if you were remotely mentally acute, you would leave this platonic.

Sadly i dont think thats the case but to even proselytize her devotion to the boyfriend, paints a poor picture of you as a human being. If you want her tell her and have her break it off elsewhere. But to continue to play games with someone else in the picture just makes you a grifter. So make your move and do it right or shut up and move on.

Your whole question and motive are immoral.
AslanMane
- This lion thinks ScorpiusIII is even more of a man-just like me than he is! You would have made a good fire sign LOL





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