I reaally need some advice! geminis?

There's a guy I like, he's a gemini, and I'm a leo lady. We've been very close friends for about 3 years, obviously there was some flirting, but not much else until about 2 months ago, when it was like he suddenly realized that he liked me. A few weeks back we had a sleepover with a bunch of his friends, we kissed and cuddled but nothing else happened and he even talked about being in a relationship. Since then, I've been to a few of his band's shows and seen him but not much else is happening.. I guess what I'm trying to ask is what now? Do gemini men generally prefer to chase or be chased? If I were to let my leo-ness get all up in his grill I know he would be scared away instantly. But I also don't want him to lose interest. So I'm stuck!

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Im a gemini myself and I am dating a gemini guy for over a year now, my advice is you have to play hard to get. If he invites you to a show say "I would love too but I promised my friend i would go hang out with him and our friends tonight!" Even if its a lie, and wait and let him text you. Wait about an hour before replying. Now dont do this ALL the time, you dont want him to think your not into him. But balance it out. Gemini guys love girls who have their own life. They like to see someone who goes out on their own adventures, and soon he'll want to join in on the adventure with you! Gemini guys like their space too and arnt so fond of clingly people. They love compliments however, and your going to have to not only show him your cool, but actually be cool when his female friends are around. He is a flirt by nature btw. but once in a committed relationship he is faithful. 🙂

Also you should ask him to do something fun like go to a theme park or even too a party. he loves having fun and being active and social. sorry had to add that in. I'm routing for you! I know Leo-gemini combo can be a really great one!

I am a Gem with moon/rising/mercury air placements. Honestly you have to play hard to get and mysterious because we love to inspect, analyze, and find out what makes people tick. If you give too much upfront we become bored and go look for new excitement. I have a problem with this and my whole elusive/aloof side, guys hate it. He will more than likely be this way, but as a Leo you guys get soooo pushy, probe, chase, and just generally come on VERY strong. I don't mind it though but there is a fine line a lion walks and you guys can become rather "in your face" mauling us and dragging us off somewhere. I have a Leo with some cancer placements right now who I had to block due to his defiance and pushy behavior. Calling me over 22 times and 100 texts in 24 hours. I was like OOOOKAYYYYY....Def all up in my grill.

Posted by Jynja
Same advice - three different threads on three different forums.

In her defense, some of us kind of derailed on of those thread. Sorry.