so what gives?

memyself
if a taurus is slow to commit, does not initiate, does not like changes, is stubborn and wants to be pursued?

you want to take your own sweet time to decide about someone, but you also want that someone to keep showing interest/pursuing you? so what do you give that someone in return till you make your decision to commit? by 'have patience' how many years are you talking about?

JessiedLeo
Ladies, hit your Taurus man upside the head... or leave. Seriously. That's what I did.

I left.
I walked.
I disappeared.

Then he came chasing me professing and confessing his love.

I called him a hypocrite and walked.
I'm through! I'm done! GOOD BYE! I left.

I haven't had a man chase like that in years.

And when you say you're done and leave, make sure you mean it and you're at the end of your rope because he many not chase you. I just got lucky with mine.

Good luck ladies. Some of these bullcrap Bull won't get it until you "do" something in other words, action. They don't hear you. Don't let them get away with seducing you. You have to be strong and mean what you say.

But that's the Leo in me. Most Leo women can only take so much and for me, I'm too darn strong for my Taurus man and he knows it. I will only allow so much manipulation and I walk.

I'm patient, but s h i t 6 months of waiting?

Now, we're on the same page.

MsImpala66
I agree with JessiedLeo....

My ex was a Taurus, for 6 months he didn't know what he wanted. One minute he wanted me then the next he didn't want me. I finally got fed up and said enough is enough. Next thing I knew he was chasing me...unfortunately things didn't work out in the end.

Impulsv
Typical Taurus . I'll be telling him I love you but I don't need you or even want you. I expect he'll run the other way lol
kupochan
Yup. Slowly starting to think that Taurus men are the most hated lol Damn you unmatured bulls for giving us this rep!!
memyself
Posted by kupochan
Yup. Slowly starting to think that Taurus men are the most hated lol Damn you unmatured bulls for giving us this rep!!


naah! we still love the bulls charming ways, stubborn ways, possessive, protective streak, STARES hahaha. i think male bulls almost exhibit the emotional charactersitice of a female - jealous, possessive, stubborn, craving attention, love, not initiating hehehe. really what gets a bull charging?
TaurusLovesScorpio
memyself, you ask really tough questions...hahahaha....

I think JessiedLeo has it down if you want to be chased by the bull. You've got to make an impression then walk/run. If it was a big enough impression, he'll chase. The longer you make that impression, the more attached he'll get. One day you flip it on him, and it'll hurt so bad, he will realize suddenly how much he has cared this whole time and start making bold pronouncements of his love for you. I've had this happen to me. I'll agree with you Taurus men can be real one-sided like you describe though. I always have been in the early part of relationships. Why? Because I almost always get away with it. Women really are suckers for seemingly distant/aloof men. Seems like a challenge I guess? My Sag told me she thought I was better than everyone around me; like I was too good for her. This made me appealing. Meanwhile I think nothing of the sort about myself (most male bulls I know have low self esteem), and she's out of my league looks-wise. If anything she made me nervous. Then when we got in a relationship and she fell for me really hard within the first week (this always happens). I have no idea why!!! She was such an incessant yapper in that first week, I mostly just listened to her spill her life story to me. But yeah, once she gave away the store like that, it just shifted the power all in my direction. Now I'm a bit domineering in this relationship. Remaining aloof with us, remaining somewhat mysterious, giving us a challenge - all the while looking hot and smelling good - these things will bring out the best in us (pursuit, romance, etc.).

What is your situation with a bull? Give us some details.
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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
memyself, you ask really tough questions...hahahaha....

I think JessiedLeo has it down if you want to be chased by the bull. You've got to make an impression then walk/run. If it was a big enough impression, he'll chase. The longer you make that impression, the more attached he'll get. One day you flip it on him, and it'll hurt so bad, he will realize suddenly how much he has cared this whole time and start making bold pronouncements of his love for you. I've had this happen to me. I'll agree with you Taurus men can be real one-sided like you describe though. I always have been in the early part of relationships. Why? Because I almost always get away with it. Women really are suckers for seemingly distant/aloof men. Seems like a challenge I guess? My Sag told me she thought I was better than everyone around me; like I was too good for her. This made me appealing. Meanwhile I think nothing of the sort about myself (most male bulls I know have low self esteem), and she's out of my league looks-wise. If anything she made me nervous. Then when we got in a relationship and she fell for me really hard within the first week (this always happens). I have no idea why!!! She was such an incessant yapper in that first week, I mostly just listened to her spill her life story to me. But yeah, once she gave away the store like that, it just shifted the power all in my direction. Now I'm a bit domineering in this relationship. Remaining aloof with us, remaining somewhat mysterious, giving us a challenge - all the while looking hot and smelling good - these things will bring out the best in us (pursuit, romance, etc.).
What is your situation with a bull? Give us some details.

i don't think bulls don't initiate really. bulls charm and then step back, acting all innocent hahaha
memyself
i think the common thing between taurus and virgo or maybe between earth signs is the mental pace and compatibility. if bulls are slow in moving forward, virgos are also slow because they have to think everything through before getting serious. we are in no rush to move ahead without having put much thought. i dont know much about capris, but earth signs should share the same groundedness, giving them lots of patience for others.
memyself
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
memyself, you ask really tough questions...hahahaha....

I think JessiedLeo has it down if you want to be chased by the bull. You've got to make an impression then walk/run. If it was a big enough impression, he'll chase. The longer you make that impression, the more attached he'll get. One day you flip it on him, and it'll hurt so bad, he will realize suddenly how much he has cared this whole time and start making bold pronouncements of his love for you. I've had this happen to me. I'll agree with you Taurus men can be real one-sided like you describe though. I always have been in the early part of relationships. Why? Because I almost always get away with it. Women really are suckers for seemingly distant/aloof men. Seems like a challenge I guess? My Sag told me she thought I was better than everyone around me; like I was too good for her. This made me appealing. Meanwhile I think nothing of the sort about myself (most male bulls I know have low self esteem), and she's out of my league looks-wise. If anything she made me nervous. Then when we got in a relationship and she fell for me really hard within the first week (this always happens). I have no idea why!!! She was such an incessant yapper in that first week, I mostly just listened to her spill her life story to me. But yeah, once she gave away the store like that, it just shifted the power all in my direction. Now I'm a bit domineering in this relationship. Remaining aloof with us, remaining somewhat mysterious, giving us a challenge - all the while looking hot and smelling good - these things will bring out the best in us (pursuit, romance, etc.).
What is your situation with a bull? Give us some details.

^^^^ this i think is the earthy appeal of bulls, asking someone about them. i'm sure you must have prodded your sag to talk about herself. girls dig such attention. and since knowing a bull, i have noticed this trait in other bulls too. stopping on their way to anywhere asking everyone how they were. maybe thats what makes a bull slow, as they make many stops on the way
JessiedLeo
Posted by kupochan
Yup. Slowly starting to think that Taurus men are the most hated lol Damn you unmatured bulls for giving us this rep!!


From all the bull my Taurus man had put me through, I am in love with him. However, I'm mature about it. He is my Ying and and I'm his Yang. He has taught me patience and as a Leo woman, that's one thing I've been working on most of my adult life. I'm frantic like a storm while he's as calm as a cool lake.

He has taught me that things aren't all black and white.
I learned that friendship must come first before love.
I learned that love grows, it's not this love at first sight, instant gratification.
I learned that even though I am in love with him, I am still my own person and I can leave this union, but I choose to stay. I chose him.
He's my rock on times when I need to lean on someone and he allows me to lean on him. Most of my life, people have leaned on me. It's refreshing and foreign.
He's my sounding board.
He taught me that I am acceptable and still respected as a person, a woman, a corporate leader when I get silly and let my hair down.
He taught me what a dependable person truly is, both personally and professionally.
He taught me how to compromise... something I don't do well! LOL

This is just the beginning for the 2 of us... I am just curious what would it be like a few months or even years from now if we last that long.
God I hope so.



TaurusLovesScorpio
mymyself:
he was just very direct in his compliments, charming if you will. it was giddy feeling to hear someone say how they saw me from their eyes. i must say i never had someone flatter me like that. i was having difficulty accepting really. it was a heady feeling. but things are just at that, mostly virtual. but he made my virgo mind so curious, that i had to know everything there is to know abt u guys

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bulls charm and then step back, acting all innocent hahaha

>>>>Hahahahah....yes, I love to compliment and flatter; it really comes from a sincere place. I honestly feel the need to tell people the good I see in them as I think they don't hear it enough (especially women). I love compliments and wish people would just compliment each other more all around. We certainly criticize enough. And the "charm and run" is a great way to intiate the chase! Sometimes I do this, and will be so content to just have the upper hand and have caused the chase, that that can be as satisfying as an actual relationship. I've seen scorps do this too - throw out a witty or charming/flirtatious compliment, then just slither off in a shroud of mystery. Mine did this to me and left me thinking about her all day. She pretty much owned me from that day on.
TaurusLovesScorpio
i think the common thing between taurus and virgo or maybe between earth signs is the mental pace and compatibility. if bulls are slow in moving forward, virgos are also slow because they have to think everything through before getting serious. we are in no rush to move ahead without having put much thought.

>>>Perhaps, I've had some virgos try to move pretty fast though. Hahahah...I think virgos are just really keen on bulls. That's been my experience anyway. I'm telling you their eyes always light up a little when I first meet them, even before we talk. And then the communication really seals it. I have alot of virgos around me at work and they are just soooo helpful - beyond the normal Virgo humanitarian thing....hahahahaha...

bulls almost exhibit the emotional charactersitice of a female - jealous, possessive, stubborn, craving attention, love, not initiating hehehe.

>>>>So true, but we do it in such a manly way. We are a good mix, I'm tellin' ya....Harems everywhere agree.
ksaquayve
Posted by JessiedLeo
Ladies, hit your Taurus man upside the head... or leave. Seriously. That's what I did.

I left.
I walked.
I disappeared.

Then he came chasing me professing and confessing his love.

I called him a hypocrite and walked.
I'm through! I'm done! GOOD BYE! I left.

I haven't had a man chase like that in years.

And when you say you're done and leave, make sure you mean it and you're at the end of your rope because he many not chase you. I just got lucky with mine.

Good luck ladies. Some of these bullcrap Bull won't get it until you "do" something in other words, action. They don't hear you. Don't let them get away with seducing you. You have to be strong and mean what you say.

But that's the Leo in me. Most Leo women can only take so much and for me, I'm too darn strong for my Taurus man and he knows it. I will only allow so much manipulation and I walk.

I'm patient, but s h i t 6 months of waiting?

Now, we're on the same page.



Can't agree more. My Taurus and I were together for three months until we became 'just friends and see what happens'after he said I'd snapped at him in front of other people [seriously i can't even recall such incident, nor those other people]. He withdrew and said he didn't feel comfortable with me but we still hung out in our group regularly for a month [no close contact tho]. I dared not to get closer to him coz he'd said he was not comfortable. I was thinking he would approach me once he got comfortable again. Wrong. Nothing happened and i couldn't put up with seeing him twice a week and not being together. After a month, I told him I still liked him a lot, he replied we were just friends. So I told him I had to stop seeing him and get over the feelings, I was seeing him too often for my own good. He turned around and asked if I wanted to try again with him. So we are together again now. I still have no ideas why he never says what's in his mind. I'm an Aquarius. For me, I won't let my pride get in my way of being with someone amazing. I don't know why his pride is so big! But it's okay, i'm used to doing all the heavy lifting.
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