Scorpio female/Taurus male

scorp5pt0
Started seeing my Taurus male about a month and a half ago. After our first date, I was kinda indifferent...can take him or leave him.

But then I saw him a second and a third time, and each time I saw more and more things to like about him. He contacted me daily, spent a lot of time with me, being very affectionate, both in private and public. We have great conversations and genuinely enjoy each other's company.

Then a couple of weeks ago he pulled back, said he doesn't want to get too attached...am a little confused, thought maybe he was giving me the brushoff but the last time I saw him everything felt the same ... are there other scorp/taurus combos experiencing the same thing?? would love to hear from you
scorp5pt0
i guess i should add that even though he says he wants to keep it casual, doesn't feel like it's casual when we're together.
VeNuS ViXeN
it's definitely a risk, girl, but the question is -- is it a risk that you're willing to take??

i'm a taurus girl who's in a relationship with a scorpio guy (for over a year now), and we're really starting to understand each other. but a part of that is that our moons are compatible (this is pretty important), although we still have more than our share of personal melt-downs.

but yeah, just read some of my other posts on this pairing for more info.

they should help you, even in the least bit.
VeNuS ViXeN
just know what you're dealing with, and things should go fine, scorp5pt0.

taurusgoddess
I'm with a scorp and we love each other like crazy. There has been stress & ups & downs but if you can focus on the reason you are together & communicate properly it's amazing. Good luck!
scorp5pt0
thanks, Venus Vixen and Taurus Goddess! i really appreciate your input - you've both given me some hope!!!

Venus, I will def. look up your previous posts to gather more info. my dob is Oct 27/1970 and his is Apr 23/1976 (hooray for younger men!! :$) i think my moon is in libra and his in aquarius, i looked it up somewhere. not sure about compatibility of those two signs....

taurusgoddess
Libra with Aquarius
Compatibility Score - 9/10

Your two moon signs are 120 degrees apart in a Trine angle. There will usually be a great understandingand respect between the two of you in this relationship. It is highly likely that you will both have similar desires and motivations.

You may share considerable understanding and opinion, along with respect for each other. Your Moon signs indicate that you are well matched. Libra is typically a Moon sign of friendship, charm and tact, and elegance, while an Aquarius Moon is one of flair, originality and humanitarian sincerity. Together you each may find long-term success in this relationship.
scorp5pt0
Thanks, TG !!!

altho my Taurus guy has been away for a biz trip for a week and a half now, with no communication. obviously i know where this is headed....
VeNuS ViXeN
you might be right, and you might be right while missing a little sidenote. tauruses need their space sometimes -- it's pretty important to them. but it doesn't mean that they don't care, it's just how they work. but no matter what the case is, he's probably got you in his mind constantly. we're so loyal that if we're *actually* commited to you, we'd take you everywhere with us -- you're just forever stuck in our hearts if you "successfully" made your way there. awWwWwWww.
VeNuS ViXeN
lol but yeah, just remember some caution in the coupling. a lot of confusion is often in the air, but *knowing* about that can do a lot of good. i'm tellin' ya, if you know what you're dealing with, things would be at least easier to deal with (although it won't ever be something subtle).

and trust me, there's volcanic activity under a taurus's skin, as well -- we're just REALLY bad at expressing it........
taurusgoddess
My scorp panics when we don't talk for a few days, and the funny thing is I freak out too! I find we're more alike than we think.
scorp5pt0
"but no matter what the case is, he's probably got you in his mind constantly."

Venus, reading those words put a smile on my face

weird you say that i'm probably on his mind coz i do get that feeling ... like an instinct or something. still feel connected somehow.

BUT

my realistic side wars with my instincts, and each day that passes that side gets stronger and tells me "hell no, you're the last thing on his mind, that's why he's not contacting you!"

funny thing is that i didn't expect him to contact me while he was away, but was hoping an IM once or twice during this past week would've made me happy, am not talking about everyday contact. i mean, he's in Canada, not on vacation somewhere.

from the realistic side of things ... i should be drawing the conclusion that the no contact, coupled with him saying "i don't want to get too attached" should scream at me to get out, you're going to get hurt.

yet am hoping he is just taking this time & space to figure things out.

ya i know, we've only been together a short while. but it has been intense, we spent a lot of our spare time together (most of which he initiated, btw), made me feel like i was special to him and can't help it - i went and got emotionally involved already.




"we're so loyal that if we're *actually* commited to you, we'd take you everywhere with us -- you're just forever stuck in our hearts if you "successfully" made your way there."

i guess this is the crucial part...figuring out if we "actually", "successfully" make a real connection. i read somewhere that Taurus takes a long time to figure this out, so am curious as to your thoughts on how long it took you guys to decide / figure out things with your scorpio guys.....
Scorpionlady
scorp5pt0

You are not a lone I am with a Taurus Guy and I am almost ready to give it up for more reasons than just him being stubborn, mean and moody. I have been knowing my T Guy for almost 2 years and this year we just started dating.

Maybe with a little help from TG and Venus, we can understand these guys a little better.

"ya i know, we've only been together a short while. but it has been intense, we spent a lot of our spare time together (most of which he initiated, btw), made me feel like i was special to him and can't help it - i went and got emotionally involved already"


I think I am emotionally involved also but I am fighting it like hell, I can not let him see me have another emotional breakdown he has seen be break down emotionally twice already, one was on me and the other he provoked, then got sensitive when he saw that I was going through it.



Scorp5pt0

"we're so loyal that if we're *actually* commited to you, we'd take you everywhere with us -- you're just forever stuck in our hearts if you "successfully" made your way there."

Are you talking about Scorpios here? If so I so agree.

taurusgoddess
"we spent a lot of our spare time together "

Talk about an addictive connection. My scorp would text me that he's addicted & craving me. I smile and feel the same, it's so weird. I've never been this way in other relationships, and the last 30 days before he moved we spent EVERY weekend, weekday evening & nights together. I usually love my space but being next to him felt like the exact place I needed to be.

Seems like scorps desire things & demand it, & your fire breaks down the taurus "emotional control" we have & brings us to feel things that we have hidden deep inside. It is always there, our fire, we just keep it hidden & our true happiness comes when we release it.

Why would I change that or avoid it, I couldn't even if I wanted to. SURRENDER!! hehe
Scorpionlady
So GreatBull what is the story on Taurus, since you are one. Give some pointer, some ups and downs about you types of guys. What does or will it take, to bring out the passion that you have so deep inside of you?
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