rockyroadicecream

The Dodgers weren't playing them in the ACLS were they??

I really dgaf about either team, but when it comes to whoever is against the Yankees, I root for them.

Posted by TheTinMan

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I just can't believe I red that whole entire text post. Bored much? I'll say. It seems some gamers (dudes especially) are more in to their games than anything it makes me wonder sometimes if they'll ever get a girl/boy. Like my sagittarius nephew whos old enough to have some kind of woman in his life. It seems he'll never get a girlfriend. I doubt his dick ever even get hard. I can't see how that doesn't bother him.

Probably gets hard when he levels up.

I sincerely doubt that. I mean we're talking someone who's about 20 years old or something like that. Lives with my mom and is the only one of all his siblings who has no love interest. As a sag dude I would think sex would be the first thing on their plate. But not this one.

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They do say that that generation is having less sex, ironically enough...

Posted by wagtail
Look I'm not saying that this particular relationship dynamic doesn't have its challenges. But I am becoming aware the challenges are somewhat unique and not necessarily deal breakers that you find in more standard dating situations.
All I'm saying is if you ARE reading this because it's relevant to you you are not alone and all is not lost

I'm just amused you think it's this and that. Give it time.

But it's nothing if dude is really good about it. There are guys out there that just let their lives go to dog butter because they just want to play games all day.

Hell, I see it with my brother. Magically doesn't have time for things he needs to get done when there's down time, but man, he can manage to waste an entire day on gaming and then cry about how he has no time to do anything.

...maybe if you weren't online playing games all day, tardo? Adult first and then waste the rest of your free time gaming?

Thankfully, there are guys out there who are much better at adulting. They play games or watch sports and who cares? As long as nothing's neglected big effing deal. I've just seen the severe negative side to gaming and it's one you gotta look out for, especially in this day and age infested with Peter Pan syndrome asshats.

Either way, yay that your dude is cool about it.

Dude, what happened to you? You got married and turned into this grey treetrunking cloud every time you post here now.

Everything okay??

Who cares? The dad is an marker who created total hell over at CHHS with his sons and thinks they're the greatest thing ever.

Tired of hearing about these treetrunkers, tbh. We all are out this way.

Yay Astros! (yay any team who beats the Yankees)

Posted by TheTinMan
I just can't believe I red that whole entire text post. Bored much? I'll say. It seems some gamers (dudes especially) are more in to their games than anything it makes me wonder sometimes if they'll ever get a girl/boy. Like my sagittarius nephew whos old enough to have some kind of woman in his life. It seems he'll never get a girlfriend. I doubt his dick ever even get hard. I can't see how that doesn't bother him.

Probably gets hard when he levels up.

lol

It's still new and fresh, but wait until that butter starts seeping into relationship time and you're made left to wait around or are ignored for the sake of gaming.

It's the extreme though. I have no issue with guys being gamers. But my ex got into it after our relationship started by playing COD obsessively. It became a HUGE problem and I even walked out one night because of his inconsiderate butter. He didn't even notice, he was too busy playing that ish, it was so bad. His roommates had to tell him what was up because he was so derpy.

Overall, if they're good about keeping everything well balanced, woot. If not, then run for the treetrunking hills.

Posted by ConfusedSag1
Sheever

Well his not talking to me now. He has avoided twitter for almost a week and is not responding to my text messages.

Are you dense?

This isn't playing games, it's, "I'm fed up with your crazy and packing the hell up."

Women really need to stop replacing reality with these treetrunktard hot button words like, "games," and "testing."

HE IS NOT INTO YOU.

Now let's try it as an example, shall we?

"He's distanced himself, hasn't talked to me for a week. Is he playing games??"

Correct sentence- "He's distanced himself, hasn't talked to me for a week. He's not into me anymore is he?"

Or

"He's been treating me like butter suddenly and distancing himself. Is this a test to see if I really like him??"

Correct sentence- "He's treating me like butter and distancing himself. Is he not into me anymore??"

Nine times out of 10, women on this site can replace "confused" with "I refuse to see reality because I'm acting like a desperate hoe, clinging to a man who treats me like dog butter because for some stupid reason/or he's just over me and moving on, I think he's the only man I'll ever get in a lifetime."


But overall, in your scenario, he likely got tired of your insecure, crazy hoe butter. People have a limited tolerance and how treetrunked up are you that you expect him to take you back after all that garbage? In this case, you're the one being the marker here and you expect a chance when you won't even change or get some therapy?

Leave the dude alone. This isn't any "game," it's just you desperately trying to see some sort of sliver of hope he's a doormat and will take your emotionally abusive ass back.

Yes, he got sick of your butter.

If you adored him so much, why are you acting like THAT psycho girl?

Some of you chicks really need to understand that your insecurities are your damned problem and the second you make them someone else's, uninvited, you will lose them at some point in time. Then you cry about it.

Ramifications for crazy cookiemonster behavior. Learn from it and don't do it again.

Posted by Supes

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This is why you run from dudes who move so damned fast. They're emotionally treetrunked.

Move on. If he comes back around, fine. If not, whatever. You didn't allow it to get to the point where you got yourself emotionally invested, despite this bleep bag behavior.

Aries and Cancer isn't a good match anyway.

Lol. I’d rather spend 5 straight days getting to know someone than waste 5 months. If it takes 5 months to get to know someone well enough to keep wanting to see them, I’m out.

You're a prime example of what I've pointed out, dude.

My method works though.

lol. You seem to have poor or selective memory.

Your method is "I'm going to throw everything out there and see what sticks." That's hardly effective.

LOL, it’s called being upfront and not playing games. I’m a pretty good catch and I don’t need to use the splatter effect to pick up a check. I’ll put myself out there and I hope that they do the same. If we’re compatible great if not you’ll know sooner than later and you can go on about your business

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No, you use the splatter effect. Believe me, I'm not clueless to how many women you tried that crazy with here.

Nevermind all those times you were all woe is me about that ish. I denied giving you my cell number and you drunk message me in a rage about how I don't think you're good enough.

So yes, your "technique" is far from effective. You're only touting its effectiveness because you paired off with a woman from a culture whose goal is to get married and have babies asap so she was down to get engaged within 3-6 mos.

Whatever floats your boat dude, but don't go around acting like that immature, unrealistic butter is something people should live by because it's not.

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This is why you run from dudes who move so damned fast. They're emotionally treetrunked.

Move on. If he comes back around, fine. If not, whatever. You didn't allow it to get to the point where you got yourself emotionally invested, despite this bleep bag behavior.

Aries and Cancer isn't a good match anyway.

Lol. I’d rather spend 5 straight days getting to know someone than waste 5 months. If it takes 5 months to get to know someone well enough to keep wanting to see them, I’m out.

You're a prime example of what I've pointed out, dude.

My method works though.

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lol. You seem to have poor or selective memory.

Your method is "I'm going to throw everything out there and see what sticks." That's hardly effective.

Hahaha.

I read "train tickets" and I'm like SAN DIEGO.

Psh, I would do the same thing too. San Diego ftw.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
This is why you run from dudes who move so damned fast. They're emotionally treetrunked.

Move on. If he comes back around, fine. If not, whatever. You didn't allow it to get to the point where you got yourself emotionally invested, despite this bleep bag behavior.

Aries and Cancer isn't a good match anyway.

Lol. I’d rather spend 5 straight days getting to know someone than waste 5 months. If it takes 5 months to get to know someone well enough to keep wanting to see them, I’m out.

That's why you screen them before you entertain them so you don't waste your time dating them.. including those 5 days.

Isn’t that the purpose of the 5 days?

The 3rd, 4th and 5th date with my Aries was all in one weekend. You really get to know someone faster when you are around them enough to get comfortable.

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Sorry, sweetie, but no. You're being naive and dumb again.

You do not fully know someone in 5 days. You're just fixated on the honeymoon phase of it all. You know what the person really is like long term.

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This is why you run from dudes who move so damned fast. They're emotionally treetrunked.

Move on. If he comes back around, fine. If not, whatever. You didn't allow it to get to the point where you got yourself emotionally invested, despite this bleep bag behavior.

Aries and Cancer isn't a good match anyway.

Lol. I’d rather spend 5 straight days getting to know someone than waste 5 months. If it takes 5 months to get to know someone well enough to keep wanting to see them, I’m out.

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You're a prime example of what I've pointed out, dude.

Posted by GC02
I feel for you Aries I really do. Us late June/beginning of July cancers can be major pains in the butt.

In my opinion he’s just trying to take things slow.

Doubtful. If he was taking things slow, he wouldn't have given her the 6 mos- year girlfriend treatment within a few dates.

Regardless of sign, that's always a "run" warning. Guys like that exit just as quickly as they moved in because they're immature as butter and allow themselves to get swept up in the excitement of it all, only to suddenly stop and have buyer's remorse.

I went through the same butter with an ex and I likened it to a kid who just HAD to have that toy. Begged and pleaded with mom to get it. Once he gets it, he plays for it for a few and then tosses it into the toy box because he's over it.

That's essentially what guys like this do.

This is such a classic move and you can try to excuse it away by sign, but this isn't a sign thing, it's a "treetrunk no" situation.

If he hadn't moved so ridiculously fast, sure, maybe life's got a hold of him, but like Ssupes said, when a guy is truly into you, he doesn't do this butter.

I've got similar placements to the OP and she can ponder and work through the wtfery, but in the long run, Cancers are a terrible match because of this butter. I've gotten to the point where it's like yeah no, and exit stage left because immature and overly emotional dudes are a waste of time in the long run. Life's too short. They're okay friends, but treetrunk relationships. Nobody's got time for emotional manipulators and leeches.

This is why you run from dudes who move so damned fast. They're emotionally treetrunked.

Move on. If he comes back around, fine. If not, whatever. You didn't allow it to get to the point where you got yourself emotionally invested, despite this bleep bag behavior.

Aries and Cancer isn't a good match anyway.

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There's being forward and confident when it comes to this stuff, and then there's "chasing."

Chasing is a desperate hoe move.

soo calling someone 20 times is hoe status ?

I kid I kid..

It's "I'm a crazy hoe" status.

Like someone said, making one's interest known is one thing. But to call, initiate all the time, and basically look desperate, which is what happens when like 90% of women who chase, is desperate hoe status.

I've never been big on chasing and in general, women shouldn't anyway because there are a lot of guys who act borderline "predator" when it comes to dating because their primary goal is to get laid. They see a woman throwing herself at him, he's got the upper hand and will manipulate her female brain into putting out.

A lot of women are likened to 15 year old boys when it comes to chasing- just cannot see the signs he's not into her and will chase with this delusion and end up getting hurt and abused. Unless she's not a numbnuts and can obviously see he is/isn't interested or both parties have made it known there's a mutual interest, women just need to stay away from it.

I mean how often do we see these sob stories on DXP? Women chasing after unavailable men out of desperation. They create these scenarios that never happened because they're trying to feast on breadcrumbs as a reason to keep chasing.

Combine that with treetrunkboy culture and we've got a lot of stupid going on.

In short,the sane, not moronic women should only be doing some of that chasing. The rest need to let him do the work so her dumb ass self can clearly see he's obviously interested. Otherwise, she'll likely fall victim to being used for sex.

lol yes I was clearly kidding. But that does help me with understanding that I express interest, I defiantly do not chase if it includes the butter you listed above. butter it's even hard for me to call my male friends let alone a guy I'm interested in, I just wasn't brought up like that.

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I know you were clearly kidding, dear. Sorry I didn't pollute my post with a ton of lolz. :p

I have no issue being forward and the like, but I won't do butter unless I know for sure there's interest or he's expressed interest. I learned from mistakes when I was younger and just don't bother. I get enough weird treetrunk attention as it is, so like hell I'm about to go and chase after that bullbutter haha.










psst- "definitely" not "defiantly."