Scorpio male hopelessly in love with taurus...

Hey guys, just to get this started. This person. Means so much to me. Everything. Every moment she is on my mind - when I wake up and when I'm falling asleep and everything in between. You know people say they'd do anything for the people they love. I would really give everything I have, for her. Everything. Just to be with her. Just for her.

I'm a scorpio born on november 9, if that helps.

I thought I loved before. I thought I did. I hadn't this is first love. This is true love. She's very pretty but shes not the most attractive person in the world, because she smoked in her childhood and drank. I personally despise these things and will never smoke EVEN drink, yes drink in my life. I'm also vegeterian. So besides her being so attractive she has teeth ruined by smoking and whatnot. I don't care though, you could put the most attractive woman on earth in front of me and I would pick her.

I don't understand her. She said shes loved me in the past, after I've said but 1 or 2 days after. She's sometimes very into me and then suddenly she turns me from her everything into a stranger.

Even as we speak, she might not even care if I'm writing poems for her - singing songs for her or whatever, but I'll still continue to love her.

She once stopped talking to me, and said I fell into your trap and every thinking moment I think about you. I want you. I want you. I'm just another girl you charmed with your ways, and stuff. (don't know where that came from).

I convinced her to start talking me to again. I writ her poems, I left her voicemails on her phone of my crying.
Still, its always about her. She doesn't ask me much about me. It's always about her problems mostly. I don't mind though. I always ask her how shes feeling, if i've done anything wrong, and I always apologize. not like that though she does say, don't be sorry its my fault and all. but when something like this happens (this) and the one i will explain later its like im trying to talk to her and shes just doing what she wants at her will.

Then. it went great for 2 or 3 weeks just talking, and on MSN we would be talking till like 3am in the morning and then its like the same thing happened as above and she said we are talking all the TIME, we dont have to its not like we are going out. i dont understand. :S then things slowly cut off, by her ignoring, not responding properly.

Then on MSN, blocking and unblocking, blocking saying we should get on with each others lives, then a week

It's mad. Then last week she said I just want to get the train over to yours and hug you and hope everything will be alright. I imagined it.
Then she starts being un-cooperative again.

I don't understand. I'm doing everything I should.

Thanks for listening or READING lol. to all this stupid nonsense. so tell this idiot, something.
thanks

Yeah. Well I wrote my own poems, I wonder how he would express his feelings with these 'googled' poems.
Thanks for the replies everyone first of all.

I guess I was wrong with the crying, don't think she really cared. It wasn't intentional though. Honest. Was leaving a message and it just naturally came out...

@M.Bull - The vegeterian joke...yeah..not..funny...in my opinion ;/

The using thing i'm not too sure, it was solid for a while and then there were just two huge gaps about me supposedly being the only thought in her mind etc

@Dabull - Thanks for the well thought out reply, it's very well appreciated! -
No I don't use the smoking and stuff with her at all. My dads a TYPICAL scorpio and I've seen what happens when he gets angry first hand. I've channeled all my energy on being a better person. I hope I am.

I do have a ego no lie, but I don't flaunt it or anything. Everyone has a bit of a ego? No? It's just me then...Oh..):...Oh well xP

@M.bull again...What are you talking about? I didn't mention sex...:S

Any more feedback? Thankyou so much

Mkay, Ma' am.

Oh no way. I think drinking is fine. Anything in excess is bad though. I just choose not to do it. I don't like smoking though (:
Thanks alot. Sorry don't wish to reveal age.

Taurus women (typically) do not like any men that they think they can walk all over - not implying that's the case with you IcyG, but if she perceives you as such, then she will "act out" ... i.e, the way she's been doing. I'm not saying you shouldn't stay true to yourself, because you should ALWAYS be who you are and not change for anyone, but as Bella and DaBull have indicated, Taurus women and Scorpio Men are sometimes fraught with a lot of issues! I was never married to one, but I did date a few off and on from time to time, and while the chemistry would be off the charts...everything else suffered by their manipulative nature, oftentimes condescending ways, and extreme jealousy. Not to imply I was perfect in any of the relationships, because if you rub me the wrong way, I will LET you know it, and it's not always a pretty scene.
Anyway, if you say you love her, then I think you should simply state it as such, and let her know that you aren't sure by her actions what she is or is not feeling towards you, and if she isn't feeling you in that way, then to let you know and it will save you both some time. What will happen then is, she will have to make a choice. You aren't giving her an ultimatum, you are essentially telling her that you love her, but you won't be around forever, and now the ball is in her court for her a short period of time, until you move on. If a Taurus woman wants you and wants to be with you...trust me, she will move HEAVEN and EARTH to be w/you, and to love you up so much that you will be like "Whoaaaaaaa!" LOL! There isn't too much we won't do for someone once we fall in love - it's a blessing and a curse 😉

Awwww what a sweety. Don't give her so much attention. Seems like you are doing right. She is the one with the issues.

Im yet another Taurus woman that dealt with a Scorpio and I never felt like his crying was sincere. It seemed like an act of emotional manipulation. I despised it and felt bad for shunning his feelings. Thats until I found out he didnt really have any. Naw he has them....I just dont he's comfortable with them on all fronts. Scorpios come off as so strong when in reality they're just pushy for fear of letting anyone else lead. They sing and read poems and say the right things when the time calls for it (usually right after their selfishness is confronted). I think you might want to give her some space and if she ever comes around again, stop talking and blubbering so much and let your actions speak louder. You typed a lot about talking and singing but you didnt say anything about showing and proving.....

yeah, the smothering is not attractive. plus, another very unattractive thing, is acting like her personal doormat. u need to step up and man up. i can't speak on behalf of all females, but, most females i know still do want that MAN. i could not respect a man that just bends over and takes it; passive. aggressive is not good either but assert urself. ur complaining that it's all about her and she never asks about u. say something! voice ur concerns and draw a line. tell her how ur feeling and what ur expectations are. she can then make the choice to take it or leave it and u also have to accept the consequences. if she takes off then leave her be. maybe she'll come back around and maybe she won't. the clinginess is borderline freudian and it seems ur looking for a mother and not a partner.

lol Madelena, seems like it.


J/K. I think a lot of guys are attracted to Taurus females, but we're the type who knows who and what we want so few of them make it very far.

Aww, c'mon folks. Give the scorp gentleman a break. How about some practical advice on how he can get with his Taurus girl? I think it's sweet that he writes poems for her.

Yikes, you have same b-day as my man, and I'm a taurus. Crazy mix, but full of love.

Yeah im not going to lead the guy into a bull pit with a red ribbon fluttering aimlessly in the breeze either.....poems are great unless you're not interested then its just mindless blabber.

I am a Taurus, and I actually like a Scorpio. In my opinion, opposites attract. My grandmother and grandfather are Taurus(male), Scorpio(female), and they have had a very happy marriage. They have been together since she was 15, and him 17. So, it's very very possible for opposites to get together and stay together.

Try to stay on the same page as her, listen to HER side, and yes please no emotional melt downs.
They're well too much for us.

here ya go.