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Does a third decan Virgo guy like a lot of space?

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MissSteak
8/2/2012 12:36:20 PM | IP

female

Mine: Ascendant Leo Sun

I'm a third decan Taurus female and just got into a relationship with a third decan Virgo guy. Being quite independent, I love my space and freedom a lot. Just wondering if he'll need much attention or be happier with lots of space. For instance, will he be satisfied with going out on dates once in a week or so? As a side note, we've been purely platonic friends for a long time before taking our relationship to the next level. Even so, I'm not sure about his romantic needs and kind of clueless about how much space is too much. Someone please help. Thanks!
Virg916
8/2/2012 5:27:35 PM | IP
Virg916

I don't know about all of them, but this one does. I like enough space to breathe, but still enough contact for us to pick up where we last stopped without much hesitation or awkwardness.
wgamador2
8/3/2012 8:40:30 AM | IP
wgamador2

male

Sun 24°39' Virgo ---- 3rd Decan

Third Decan here also and I like a healthy balance of both.
Dont make me feel guilty for wanting time for myself and I ill be one happy Virgo.

As far as romantic needs, well you say you have known him for a while now, he must have dropped some clues.
And why would you want all the answers, isnt it more fun having to explore and find out what his needs are?

Take me for example, if you are my "friend" you will at some point learn about my appreciation for oral.
So try to remember what he said when you asked him what is his perfect valentines day, etc.
BoomShakalakaBoom
8/3/2012 8:43:53 AM | IP

29 years old male from Amsterdam, NL, Europe  

Archaeologist

3rd decans seem a bit more unreliable and flighty than 2nd decans it seems, remember they are almost Libras. 1st decans are best left alone they cant deal with their own nervous energy let alone with someone else lol
Lochinvar
8/3/2012 11:58:08 AM | IP

OP: Ask him directly. If you try and guess at his needs, he might end up misinterpreting yours.
Keep in mind that these things can vary - people can get caught up with projects and lose sight of their relationships for a while. You just need to communicate.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
3rd decans seem a bit more unreliable and flighty than 2nd decans it seems, remember they are almost Libras.
The third decan is ruled by Taurus, which happens to share Venus with Libra, so perhaps that's why you see them as "almost Libras". I can't say that it wouldn't be useful to have more Libran influences on our sign, though, as most of us Virgos could always do with little more tact and social grace.

The association with Venus is the reason third decans are often seen as artistic. I haven't heard anything about being "flighty" or "unreliable", but I'd imagine that having a Taurean influence on one's sign would tend to do the exact opposite.
BoomShakalakaBoom
8/3/2012 12:04:10 PM | IP

29 years old male from Amsterdam, NL, Europe  

Archaeologist

Dude, Ive been into astrology for almost 10 years now so I know all of that.
Lochinvar
8/3/2012 12:58:55 PM | IP

Perfect, glad to see that we're in agreement now. I was worried that you'd be difficult to convince. :3
LoversInLove3
8/3/2012 2:03:24 PM | IP
LoversInLove3

24 years old female

My Placements: Sun is in 13 Deg

I'd say so...

One I dated had a Pisces moon (total nutcase...sweet but alot of issues to deal with) and he loved his space but didn't WANT space. CONFUSING.

wgamador2
8/3/2012 3:44:44 PM | IP
wgamador2

male

Sun 24°39' Virgo ---- 3rd Decan

Posted by Lochinvar
OP: Ask him directly. If you try and guess at his needs, he might end up misinterpreting yours.
Keep in mind that these things can vary - people can get caught up with projects and lose sight of their relationships for a while. You just need to communicate.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
3rd decans seem a bit more unreliable and flighty than 2nd decans it seems, remember they are almost Libras.
The third decan is ruled by Taurus, which happens to share Venus with Libra, so perhaps that's why you see them as "almost Libras". I can't say that it wouldn't be useful to have more Libran influences on our sign, though, as most of us Virgos could always do with little more tact and social grace.

The association with Venus is the reason third decans are often seen as artistic. I haven't heard anything about being "flighty" or "unreliable", but I'd imagine that having a Taurean influence on one's sign would tend to do the exact opposite.




I have to agree. Im a Third Decan and I tell you what, if i could pass one value to my children, if i had any, it would reliability.
Being able to be counted on.
butter, thats one of my biggest virtues next to my patience.

But Shaka is also right cause we can be so different.
And yes I would definately say that the third decans are artistic. Im attracted to anything creative and attention grabbing. I love the arts. I wish i could earn a living doing something creative.
MissSteak
8/4/2012 4:00:52 AM | IP

female

Mine: Ascendant Leo Sun

Posted by Virg916
I don't know about all of them, but this one does. I like enough space to breathe, but still enough contact for us to pick up where we last stopped without much hesitation or awkwardness.

I'm relieved to know that b/c that's what I want too
MissSteak
8/4/2012 5:41:19 AM | IP

female

Mine: Ascendant Leo Sun

Posted by wgamador2
Third Decan here also and I like a healthy balance of both.
Dont make me feel guilty for wanting time for myself and I ill be one happy Virgo.

As far as romantic needs, well you say you have known him for a while now, he must have dropped some clues.
And why would you want all the answers, isnt it more fun having to explore and find out what his needs are?

Take me for example, if you are my "friend" you will at some point learn about my appreciation for oral.
So try to remember what he said when you asked him what is his perfect valentines day, etc.

In fact, we've known each other since mid school. Even though the laughter and fun we had together was amazing, I was unaware about what he wanted in love, considering he never talked about his romantic needs and it never occurred to me to dig into it.
Anyway, shortly after asking me out, he confided in me that he has a long list of things he want from a g/f and that I fulfill the list perfectly . ofc I was flattered by his words but they got me apprehensive as well :/ Now I'd rather have all the answers than take chances lol -.-
MissSteak
8/4/2012 5:47:01 AM | IP

female

Mine: Ascendant Leo Sun

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
3rd decans seem a bit more unreliable and flighty than 2nd decans it seems, remember they are almost Libras. 1st decans are best left alone they cant deal with their own nervous energy let alone with someone else lol

lol
MissSteak
8/4/2012 6:12:42 AM | IP

female

Mine: Ascendant Leo Sun

Posted by Lochinvar
OP: Ask him directly. If you try and guess at his needs, he might end up misinterpreting yours.
Keep in mind that these things can vary - people can get caught up with projects and lose sight of their relationships for a while. You just need to communicate.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
3rd decans seem a bit more unreliable and flighty than 2nd decans it seems, remember they are almost Libras.
The third decan is ruled by Taurus, which happens to share Venus with Libra, so perhaps that's why you see them as "almost Libras". I can't say that it wouldn't be useful to have more Libran influences on our sign, though, as most of us Virgos could always do with little more tact and social grace.

The association with Venus is the reason third decans are often seen as artistic. I haven't heard anything about being "flighty" or "unreliable", but I'd imagine that having a Taurean influence on one's sign would tend to do the exact opposite.

True. Well I did think of asking him directly at first but got somewhat shy lol.
MissSteak
8/4/2012 6:18:29 AM | IP

female

Mine: Ascendant Leo Sun

Posted by LoversInLove3
I'd say so...

One I dated had a Pisces moon (total nutcase...sweet but alot of issues to deal with) and he loved his space but didn't WANT space. CONFUSING.


lol confusing indeed. Oh well, I checked my guy's birth chart today and found out he has a Capricorn moon.
OProserpina
8/4/2012 10:49:50 AM | IP
OProserpina

28 years old female

Figure it out on your own... Sun 27

Sounds like this dude probably likes his space then. Especially if he has a Capricorn moon. Even if he doesn't he's gotta be at least double realistic in his expectations of other people with a Virgo Sun and a Capricorn moon.

 

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