Lisa, If you're being used as a booty call, the operative word is used. That can only happen if you allow it to happen. If sex is his only interest he is just using you and you're obviously aware of that and allow it. If it meets your needs and you can handle being a sex object, just let it ride but if you have self respect and want to be more than a piece of tail, maybe you should shut him off and walk. I hate to give you any advice to dump someone because I"m hoping we can get together and it would certainly be a conflict of interest for me.
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what is that mean? and how to let things happen naturally?