Do you find Virgo guys creepy?
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|As a Virgo guy I have an obvious interest in this question, and would particularly like answers from females (please state your sign). As far as I know nobody has described me as creepy, but quite a few other Virgo males I have met (or famous Virgo males that I know of) seem to be like this, so obviously this has made me think that maybe this is why we do not make friends easily and made me wonder if I come off this way too! Please don't say we are creepy just for fun (only if you mean it) and if you do think so please explain why. Would you say that we are perhaps too quiet, stare, give off a hostile vibe, ask too many questions, seem unsympathetic??? If you do think we are creepy, do you think we are creepier than Capricorns or are Capricorns creepier?|
|Arifish (aries/pisces cusp) femme fresh from a 5 year relationship with a virgo and he reveled in his creepy vibe. I personally loved him to death but the public opinion was very poor. There were other factors, environment+horrible childhood+first real relationship, but the stare and smile are what attracted me. My girlfriends always called him weird, creepy, scary but when we got one on one he was so sweet and the best friend I ever had. Something about him made him universally disliked but the percentage of people who found him attractive were very very attracted. He could easily get hostile and Id always have to get it into his head when I needed more than his surface 'dont care' mentality. But he was also so giving, so much that people often took advantage, when he made a friend he would die for them. Making friends and dealing with new people was always hard, he scared people off by trying too hard or pushing the creep factor too far. But I think if we met now in a bar for the first time I'd be drawn to him all over again, so yeah a little creepy but some girls dig it ;]|
|A lot of Taurus men are major-league pervs and bask in it rather than downplay the fact. Virgo and Cap don't show that side of themselves with such shamelessness, but just about anybody can give off creep vibes.|
|I recently had a Virgo man approach me while I was working on my laptop - he was looking for change for a 5. |
At first the company was nice. He found me delightfully straightforward. We even discussed astrology for a bit. He was obviously interested in me. I wear an engagement ring, by the way. I mentioned by fiance. He got weird about it and was apologetic. However I find that reaction quite ridiculous - I'm engaged but that doesn't mean I can't talk to anybody else. We weren't flirting (err.. I wasn't at least).
After awhile (he stayed for like 2 freaking hours... it was a little odd) he started 'forgetting' I was engaged and tried to get me to stare into his eyes and stand up to show him my height (I'm 5' on a good day). I told him that I don't play games or ask how high when somebody says jump.
I have a couple other Virgo guy friends but we're on good terms. Most are married or in a relationship. They're a little creepy but not overly so. We joke about it and it's mildly flattering but nothing ever has or ever will go past that line. They know my limits and know that I will never hesitate to completely distance myself from somebody who crosses that.
I'm a Leo with Scorpion Moon. My Mercury, Venus, and Mars are all in Virgo.. so no, Virgos typically aren't unsympathetic in my eyes. I favor logical mindsets like my own. I don't think there are hostile vibes.. mostly because I will challenge anything that gives me an issue. I'd call it observant rather than calling it 'staring'.
I don't think Capricorns are creepy but if I had to say which sign was creepier.. it would be Virgo. Capricorns know the concept of space and distance. Some Virgos overstay their welcome. I've never had a Capricorn put me in that uncomfortable situation.
|Freshman year of college, maybe the first 2 weeks, I met a Virgo who gave off , what some would call, creepy vibes. Although looking back, I think it was more my problem than his. He was just very straightforward about his interest in me and "developing a relationship"(his words) with me. I was completely baffled and didn't really know what to make of it.|
I am very careful and cautious when it comes to relationships and he completely caught me off guard. I thought he was just my first college friend! We would laugh and talk about everything for hours, but he never flirted with me or gave off romantic vibes. I really thought we were just friends. Suddenly out of nowhere he started talking about a relationship. Saying we were really good together. Talking about where we would settle after graduation and which grad schools, we should think about applying to. I was like WAH?! He started following me around, hanging out in my dorm room, sticking close to me at parties... He acted like we were in a steady partnership, overnight. I was DUMBFOUNDED.
In hindsight, he was actually a great guy and exactly what I would want NOW. But back then I didn't know how to make heads or tails of such "adult" behavior.lol Also we were of different races (me/black and him/white), and in high school no one dated outside their race. It never even occurred to me that someone of a different race than me, could be romantically interested in me. Sounds ignorant, but its what I thought. I come from a small florida town.lol Anyway, I hurt him, I'm sure of it. Bad timing- I was too insecure. I'm sorry Mark!
Virgos come off creepy because they're just more mature than everyone else. People who are used to subtleties or game playing, don't really know how to take such forthrightness. I know I didn't.
All in all, I don't really think earth signs find other earth signs that creepy. Although, if I had to choose, I'd say Capricorns are creepier than Virgos. I say Capricorns, because they could be secret violent psychopaths or the next Gandhi and you wouldn't see any hints of it. I'm fairly intuitive but I read absolutely nothing when I interact with them. I get total emptiness. CREEEEPPPYY! I find other Taurus' delightfully weird and soothing. I could be the most awkward, socially retarded person in the room and Taurus' will just shrug and be weirder.lol I think Aries can get mega creepy, especially if they're interested in you and you don't feel the same way.
I'm a Taurus btdu
|Nice to hear that! Pity I don't seem to meet (m)any Cap women...|
|What creeps people out is their blatant interest in wanting sexual copulation.|
Most people have finesse, and will work the situation ... Virgos just stare the person down with nothing except a vibe of sexual desire ... and people do find that to be pervy.
Even in here, the Virgo men seem to give off the same vibe ..... and there's no getting through to the male Virgo that the orgasm isn't what's important .. what's important is the eurphoria getting there. They don't seem to have the slightest interest in getting to know a woman, they base their immediate interest on whether she will put-out.
And yes, that makes the male Virgo very creepy.
37 years old female from A place called Happy, the journey was all about getting to know me
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Posted by P-Angel
I dated a Virgo man for 6 years off and on. He wasn't creepy but he did stare at me like I was a piece of chicken. I would call him on it. He would stop for a day or two and then "chicken stare" all over again. He would be very aggressive when it came to touching me. I would wash the dishes and turn around and he would be right behind me with the " chicken stare". Grab me, kiss me, smack me on the butt and then the "chicken stare".
It is the look Tom always gived to Jerry.
|@P-Angel: Perhaps our shyness makes it hard for us to (know how to) "work the situation".|
|I don't think Virgo guys are creepy.|
Whenever I meet a Virgo guy he comes to me out of nowhere. I'm focused on something and POOF, he's right there; like a magician! Never fails. They tend to be charming and polite. We strike up a funny flirtatious conversation and it usually ends with a kiss on my cheek or back of my hand.
|Nice to hear that: presumably you are a Cancer and I think that Cancers and Virgos usually "get each other" very well!|
Posted by virgodog58
Pretty much. I understand my brothers very well. Virgos make annoying brothers though. I understand their sensitivities. Out of all my friends the Virgo is the one I am most comfortable with.
|I never met a virgo man who creeped me out quite honestly. I get along quite well with them, both male and female.|
Posted by Nala13
lol @ "chicken stare"