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Posted by Princely
I don't know if this changes anything, but I got two texts from her today. One, a "thank you" message from her as reply on Facebook as I wished her a happy birthday yesterday.

Second one was another text this evening in quote "Good evening sir
Welcome to April
I pray that God shall do the extra-ordinary for you , you shall be safe from the pandemic.Stay safe."

I've never received this kind of text or any "new month text" from her before now.

I haven't called her since then. Does these text messages count for anything?

No.

She's being civil. These are trying times for everyone, and obviously she does care about you, BUT that does not equate to romantic connection (read the part where you say she wanted a breakup).

If you continue reading too much into stuff she says and does, I can assure you that you will no longer see or hear from her ever again.

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Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by rockyroadicecream

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Posted by Princely
I don't know if this changes anything, but I got two texts from her today. One, a "thank you" message from her as reply on Facebook as I wished her a happy birthday yesterday.

Second one was another text this evening in quote "Good evening sir
Welcome to April
I pray that God shall do the extra-ordinary for you , you shall be safe from the pandemic.Stay safe."

I've never received this kind of text or any "new month text" from her before now.

I haven't called her since then.

Does these text messages count for anything?

Call her and ask her if she’s okay, clear the air...

I wouldn't give him that advice. He's going to call and treetrunk this up even further. He just needs to leave it alone.

He's trying to hard in reading into her texts too. Dude is clinging to scraps.

Communication is key.

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Only when it's mutually listened to. It's obviously not. She's trying to remain friendly with him and he's treating it as a green light to continue to try to manipulate her.

Posted by Tenpxd

Posted by Princely
I don't know if this changes anything, but I got two texts from her today. One, a "thank you" message from her as reply on Facebook as I wished her a happy birthday yesterday.

Second one was another text this evening in quote "Good evening sir
Welcome to April
I pray that God shall do the extra-ordinary for you , you shall be safe from the pandemic.Stay safe."

I've never received this kind of text or any "new month text" from her before now.

I haven't called her since then.

Does these text messages count for anything?

Call her and ask her if she’s okay, clear the air...

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I wouldn't give him that advice. He's going to call and treetrunk this up even further. He just needs to leave it alone.

He's trying to hard in reading into her texts too. Dude is clinging to scraps.

Posted by Gobby
Thinking about it now, whenever this happened to me it was with a fire sign.

Young fire sign women are usually the most selfish cookiemonsteres you'll ever come across. Seek someone with either an earth or water sun...

You should try reading his history.

He moves really fast and is clingy af. Also, claiming to love with someone that quickly? Yikes.

He was still entertaining a Gem woman a month before the Aries, and the Gem tells him she doesn't want anything serious. Some time lapses and it comes to them going out again and he tells her he wants marriage if she goes out with him. Then he's flabbergasted that she bailed.

She was clear in what she wanted and he insisted on what he wanted instead, trying to manipulate her into getting what he wants.

Here, she was clear in wanting to split, but again, he insisted on what HE wanted.

Dude's an emotional wreck and sounds a lot like an inept "nice guy." She may not be innocent either, but he's definitely not deserving of the go to sympathy bit of "women are cookiemonsteres" bit here. He's highly manipulative in both scenarios. He's more focused on his wants and needs and wants to disregard theirs completely. That type of behavior indicates he's just viewing women as a prize to get to fulfill his wants and to hell with what they want.

Regardess of sign, most women, with any sense of self worth, would head for the hills. This behavior is so insanely off putting.

Posted by Dreamy88

Posted by rockyroadicecream
She's not into you.

You sound clingy af. Based on your post history, you're too clingy and freak girls out easily with your intensity there.

You also sound manipulative. I don't think you love HER, just love the idea of being in a relationship. The fact you talked her out of breaking up with you is just emotional manipulation. She knows what she wants. You just don't think she knows and because you're fixated on YOUR feelings of what YOU want, you talked her out of breaking up.

Not cool.

Neither is her lack of being direct (aside from the obvious "I want to break up." Can't get any more direct than that).

Move on for the both your sake.

I read his topic postings yesterday after my post and look at all of the titles. It’s a recurring issue he’s been having for the past few years with different women. Diving in too fast and falling in love too fast then the women getting creeped out.

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Yeeep. I noticed the same thing. He's the issue here, not the girls.

She's not into you.

You sound clingy af. Based on your post history, you're too clingy and freak girls out easily with your intensity there.

You also sound manipulative. I don't think you love HER, just love the idea of being in a relationship. The fact you talked her out of breaking up with you is just emotional manipulation. She knows what she wants. You just don't think she knows and because you're fixated on YOUR feelings of what YOU want, you talked her out of breaking up.

Not cool.

Neither is her lack of being direct (aside from the obvious "I want to break up." Can't get any more direct than that).

Move on for the both your sake.