What to do when a libra man cheats

angiedbc457
I am a Gemini girl and my man is a Libra, why do u guys have to have so many women, I mean I just found out that its another woman that has popped up in the picture, I forgave him from the first and second one I found out about, Now a third one. OMG!!! Why!!!! Why pretend to want me, after I brought him here because I thought we were going to be together with each other then he gets here in my city and cheats on me not once, not twice, but three times. WHY the heartbreak if he didn't want me just tell me. He lives with me and eats my food, I felt sorry for him at first. But my love is turning to hate and anger towards him. And when I ask is there anymore women he keeps telling me no, that I am the only one. Just be honest and truthful for once. So tell me Why do Libra's have to have many women?
tiziani
Taking a compliment with grace is indeed what it's all about. There's no reason to be turning down affirmative attention, as long as it is within the boundaries. I'm not even sure if that is a Libra thing as much as it is just being good to yourselves, others and taking credit for living your life.

Anyway OP Gemini, the focus for you really should be more on him and how he is treating you, rather than focusing on the other women. It's not their responsibility for how you two treat each other. You say he gets a roof and free food, so it could be he is sticking around for that from yourself. A relationship is between 2 people. Outside influences shouldn't be such a critical factor.
rockyroadicecream
Posted by oldskoolflavor
his heart belongs to you .. to some degree
his dick belongs to any pretty face out there

you draw your own conclusions



Agreed. Dude doesn't have his butter together and isn't ready for a relationship.

As far as the whole "Libra" bit, I'd blame insecurity. They (being those who fall into this category) are insecure. Attention calms the insecurity. This last one I was involved with- the tons o female attention = calming insecurity. Guys having female friends is fine and nice, but with him, the volume involved is pretty ridic and how he handled it.

The big question is wtf is your problem that you're keeping a cheater around?? THREE times? Honey, he should have been gone after the first, and definitely after the second time. It's all "Shame on you" at this point.
MoonFire
Posted by rockyroadicecream
The big question is wtf is your problem that you're keeping a cheater around?? THREE times? Honey, he should have been gone after the first, and definitely after the second time. It's all "Shame on you" at this point.


+1
Kick him the treetrunk out!
WaterCup
Posted by oldskoolflavor
lol @ simple .. I like when women have mars in scorpio


rawr
jessgoogoo
So your letting him think its ok to cheat on you by forgiving him each time. Do you want someone who is always going to do that to you?
angiedbc457
Thanks to everyone for their opinions on the topic I have posted, I am getting rid of him and let him be another woman's problem cuz ive had enough of the heartache and pain. I AM DONE WITH THAT CHEATER!!!!
jessgoogoo
Posted by angiedbc457
Thanks to everyone for their opinions on the topic I have posted, I am getting rid of him and let him be another woman's problem cuz ive had enough of the heartache and pain. I AM DONE WITH THAT CHEATER!!!!


+1
angiedbc457
@aqua86
Why break up with him then get back with him? That doesn't make any since, once im done with this Libra that I got its no more getting back with me. Cuz im always going to member what he done to me in the beginning so its no love for him anymore. And I wouldn't want a man that cheats on his girlfriend with me or any other woman
angiedbc457
oldskoolflavor
Why does his dick got to belong to every pretty face out there? and just his heart belongs to me, He wouldn't like it if my cat belong to every hunk out there and just my heart belong to him. So how can I make that connection, U tell me
WaterCup
Posted by LIBRA1234
Posted by angiedbc457
oldskoolflavor
Why does his dick got to belong to every pretty face out there? and just his heart belongs to me, He wouldn't like it if my cat belong to every hunk out there and just my heart belong to him. So how can I make that connection, U tell me


I thought u are done with that cheater! who cares about the connection between his dick and heart... stick to your decision to move on and don't look back. Understanding the reasoning behind his actions will not get you anywhere, its pointless and u may never find out why he does what he does. People just do it cuz they want and can, its no brainer there. Hopefully u ll move on and heal, there are so many nice guys out there who are waiting for someone nice as you!


+1 nicely put.

OP, libra men do have A LOT of female friends & i think its a libran thing, but if he cheats with them then thats another story. You dont deserve someone who doesnt respect you & himself. Sleeping around = no self worth or respect & he cant respect another until he learns to value himself a lot more..thats his job and his alone. I'm still surprised that you took care of him, you're very kind...I would never do that. Life's a journey of discoveries, he'll find himself & you'll also get to find out why you're SO tolerant of mistreatment..with time. Good luck, love.
angiedbc457
@LIBRA123, I am done with him I was just asking something to the other person that made a comment. @WaterCup having female friends is one thing but u don't sleep with them. I was reading somewhere that Libra's will stay in a bad relationship because they don't want to be alone is that true? And Why? did he come back to me if he didn't want me regardless if I asked him or not he still should of stay gone.
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angiedbc457
Sorry typo LIBRA1234
tiziani
I think you got some really solid input from Libra1234 and Water Cup.
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