Taurus ex broke up with me but want us 2 b friends

Hello there! I need taurus guys to help me with my taurus ex. He broke up with me after 2 months after being together as a couple. Wehad grea time being together but then we had huge fight that ended up him breaking up with me. But it made me confused when he said i broke up with him when he actually posted on FB that he is single and ready to mingle. We haven't had a proper talk since we had a fight but then all of a sudden he posted that. Our fight has nothing to do with anyone or a third party, it was actually a simple misunderstanding that only requires open and honest communication. But then he took it badly and started accusing me that i don't trust him. Kindly painful for me being accused of not trusting him because i know to myself that i trust a lot, i just needed an answer to my simple question.
I went to his place hoping that he cooled down already but then i was stunned by the way he treated me when he saw me sitting infront of his room. He asked me to leave and if i won't leave right away, he will ask the guard to take me out of his flat. I was so surprised the way he behaved as if i'm a stranger to him. But then again, i still took courage to speak with him but he was still so stubborn and continued emabarrasing me infront of his friend. Gosh! I have never been treated that way nor humiliated tha way before. But i swallowed my pride because i wanted to work things out for both of us.
I left after that and still txted him and calls him but non were answered. So i stopped.
After a week he txted me, that he doesn't want to stay with me anymore but he wants us to be really good friends.
After that txt I really got confused. I don't want to think that he was trying to be nice or being childish in that manner after all that had happened.
I just want to know if he really means it or does he want some space. I know taurus guys really takes time to sttle in a relationship but then how come he started a relationship with me then after a simple misunderstanding he wants me out of his life and offers his frindship instead.
Please help me understand, i just want to know if he really wants me out of his life, does he really mean it? By the way i'm an Aries.

Slight manapulations and or communication as if he wants space he can be a man and speak the treetrunk up and state his standing. People do all type of things in anger give him some time to blow smoke out his nose and ears. The flipside of this is you could go fight for your man but will it push him further or bring him home only you know this.

Thank you articlel for answering. Hope you won't mind my asking are you taurus? For me, as much as i would want to be patient of him and understand him i would do so. But i couldn't help but think why would he tell me that he doesn't want to stay with me anymore more and yet he offered me friendship instead. Was it just a guilt that sprung thru him or he has still feelings for me and he just wanted to take things slow? Please help me to understand it more, so i would know if i need to move on or just leave it as it is.
By the way, he mentioned to my friend that i changed a lot when we became together. He said that i don't act like my age... Why would he judge me that way, i know myself better than him. I know i am a bit childish at times but that's me. I'm an aries, we may look lady like physically but we still have the heart of a child by nature. So i'm sure i did not change.
Correct me if i'm wrong, the way i see it, my taurus guy wants me to be what he wants me to be ( he mentioned it to me before, "the reason why he liked me was because he sees me such a lady like") he missed the part that i am also childish and i mentioned it to him before. That why for me, it's really vague.
Please explain more further...thank you!

42 years old female from A Lush Meadow, US of A

In the dead of night, it's the anti-sig.

Either he takes you as you stand, or not at all. It is up to you if you want to put yourself through the pain of standing at the perimeter. On the outside looking in. Straight up. If you can honestly be happy for him if he finds someone else, go for it. If not, cut it off at the knees.

Thank you venusianbull! I appreciate your answer. It helped me to understand what i needed to do. Such a painful act for me to wait or be hopeful that he'll be back without me having any clue. I don't give up so easily on relationships but i have pursued him the best i can but i guess that's about it.
It is just painful that our relationship just lasted for two months, my shortest relationship ever... So painful that he gave up that soon without even trying to work things out.
I know he is a good man...thank you again!
Will update you for anything. Have a great day!

My answer to your response is summed up in VB post you have some tough choices also yes keep us updated. I strongly suggest you give him space if he goes to another he lacked dedication in the first place.

Thank you guys, really appreciated it! Wish me well...

He txted me that i still have some of my stuff in his flat. He said they put them in a bag for me to get anytime. So i texted him back asking him if he could bring it with him since he goes to my area to use our gym. Yesterday, i reminded him. He didn't txt back so i thought he wasn't coming. So i left for jogging. When i came back my friend told me that he came looking for me and waited for me but it was too late. I called and txted him again that i am back simce my friend told me that he just left like 10 mins.before i arrive. I asked my friend if he left something for me, but my friend said he's not carrying anything.
Any good signs with that? Why he did not bring my stuff in the first place? Or i am just being silly? Was he trying to tell me something?

Youd have to talk to him it sounds like the beginning of somebody trying to get a rise out of somebody. Relax and wait til you talk to him face to face. Also get to the bottom of that mis communication you mentioned earlied when you see him. The quickness of which people get rid of relationships almost sounds like they didn't care in the first place. Some it only takes one mistake and there out the door which doesnt read long term to me but if hes worth fighting for fight. Keep us updated. Its your choice whether to make the first move but I would say wait especially since hes susposelly coming over....without the stuff.

Thank you articlel! So happy you are replying right away, deeply appreciated it. I really needed some advice here.
Now the update since this afternoon, I just txted him and called him now but then again and again no answer. I was hoping to see him now since i am pretty much ready of seeing him and accepting whatever the outcome would be. But of course, i am praying it would be a positive outcome. I don't mind waiting, i can handle that it's just difficult for me that he doesn't answer my calls and txts. I just hate guessing games, such an agony for me. But i pretty much know now that taurean male has a trait of not responsive at all times. It depends on their moods...am i right?

Just a thought though, is he trying to test me if i still like him and if i am true to my feelings towards him or is he still testing the waters if he'll give it another shot with me? Because the things that are happening right now is kinda' inconsistent and weird, which i like because it gives me hope. If that would be the case, i will surely wait.

Articlel, if you wont't mind my asking if you are a taurus male, with the way things are happening now, do you see anything positive? I'm sorry i didn't actually understood what you have just said on your statement above, if you could explain it more further.
"Youd have to talk to him it sounds like the beginning of somebody trying to get a rise out of somebody."-- this part i didn't understand...i'm sorry

I know somehow the personalities and traits of taureans, i have friends who have the same sign and i have read some articles about them that is 95 % accurate.
I would like to share how treats me when we are togther...He is so loving and affectionate of me, even we are with people around us or alone together he would show me love, affection and tenderness. He doesn't care if people would see us together hugging or even kissing in public, which kinda' brave of him. I am kinda' conservative aries woman and i don't show too much affection in public but i love hugging him a lot. We would go out together for dinner, watch a movie, of course being intimate with each other that leads to making love. He would come to my place so we can jog together. We call each other " baby" and talk about evrything and anything. God, i so so missed him.
When we had our first major fight, we didn't talk for 6 days which was a torture for me. I waited this long hoping that it would help us to cool down. I was wondering why he would tell his bestfriend that i was the one who broke up with him and never even txted and called him after our fight. He said that i didn't care...
When i was trying to work things out with him, he kept pushing me away harshly. I asked him why he's pushing me away and then he said "no, i didn't push you away, you are the one who pushed or pulled yourself away from me"...God! I really don't understand why he would accuse me like that! Completely lost in translation. What does he want?

1. Taurus? No.
2. Getting a rise out of somebody = Saying something to make them mad, angry bla bla.
3. What is the time span between you breaking up and now???

Taurus ex broke up with me but want us 2 b friends

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