| Hello all! I have been seeing my Taurus since January. We were wonderful in the beginning! Date nights, flowers, cards, cooking dinner together, spending time with our kids together, talking about marrige and having more kids, cuddling, love making. I used to see him everyday (we used to workout together) And now, I felt a change in him a couple months ago. He is not as affectionate. He does not call me or text me back as he used to. No more dinners, date nights, alone time, no more talk of wedding planning, kids, nothing. He seems like he is withdrawing from me. I need to know why? Or how to get him to talk to me. He used to in the beginning too. Now he is ignoring me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! |
Taurus Boyfriend is acting differently
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female from Chicago, Illinois
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
female from the fire Moon
July 11th, 2nd Decan Cancer
| How long since you noticed the change? |
female
I had the same question as Lunarmaiden, and to add to that, if you recall when he started "acting differently" had there been any disagreements at that time? Also, I will say for me (and not responding for all Tau's out there; especially since I am not male), if I feel like I am doing a lot in a relationship and it's not appreciated then I start to pull away too, because (in my mind) it's being appreciated. Notice, I said appreciated and NOT reciprocated. I am not a "tit for tat" person. If I do anything for anyone, I don't expect anything in return (although niceties are always greatly appreciated  ). So, if you haven't recently had any disagreements, etc, then it could be he's feeling under appreciated and has withdrawn himself. Also, you could just ask him too. Not in an excusatory way, but more in the "Hey Babe, what's going on? I feel like we aren't as connected as we were 2/3/4 months ago. Or, you could plan a date night or something unexpected too. Obviously I don't know the dynamics of your relationship inside out, but if you were intimate and talking about marriage, etc, then I think you could also do a little "wooing" him too. When I am in a relationship, I LOVE to spoil my man. It's a blessing and a curse, but it makes ME feel good. Just a little food for thought. Perhaps others will be able to pop in and share some insight too. |
female from Chicago, Illinois
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
| Lunar-it's been 2 months now. |
female from Chicago, Illinois
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
| USCT- asking if we have had an argument, I'd say no. He say we fight all the time. In my eyes they are conversations & communicating, not fights. We don't raise our voices, call each other names, sulk, pout or try to make the other feel less important. Those are fights...this, not so much! I've tried several times in the last two months for date night...he's messed it up every time. I'm trying again this weekend as a matter of fact! I am one who also likes to "woo"! So you are not alone! I recently bought him flowers & a card.  The feeling I'm getting from him is he has never dated anyone who is or shows emotions. I do. Or it could be an ex before me tried to come back in the picture...now I am only speculating here but I am sucpicious on why he's acting this way. Do Taurus men stray? I'm trying to get him to talk to me, but he just stares at me and says nothing. I'm a Sag & my patience is getting very thin. Thanks! |
| When did the talk of marriage pop out of the nasty can it lives in??? |
female from Chicago, Illinois
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Posted by ArticleL In the beginning. No worries now though, he finally talked to me and said he didn't know if he wanted to be with me. So I told him to go on his merry way and to take care. I am DONE! |
female
| ^^Good, now you can move on to someone who will appreciate you. That's not to say he was an a$$ or anything, but if you were questioning your relationship and not feeling secure in it, then it's best to move on and find someone you are compatible with! Life is too short to be wasting your time. |
| Wow people ditch people but keep there most lovable possesions, pets. Wtf is the world coming to how does one expect to love when at the slightest change they throw away what looks like a empty milk cartoon. Then they come back like I think I treetrunked up I mean we know your a treetrunk up but sheesh. The second to last sentence is directed at the world ignore it. Be sure this is what to want to do and be ready to fight if he rejects you coming back. Which makes two of you. |
female from the fire Moon
July 11th, 2nd Decan Cancer
Posted by NikkiMse1978Posted by ArticleL I'm confused, did you ask him why he was feeling uncertain before you dumped him? |
female from the fire Moon
July 11th, 2nd Decan Cancer
Posted by NikkiMse1978 Taurus men need patient women. Sag is not patient and it sounds like you two are having disagreements. Sag is a fire sign and can compartmentalize the different levels of arguments. Because Sag actually likes to argue. Taurus likes smooth sailing most of the time. They may like a little fire from their women but not someone looking for a fight or directing that energy toward them on a consistent basis. I say try a Leo, that's more your speed; they will love you. They are fixed signs and love independent fiery women who like to banter with them. |
female from the fire Moon
July 11th, 2nd Decan Cancer
Posted by ArticleL I completely agree with this. There is too much impatience, blowing off, disappearing and assuming the worse. |
female from Wicklow, Ireland
Rising in Saggitarius Sun in Leo
| you've only been seeing him 7 months, spending every day together and talking of marriage in that short space of time should have been a red flag, when any man does that so quickly you have to prepare for the freak out down the line. |
female from Chicago, Illinois
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Posted by USCTaurusGal He was actually first in questioning it, so I made his decision for him. It was not an easy one, and we may cross paths again or still have unfinished business but this is how it has to be for now. |
female from Chicago, Illinois
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Posted by ArticleL Him not being able to express his true feelings to me for more than two months was the ultimate rejection. When you have a significant other, whether it be a boyfriend, girlfriend, long term partner, soul mate, friend or lover, you should be able to express clearly to the other, your fears, sorrows, triumphs, accomplishments, tears, and the like. If you do not, then what kind of relationship is it? |
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