are capricorn men all like this?

hi I am a pisces female, currently dating a capricorn since Sept last year. We have been very intense, him wooing me......when we had a split he went mental, as in text every minute, emails, calls, flowers, stalking nearly and then wooed me back in.
We see one another most nights, apart from Wed, Thurs and Sun as I work in the evenings and need time out for myself. However, during the day while we are both at work, he still emails me, texts when I am not at work and things are good.

There is a but here...I know, I know.....but......he has mentioned one day we will be living together and he would get married again even though the first one was horrendous for him. He is 41, myself 33. I am always holding myself back from him and at first he said he didnt know where he stood with me, I am very cautious because he was so forthcoming with me, at times reckless and this made me panic thinking he was a little OTT. He is incredibly emotional, seen him cry many a times in my company and also really attentive, alluring and passionate and we have a great rapport and have never argued at all....the crying was him losing me at one point.

The problem is me being a little hesitant and not wanting to rush things but wanting to make sure things are right. Now without sounding rude here, in my company this man is always really turned on, for example, I had to pick him up this evening from work and en route home as he had his hand on my knee he always mentions one thing....

I guess what I am asking is what are these men like, what are their intentions and can these men know when its the one. He always tells me he loves me, and always reassures me etc, but why am I holding back....? there is something about the forthcoming part which worries me!

I have never let anyone become this close to me before and nor have I seen anyone so attentive, forthcoming and persistent and demanding at times which always makes me very hesitant I guess.

He is still waiting on buying out his ex from his last relationship which ended in May time, she has now moved out but the house hasnt been finalised, as in, he is waiting to buy her out but I dont think this is going through, he tells me its going through, then he tells me it isnt, then tells me he can only get her half, then says he hasnt anything from them....what is happening?

So, does anyone have any experience of these types, particularly any pisceans out there!
thanks so much for reading.
jo

She's a rebound chick, she should be hesitant, very very hesitant, listen to that voice that says to back up and wait. He's vulnerable, he probably went through a horrible ordeal with the ex, may even still have loving feelings, something he will not or may not divulge until your deeply connected to him. He's trying to get you connected emotionally b/c he know that it's hard for a woman to leave a man once she's made up her heart to be in the relationship.

use caution but enjoy the time and attention as much as you can jus be careful as you have been in the past, he may even need some counseling after he finalizes everything with the ex.

Cap men are funny, Tikki even if she IS a rebound chick, Cap men pretty much KNOW what they want from the women they desire.

we can agree to disagree, I believe she should continue to be cautious.

we can agree to disagree, I believe she should continue to be cautious.

Yeah, me too! Cautious but not guarded with her heart.