Like a Cow...

I am utterly confused!
So...this is related to my little thing having to do with a friend of mine that I was looking into being a little more than friends with but with no annoying ties of a relationship.
Now, I had texted two weeks ago saturday to arrange something and he said he wasnt sure if he was busy and that he would call.
Never did, I brought it up a week later (when he told me he wanted to arrange something) and he said I should have called, that he hadn't even done anything.
So on friday (this past) we meet up, we hang, we end up outside a friends house blah blah.
Says a bunch of things, compliments w/e. Including crap about showering, sleeping over, blah blah.
He instant messages right when I get on (dont know if its normal), texts sometimes when I'm not online, asked once to pass by and get a kiss (I said it wasnt part of the deal AT ALL).
But he hasnt said about meeting again, and I dont want to say it until the weekend cause...well, I feel I'm more sexual then he is.
And sometimes I feel he wants something more out of it, but I get queasy thinking of a relationship...haha. Idk what to think.
I dont know how these things work!
Its silly, but right now, I am COMPLETELY lost.
Please help! 😢
And IN CASE of any confusion, hes a taurus lol.

Annoyed, I'm a little confused are you basically saying all you want is a sexual relationship?? If that's the case it's usually more carefree, you hook up whenever it's convenient for you both, there's no pressure to hook up. Now if you want something more then you've got to be more clear in what you say and do. If he wanted to come for a kiss he's looking for something a little more, you asking a few times to see him gives him mixed signals. Just my opinion and it's been awhile since I've had a no strings attached situation so maybe some of the others can give more insight.

Annoyed, Most Taurus guys take it real slow and are usually very cautious at first till you earn their trust and a till they are sure that YOU REALLY WANT THEM!

I think in your case, I see that he is giving you SUBTLE hints that he wants to be closer to you but you aren't letting him in, sorta.

My Taurus was real slow in the beginning and wouldn't even flirt with me till I actually decided to make a move and give him a hug...!!! AND THEN it was all SUPER, I tell Ya!!!!! He lost all inhibitions and was all over me from that day on!!!

I guess you need to give him a lil more time but if he still doesn't make a move, try taking a subtle step forward and SHOW him you really like him, etc! You might be amazed and surprised what this great guy has to offer!!! All the best!

Another thing to add is that if you're looking for a short fling then forget it coz Taurus are usually in for a long-term and are very willing to settle down.. They need to feel secure, in every sense of the word!

Guys you dont understand, and even though it may look like im looking for something more im not.
I noticed on saturday because my pants were on fire and I needed that little outlet, I dont want anything romantic.
I just dont know how this thing works, do I call whenever I feel the need or does he?
I dont know if he is just weird in how hes treating it or if its normal, and I dont want to be too forward and just...i have no clue.
I'm going to write a handbook, no lie!
Once I figure out how this goes...🙂

LMAO GB hahahahahaha that's hilarous.

Girlfriend....He is trying to show you that he likes you...if all your looking for is a booty call then I don't think this man is the right man to do it with...That is unless he doesn't like you and isn't interested in more...From what your saying, sounds like he wants more...

Especially if you did the deed on Saturday and he calls/texts/im and asks for kisses..he likes you...The reason he probably didn't call 2 weeks ago when he said he would was because he probably likes you and didn't want to be your boy toy, but since you brought it up again, he obliged... I may be way off base but this is my thoughts...
Good luck with this one...ermmm.

If you find out that he wants more than you do out of this...
because if he does, and you don't...
you should not hurt him. (let him go)
But that doesn't go to say that you're trying to convince us...
but only trying to convince yourself...
that YOU don't wands more. (cuz if you do...)

You two might make a better pair than F W B!
You as a Cancer... should know that.

OH YEAH!!! & GB... you ain't right.

"be womanly about it. be like Grand Theft Auto where you invite him for some "coffee" at night"

ROFL

*sighs*
"OH YEAH!!! & GB... you ain't right."

That wouldnt work?! 😢 I was hoping that would be an easy way!

"Especially if you did the deed on Saturday and he calls/texts/im"

He did that before...but he was always always trying to "help me" before this.

"you should not hurt him. (let him go)"

This guy is honestly very great, but if he would have had a problem with it wouldnt he have said...I can't have something with you without having a connection?
ACTUALLY.
He did, before, we had talked about the subject but to my knowledge when we started there was nothing ABSOLUTELY no emotion involved!
Thats why when he wanted to stop by for a "taste" I said, "thats not what its all about?"

Hm. I think I'll just leave it and go with the flow. When my pants say "hey, take me off" and I will say something. Simpleee right?
That should work for me haha. 🙂

And you guys seriously make me smile, I must say you guys have me more confused!

Oh GB...who doesnt? 😉

Hmmmm...yeah, your right.
At least for now haha.

22, I think he'll be fine...he looks sturdy.

So you've tried this?

Alrighty then 🙂