Taurus friendship

5/11/2011 10:22:21 AM | More
Libragirl333

Hi all,

First time on this site. I have a big problem with my best friend.
Taurus guy and I have know each other for a couple years. Our friendship has been intense since day one. We share the same witty humor. He has been a wonderful solid friend during my difficult divorce. Divorce will become final next month though I have been separated for a long time. Problem is I am in love with him. He lives with his partner and I would never start anything knowing he is taken. I try to back off when my feelings get out of control but he texts me several times a day, to see how my day is going. First text is good morning at 7am. I really think he feels the same as I do. The first time he hugged me he said it was so good to finally touch something he has wanted to touch for so long. He gives me sweet friendship cards, books etc..... and he says things that makes me think he wants to be with me. If I back off he charges and bombards me with texts and phone calls. This is so painful for me. Should I end my friendship? Is he playing games with me or is he maybe wanting what I want? He says his relationship is cold but I don't ask about the details of his relationship. I am a Libran with Taurus Moon. Would a Taurus man do this over such a long time in the hope of having just a sexual fling?
5/11/2011 11:10:16 PM | More
BellatheBull

female

Taurus Sun Pisc

Yes,he feels the same as you.but damn we are stubborn and loyal :/
my first husband was a Libra with Taurus moon.Sweetest man I've ever known.
Not exactly a hot sex love match for us,but a very strong loving bond.
After 22 years of being divorced,we still love each other dearly (as friends) and keep in regular contact.
He has hinted for 15 years he wants me back...but he's married,the idiot. (and I only go forward anyhow,reverse is broken.)


If it were me,I'd tell him the truth and then disengage from the situation,for both your sakes.
It will be up to him to decide what is right for his life.
5/13/2011 10:51:50 AM | More
zenalchemy

Posted by Libragirl333
Would a Taurus man do this over such a long time in the hope of having just a sexual fling?


Don't second guess or predict what he may or may not do, he has a questionable character, Taurus or no Taurus.
The question to ask yourself is if you were his partner living in the same house as him, then you found out he was doing this with some other chick, what would this mean to your relationship?

You are in a vulnerable place with divorce and he has kinda replaced the ideal man in your eyes by being there.
So the bottom line is you have opened yourself to being the other one. If he leaves his partner, comes to you, you meet another intense friend when you 2 have issues, will it be a repeat? A big test of your character here.

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