Why do Virgo man distance themselves?

LadiDay
I have been involved (friendly) with a Virgo man for almost 3 yrs. I have grown to love this man very deeply. I am a Cancer woman. I have told him how I felt about 5 mos. into the friendship. He has told me on a few occasions that he loved me too. When I ask what type of love he feels, he never answers. I am legally separated from my husband, but share the same house. I will be moving out sometime this year. I've notice that this Virgo guy has been distance from the start. My question is, is he distance because I am still living with my husband, or is he protecting himself? He never answers personal questions, yet he knows just about everything of me. Are they known to be liars? Very confused here...
LostinmyMind11
Yes, yes and no (most virgos aren't)
P-Angel
Just because you feel something, doesn't mean he does.


seriously ... wtf?


Maybe he's being distant because he realizes that you are clinging to him ... what the hell would you ask him how he feels about you when you are just friends?


I don't see what is confusing about it .. and it really irritates me when women use the word, "confused" when they actually mean ... "he won't submit himself to my emotional manipulations, and I don't like it"


He's a friend, you want more ... so now you can't handle your own feelings.



:::: shakes head ::::
dimitri
he won't come near you if you're living with your ex.
dimitri
how could you possibly think anything else,
he's got a fat chance under those circumstances
the husband must be ecstatic about it all, having a really good laugh, at his ex wife trying to make a go of it, and this poor chap is a trophy.
LadiDay
Just because you feel something, doesn't mean he does.


seriously ... wtf?


Maybe he's being distant because he realizes that you are clinging to him ... what the hell would you ask him how he feels about you when you are just friends?


I don't see what is confusing about it .. and it really irritates me when women use the word, "confused" when they actually mean ... "he won't submit himself to my emotional manipulations, and I don't like it"


He's a friend, you want more ... so now you can't handle your own feelings.



:::: shakes head ::::


Ms. P-Angel, yes true I do have feelings for this man. He is the one that wants more than friendship, as I do too, but I would like to know who the hell I am getting involved with too. If a man told you that he loves you, wouldn't you want to know what type of love he is feeling, and if you both were on the same page? Yes, I am confused. How can you learn or know a persons likes or dislikes if you do not ask personal questions? I am not clingy. I talk to this man maybe twice a month w/text messages maybe 2-3 times a week. I have not seen him in over 6 mos., so how the hell can I possibly be clingy? As I love my space too, and don't mind giving it. Can you explain how I am emotionally manipulating him? We have never had a cross word to one another. How can you tell someone you want more than friendship, and will not answer questions? If anyone is manipulating here, it would be him.
P-Angel
Posted by LadiDay

He is the one that wants more than friendship ....

How can you tell someone you want more than friendship, and will not answer questions?





I hate stupid people with a passion
Infatuatedbsr28
Hi

Ive been dealing with a virgo for a while and from what i've read u are still legally married. So im assuming he i viewing ur current situatinn as a liability. Virgs are big on trust, and how he trust you when still "one" with ur hubby. Maybe friendship is the only thing he can offer you.





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