I've known this guy for like 2 months and we're already in a relationship. I met his mom, we're with each other EVERY day and he messages me morning until night (he starts the convo). When I stay with him he gets mad when I leave to go home lol it's cute. He talks about having children with me and getting married. About 4 weeks ago he was in pain and I called in sick to work to care for him and now? I haven't seen him in 2 weeks. He's acting very distant. When I message him he'll take a couple hours to reply and when I mention it it's always the same excuse.( sorry he was busy) Out of that 2 weeks he asked me to come see him twice and both times I was in school so I couldn't. When I ask to see him he doesn't reply fast enough or he says you want to see me? Hold on I might be doing something. Once he replied and he said he misses me and wants to see me but he's tired and going to sleep the whole day. I got tried of trying to see him so I stopped asking and now he'll message me stuff like "what do you have planned for the day? I miss you, want to come over?" And when I reply with yea I'll come his response will be like "hold on I'm paying bills I'll let you know if you should come" I express my feelings over and over about how he changed but he swears he didn't and he says he misses me a lot and that I'm still his girl. We barley message eachother now because he takes hours to reply. He use to message me in the morning saying good morning and call me in the night time and on his breaks and it stopped. Any advice? 😢 p.s I told him we can end things and I'm losing interest and he keeps saying I'm his baby and he'll make it up to me. He still messages me every day. I never message him first because I'm hurt. And I started giving him cold replies because I'm tired of expressing myself we either argue or he apologizes with no result. Does anyone see anything I'm missing?
Advice dealing with a Leo man?

What you need is a good buyer and a potent tranquilizer.
But everyone will tell you to quit putting effort into a person unwilling to give that same effort in return. Find youself somthing better. No one knows how long it will take him to come around, it could honestly be never. If he's just keeping you on the side of his life that's extremely rude and unfair to you imo, and he will get over it. If you were as important to him as he is to you he'd put more effort into you.
But everyone will tell you to quit putting effort into a person unwilling to give that same effort in return. Find youself somthing better. No one knows how long it will take him to come around, it could honestly be never. If he's just keeping you on the side of his life that's extremely rude and unfair to you imo, and he will get over it. If you were as important to him as he is to you he'd put more effort into you.
His birth chart. I'm a Pisces sun, Sag moon, Aqua Mercury Pisces Venus
Sun Leo 3.26
Moon Pisces 20.22
Mercury Cancer 16.05
Venus Virgo 17.10
Mars Gemini 15.51
Jupiter Scorpio 5.39
Saturn Pisces 11.30 R
Uranus Capricorn 23.59 R
Neptune Capricorn 21.39 R
Pluto Scorpio 25.20 R
Sun Leo 3.26
Moon Pisces 20.22
Mercury Cancer 16.05
Venus Virgo 17.10
Mars Gemini 15.51
Jupiter Scorpio 5.39
Saturn Pisces 11.30 R
Uranus Capricorn 23.59 R
Neptune Capricorn 21.39 R
Pluto Scorpio 25.20 R

Not always. By saying he found someone else it could simply be himself lol. He isn't ready for comittment, and his time is more important then anything else. Some leos are all about me time, and can't commit to others. Some of us get fixed to this me time and at that point we are no longer worth your time regardless of how bad we try to keep you on the side. I've done it myself to peole, and dislike that aspect of myself.

Posted by XobabiiJuly Leo?
His birth chart. I'm a Pisces sun, Sag moon, Aqua Mercury Pisces Venus
Sun Leo 3.26
Moon Pisces 20.22
Mercury Cancer 16.05
Venus Virgo 17.10
Mars Gemini 15.51
Jupiter Scorpio 5.39
Saturn Pisces 11.30 R
Uranus Capricorn 23.59 R
Neptune Capricorn 21.39 R
Pluto Scorpio 25.20 R
Posted by exxtasyxPosted by SoulIt's weird that he spent so much time with her, didn't want her to leave, introduced her to his parents and then suddenly he's acting distant. I think he sound someone else.
Not always. By saying he found someone else it could simply be himself lol. He isn't ready for comittment, and his time is more important then anything else. Some leos are all about me time, and can't commit to others. Some of us get fixed to this me time and at that point we are no longer worth your time regardless of how bad we try to keep you on the side. I've done it myself to peole, and dislike that aspect of myself.click to expand
I was thinking the same but the fact that he's still making it seem like he wants to be with me is cold.
Do I ignore him?
Posted by SsupermanPosted by XobabiiJuly Leo?
His birth chart. I'm a Pisces sun, Sag moon, Aqua Mercury Pisces Venus
Sun Leo 3.26
Moon Pisces 20.22
Mercury Cancer 16.05
Venus Virgo 17.10
Mars Gemini 15.51
Jupiter Scorpio 5.39
Saturn Pisces 11.30 R
Uranus Capricorn 23.59 R
Neptune Capricorn 21.39 R
Pluto Scorpio 25.20 Rclick to expand
Yea how did you know?
Btw before everything happened we had a disagreement about one of his female friends. I was being harsh but his attitude is still out of the blue

Posted by XobabiiHis Sun in Leo is only 3.2 degrees.Posted by SsupermanPosted by XobabiiJuly Leo?
His birth chart. I'm a Pisces sun, Sag moon, Aqua Mercury Pisces Venus
Sun Leo 3.26
Moon Pisces 20.22
Mercury Cancer 16.05
Venus Virgo 17.10
Mars Gemini 15.51
Jupiter Scorpio 5.39
Saturn Pisces 11.30 R
Uranus Capricorn 23.59 R
Neptune Capricorn 21.39 R
Pluto Scorpio 25.20 R
Yea how did you know?click to expand
Pisces moon is hard on a man
Saturn in Pisces too
Pluto in Scorpio is not good for fire signs.
How old is he? Early 20's?
He's just immature. Go over there and get your answer
Posted by SsupermanPosted by XobabiiHis Sun in Leo is only 3.2 degrees.Posted by SsupermanPosted by XobabiiJuly Leo?
His birth chart. I'm a Pisces sun, Sag moon, Aqua Mercury Pisces Venus
Sun Leo 3.26
Moon Pisces 20.22
Mercury Cancer 16.05
Venus Virgo 17.10
Mars Gemini 15.51
Jupiter Scorpio 5.39
Saturn Pisces 11.30 R
Uranus Capricorn 23.59 R
Neptune Capricorn 21.39 R
Pluto Scorpio 25.20 R
Yea how did you know?
Pisces moon is hard on a man
Saturn in Pisces too
Pluto in Scorpio is not good for fire signs.
How old is he? Early 20's?
He's just immature. Go over there and get your answerclick to expand
Yeah we're both 21
Don't Pisces moons have a tough time being the one to break up? I'm not a leo, but that has been an issue in the past. I've experienced that with other pisces moons too. We'll push the other person away until they've finally had enough and they are done and break it off. Then will be all butt hurt over it like we're the victims •
Posted by thisismylife2015
Don't Pisces moons have a tough time being the one to break up? I'm not a leo, but that has been an issue in the past. I've experienced that with other pisces moons too. We'll push the other person away until they've finally had enough and they are done and break it off. Then will be all butt hurt over it like we're the victims •
Lol sheesh. Why do you find yourself pushing someone away?
Posted by XobabiiWe do it because we either 1) want to break up but don't want to make it seem like it's our fault things ended OR 2) find someone else and then hang on to the 1st person just in case it doesn't work out with the new person.Posted by thisismylife2015
Don't Pisces moons have a tough time being the one to break up? I'm not a leo, but that has been an issue in the past. I've experienced that with other pisces moons too. We'll push the other person away until they've finally had enough and they are done and break it off. Then will be all butt hurt over it like we're the victims •
Lol sheesh. Why do you find yourself pushing someone away?click to expand
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