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im a taurus, hes a libra. does he really want me?

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ginger09
4/18/2009 11:27:45 AM | IP

Hey

For about a year now i have been interested in a man and he has me, but we are always "just friends". He kisses me on the hand when we meet and just seems perfect but he a flirt with other girls so i don't know if he's genuinely interested in me. We nearly took it to the next step but he wasn't sure because my friends where always getting involved saying hes not good enough for me because he flirts with other girls. I know they are my friends but it really fustrates me that they get involved. Lately hes been saying" we could of been so good if everybody didnt get involved! im like ahh!! what is that supposed to mean?? does he still like me!

Ive always been told by friends i should just move on, but ive tried and cant find anything better. Ive always been there for him through tough times and he tells me he really apreciates it but does he really?

We have recently met up, both single, and it was an amazing day. We seemed to of reached a new level and really bonded. However, talking on email or text is very fustrating for me. I act the same as i do when we meet but he seems to not care/doesn' tmake much of an effort with me.

I really like him and believe it could work, but as we only seem to talk properly when we meet up. does this mean he's not really interested? i always think hes interested in other girls and he knows this because he says i get jealous easily. If he is interested, why hasn't he said "shall we hook up" sort of thing??

Help! Do i need to just forgot bout him and move on????

Replies would be much appreciated xxx
Temperess
4/22/2009 11:05:12 PM | IP

33 years old female from Seattle, WA  

Taurus sun, Virgo Moon

if u wanna fool around, keep him around...
if u're too into him and want something serious, time to move on.
he IS in fact interested which is why he comes around again and again...
but he's only interested enough to have 'flings' with you. that's it.
if he's not ready, no one can make him committ.
ginger, sorry to say but it's hard to hold down a libra man.
today he may be charming, sweet, so unreal and just perfect,
everything he says is so right and he makes u feel so special...
like as if you found your soulmate!!!
but tomorrow he can easily just disappear and make you feel the opposite.
being a taurus, we want stability in a relationship,
libras are not the kind to stick around for that.
you can have fun with him but don't take him too seriously,
chances are you're just one more lady he's coming around every now and then
when he feels like rekindling the fire u guys had.
oh... the past lovers and the current lovers (aka friends) in a libra's life...
jealousy will always be there... you will be more insecure than ever!
even if u're not even that insecure, they just...
make you sooo clingy...
when things go bad, they can't be found,
they don't want to talk about the problems,
they will avoid you at all cost,
b/c they do not like confrontations.
they especially do not like to be blame,
after all they do their best to keep the peace
they even start living a part of your life (joining in on your hobbies)
just so they can relate to you and make things go smoothly...
be cautious, he can sweep you off your feet,
just be prepared that what he gives you,
he can easily take back without warning, and there's absolutely NOTHING you can do...
that's just the way it goes in a libra's life...
full of intense romance but a lot of heartaches on BOTH ends...
yes they do hurt just as much as you do...
b/c well some of them (not all, not the players) actually do believe
they have a shot at something real...
i guess this is why they keep coming back...
for some reason though, reality seems to scare the hell out of them...
like once an issue comes up, they take no responsibility... lol
*sigh* please dont be offended other libras... i'm not speaking for all,
just ones i have had experience with and friends who repeats this cycle over and over.
well actually this is just my *opinion*... =)

 

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