| I know 3 cap/aqua cusps and these people are critical and negative in the most unbearable way. is there something about this cusp that brings out the worst aspects of both signs? anyone else have experience with this cusp? |
what is up with cap/aqua cusps? why so nasty?
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29 years old female
29 years old female
| oh and don't get me wrong- these people are all extremely caring underneath it all, i love them despite the bad attitudes b/c i can see they are good people beneath it who act defensive out of self-protection but seriously this is one cusp that, if unhealthy, is one of the worst and most difficult to deal with on a daily basis. anyone else have similar experience? |
male from Capritude
| Strange, the two I know despite having that "edge", are silly first and foremost. Naturally sarcastic too. |
29 years old female
| yes sarcastic, but almost brutal at times. and definitely silly during moments when they relax but they seem to turn severely sour so fast. |
29 years old female
| maybe the ones i've known have just been the more unhealthy kind? |
| Well, i'm married to one........i don't see him as critical and negative.....maybe insecure at times but not critical or negative, anymore than anyone else. I am also a cusper though taurus/gem, so maybe that plays into it. When you say critical, do you mean critical of you. As for negative, i have alot of capricorn friends that tend to lean to the doom and gloom side of things....love them all, but i do tend to see negativity from them....they tend to be worriers. |
Posted by M M you are like a cusp magnet  |
29 years old female
| critical of everything, of things that i wouldn't even give a second thought to criticize; they quickly find the negative and the flaws in any and every situation, they never see something in a positive light unless they have assessed it first for any and all flaws and cracks. very gloom and doom, will turn a "molehill into a mountain." definitely worriers, blow things out of proportion. insecure and defensive. |
Posted by IsabelScorpia Wow, see now my hubby is nothing like that, but i have a couple cappy female friends that fit the bill......sometimes its like they suck the energy out of me......but i do love them i am surrounded by aquas and cappies...my husband is the only cusper though. |
29 years old female
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29 years old female
| "it's like they suck the energy out of me" exactly. what day was your husband born on? and how old is he if you don't mind my asking? |
male from Capritude
Posted by taurusgeminicuspPosted by M True I hardly know anyone who isn't a cusp :p |
Posted by MPosted by taurusgeminicuspPosted by M |
Posted by IsabelScorpia He was born on the 20th........so sun in aqua, his moon & mercury are capricorn, leo rising, but he has quite a bit of aqua in the rest of his chart and this is wild, but from jupiter through pluto we have the same signs in the planets. He is 45 So weird that all 3 of the cuspers have the same affect on you.....maybe it has something to do with age? You know, like they need to grow into their cusp I know being a cusper myself it is not easy. I do think that it sounds like they are predominantly cappy though.......although i love cappies, as i said they can be worriers, and quite full of doom and gloom at times. |
29 years old female
| taurusgem: mine is jan 21 and has a lot of aqua influence in his chart as well. i agree, the cap influence seems to affect his behavior more than the aqua, in fact i just think of him as a cap now. i thought the same thing: maybe it has to do with age, i just realized that all three cuspers also have a fire moon so perhaps this has something to do with it? splitnconfused:"What makes it so difficult to live with them is the fact that they don't don't seem to realize that in the process they also torture the people they care most for" yes. it strikes me as odd that he just expects people to put up with this as if it's normal. i have told him that i have never dealt with someone like him and he thought it over and has changed his behavior, so things are going better. i don't want him to change who he but i think that he could definitely learn to change his attitude and get some perspective on how his negative outlook affects others and also his own life. |
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