Taurus Women and "Hard to Get"

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1/1/2012 10:50:39 PM | More
ctom01

So, as the topic title states Taurians, are you, specifically the women, hard to get?

Or do you just like to test guys/gals? I definitely wondering, I mean is there a point where it would stop and you are willing to succumb to another's advances? Especially if the person who is after has done practically everything humanly possible to get you?

I'd definitely like to know, my curiousity of this is really high at the moment. LOL. Since I'm in a similar situation.

Thank you for you inputs, Taurus or otherwise!
1/1/2012 11:16:13 PM | More
venusianbull

43 years old female from A Lush Meadow, US of A  

In the dead of night, it's the anti-sig.

Just keep showing me that I'm what you want, what you need and I'm fine. Absolutely fine. Once that has sunk into my thick skull I'll move mountains. Everything will lock down and come to the conclusion that there isn't anyone else. Why? Because there cannot be. It just isn't feasible for anyone elses arms to be around me. Only one set of eyes I want to drown in, one body I want next to mine. You get the general idea.
Reciprocation is vital and key. None of this can be one sided. It has to flow. Boy digs girl, girl digs boy, circle complete. 'Hard to get'? Yes and no. That security needs to be there, without that a Tau is on shaky ground. Shaky ground does nothing for a creature that requires solidarity and solid footing like air or water. So lip flap all you like, till the cows come home for all of me, but PROVE that you are the one that's going to be there. Once I've got that in my hands it's a big relieved exhale. I'm home.
1/1/2012 11:20:37 PM | More
MzDiana

female from FL  

I am a Libra in search of understanding.

Posted by venusianbull
Just keep showing me that I'm what you want, what you need and I'm fine. Absolutely fine. Once that has sunk into my thick skull I'll move mountains. Everything will lock down and come to the conclusion that there isn't anyone else. Why? Because there cannot be. It just isn't feasible for anyone elses arms to be around me. Only one set of eyes I want to drown in, one body I want next to mine. You get the general idea.
Reciprocation is vital and key. None of this can be one sided. It has to flow. Boy digs girl, girl digs boy, circle complete. 'Hard to get'? Yes and no. That security needs to be there, without that a Tau is on shaky ground. Shaky ground does nothing for a creature that requires solidarity and solid footing like air or water. So lip flap all you like, till the cows come home for all of me, but PROVE that you are the one that's going to be there. Once I've got that in my hands it's a big relieved exhale. I'm home.


Damn, VB. Now u know that is hard for us air signs...we want ya, but we gotta keep moving around and stuff, LOL
Explanation is duly noted and well stated.
1/1/2012 11:23:31 PM | More
venusianbull

43 years old female from A Lush Meadow, US of A  

In the dead of night, it's the anti-sig.

*saluting*
1/1/2012 11:26:13 PM | More
MzDiana

female from FL  

I am a Libra in search of understanding.

Playing hard to get. Well for me, I am hard to get..no play at that. I guess I need my security blanket in a different area. I need my space more than anything. I am realizing after 4 decades that I am a runner. This was pointed out by a dear Taurus male friend of mine. As HE likes for me to be there and just do nothing...go figure. I need to DO or have something going on for me to stay there. If your communication is not up to par; you dont look and smell just right; ur overly critical and basically...things not flowing just right. I am damn near impossible to get. I have to make sure that u understand my incessant need to talk and say stuff just to hear myself speak. I need to make sure that you are not going to expect me to jump at ur every beck and call. So many things that I am going to be sitting back and observing and then yet I am not going to come along peacefully. IJS
1/2/2012 12:04:00 AM | More
venusianbull

43 years old female from A Lush Meadow, US of A  

In the dead of night, it's the anti-sig.

Agreed, mental stimulation I need but I'm far too full of Fire to drag my heels. It wants to cut a wide swathe through all of it. Honesty and intention clear as crystal. I want to know I'm not alone in feeling or modality. If I am wanted, I want to hear "I want you." I want to scream "TA-DA! Here I is!" LOL And some crazy mo'fo on the other end with his arms open wide and saying "Whoooot!".
It's a recognition between two. A connection, a link. Also a real sense of taking the Bull by the horns. Lay waste to doubt, obliterate "maybe", "sort of" and "kind of" and just hone it down to 'yes'.

1/2/2012 12:14:30 AM | More
ctom01

Posted by venusianbull
Just keep showing me that I'm what you want, what you need and I'm fine. Absolutely fine. Once that has sunk into my thick skull I'll move mountains. Everything will lock down and come to the conclusion that there isn't anyone else. Why? Because there cannot be. It just isn't feasible for anyone elses arms to be around me. Only one set of eyes I want to drown in, one body I want next to mine. You get the general idea.
Reciprocation is vital and key. None of this can be one sided. It has to flow. Boy digs girl, girl digs boy, circle complete. 'Hard to get'? Yes and no. That security needs to be there, without that a Tau is on shaky ground. Shaky ground does nothing for a creature that requires solidarity and solid footing like air or water. So lip flap all you like, till the cows come home for all of me, but PROVE that you are the one that's going to be there. Once I've got that in my hands it's a big relieved exhale. I'm home.


Proving through actions, I understand to believe? Well I am definitely working on that. It's been pretty hard, about 1 year or so, but with about a few months of stopping. Since I was following my heart at the time. I believe when you guys have set your goals on something nothing can really get in the way. So, that's what I did, not get in the way, but be there when needed. I'll be putting most of the details of whats been going on intellectualbrat's reply, check it out there Thanks for your input venusianbull!
1/2/2012 12:16:38 AM | More
ctom01

Posted by MzDiana
Playing hard to get. Well for me, I am hard to get..no play at that. I guess I need my security blanket in a different area. I need my space more than anything. I am realizing after 4 decades that I am a runner. This was pointed out by a dear Taurus male friend of mine. As HE likes for me to be there and just do nothing...go figure. I need to DO or have something going on for me to stay there. If your communication is not up to par; you dont look and smell just right; ur overly critical and basically...things not flowing just right. I am damn near impossible to get. I have to make sure that u understand my incessant need to talk and say stuff just to hear myself speak. I need to make sure that you are not going to expect me to jump at ur every beck and call. So many things that I am going to be sitting back and observing and then yet I am not going to come along peacefully. IJS


I'm somewhat similar to you MzDiana, probably because I'm also an Air sign. LOL. As an aquarius, what I'm doing isn't so much aquarius like, since I've reason to believe, Aquarius don't usually stick out this long for someone unless, they are really special? LOL. Either way, I've already decided for the long haul. Hope I'll be able to stick it out further. Thanks for you input!
1/2/2012 12:31:13 AM | More
ctom01

Posted by intellectualbrat
Easy we are not...I usually have my walls up..very few times have I had my walls knocked down without me even noticing..We will succumb, but only when we are sure we can trust you with our heart. And yes we do test men!At least I do.
You said you have done everything humanly possible to get her...Ok just so you know we DONT LIKE EASY ..I'm not saying you are, but we do like a challenge. I have been called stuck up many times..I'm not..I just don't give in that easy. As a matter of fact I'm quite shy,(only when I really like you) but only if I let you reach and touch my heart will you know the real me.

So what makes you think that she is just playing hard to get and just maybe not into you? Did that thought even cross your mind? That is always a possibility. I'm just saying. Has she given you any signs at all? Just know that if we are really into you, there is no way we will let you get away. Stimulate her mind..keep her guessing..don't be so obvious about your feelings. We like difficult. I may be wrong here because I did know a Taurus lady and she was very easy...so I guess it will depend on her placements. And for that my dear you will need her d.o.b and p.o.b, also her time of birth. Good Luck sweetie!


Yes, definitely she has her walls up. Very thick and very high. I definitely believe she is testing me, again. (Since I did stop for a while, but interestingly, she kept on texting me) Well, heres an interesting part I'm wondering on, how do you know you're being easy? Where you seem to have falling for the girl so far, youre like a puppy? Hm. I suppose I'm at a hard point here. I've already stated that I won't be looking for someone else and all the things that were done were only for her. But does that make me easy? I'd rather let her know since its in my nature to be honest. Perhaps an Aquarius fault, I did read somewhere, Aquarians are only open w/ those that are special.

Well... if she wasn't into me, I believe she should have said it already. I suppose I can give some instances where she "dropped the ball" and showed her walls coming down. The first was probably where I made her something really special and then ended up asking her to be my GF. She gave this real intense nod where its like YES. but then she took it back, because she had something to take care of (she had to graduate, and I knew that she can't have a relations
1/2/2012 12:32:56 AM | More
ctom01

Wow, comment got cut.

She gave this real intense nod where its like YES. but then she took it back, because she had something to take care of (she had to graduate, and I knew that she can't have a relationship till she finished). Then the next was after I stopped for a few months because of an intense conflict of hearts. Eventually we saw one another again, and it was this weird spark thing all over again. And she ended up bringing up the special thing I made for her during a conversation with another friend. And the last is probably when I gave her another gift. She smiled and lowered her head in shyness since I went out of my way for about 7 days to find the gift. There are other instances, its just that these are on the top of my head at the moment.

So yep, as of late, taking it slow since she has another thing she must take care of (and she probably wont be ready for a BF/relationship) but I did make a decision, like I said earlier, that I won't be looking for anyone else. I suppose I'll keep going, she never did say for me to stop. And she does smile for the things I do. So, I guess she just wants to know if I'll really keep going and if my words are true.

Oh, I do have her chart, she is (just got the primary ones):

Sun: Taurus (well yeah...)
Moon: Libra
Ascendant: Leo
Mercury: Taurus
Venus: Aries
Mars: Pisces
1/2/2012 12:33:34 AM | More
ctom01

Thanks also intellectual brat for your input!

1/5/2012 9:04:15 AM | More
Awakened

28 years old male

From all that I've experienced, Taurus women don't really "do" hard to get. She may not be into you or you may be coming at her too aggressively. Taurus is a sign that covets. So with that, give her time to observe you and make a judgement. If the judgement is positive, allow time for "coveting." THEN, make your move!

I'm not saying this is the end all be all strategy but, it has suited me well.
1/6/2012 5:39:46 PM | More
ctom01

Posted by intellectualbrat
Posted by ctom01
Thanks also intellectual brat for your input!


I'm going to safely say that *you have truly won her heart* You are not smothering her and you are respecting her wishes and giving her the space she needs at the time. And to me that only means you care enough enough to consider my feelings and putting them ahead of your's. You sound like you know what you are doing considering your young age, Stay strong, let her know from time to time that you are still there, still interested and waiting.Your welcome and I wish you lots of luck with your bullete!


Thanks intellectualbrat! Although a question, so it more of how long you can out last a bull? Despite all the ignoring all the no-communication? Untill the "stop" order is given, everything is still pretty much game?
1/6/2012 5:58:07 PM | More
ctom01

Posted by Awakened
From all that I've experienced, Taurus women don't really "do" hard to get. She may not be into you or you may be coming at her too aggressively. Taurus is a sign that covets. So with that, give her time to observe you and make a judgement. If the judgement is positive, allow time for "coveting." THEN, make your move!

I'm not saying this is the end all be all strategy but, it has suited me well.


Yes, I do see where you are coming from Awakened. So I suppose I just be me, keep trying and if I'm "cleared". Then I'm good to go. Otherwise, better luck next girl? LOL. Thanks for the input as well!
1/6/2012 5:58:17 PM | More
ctom01

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