...being nonchalant

first of all let me introduce myself new to this forum.
on the cusp cap/saggy with rising/moon in Saggy lol

anyway im working on myself and i think my mom helped me trace the root of my problems
im 2 nonchalant abt way to many things and when i don't care its whatever i neglect, forget or choose to ignore it LOL
but its soo opposite me i can be VERY passionate abt things i care abt work, goals etc
so...if this is indeed a cappy trait. help! she being calling me miss nonchalant since i was a teen, now approaching my 30s .. time for a change LOL

It may be the combo of sag rising with a more serious sun sign.
I'm sag rising with Cancer sun and I an completely indifferent about most things. I can't make myself care about things I don't and usually I just think "oh well, whatever happens will happen."
But if there's something I do care about (good or bad) then I'm really passionate about it.