Can't understand this cappi?

Hi, I 've had the first experience of my cappi's mood swings... till 15 days back he was sooooo sweet to me ,he had barely started expressing his inner feelings towards me...now he has been ignoring me... i've known him professionally first then personally... so yesterday he made his colleague call me for some professional work...i can't understand...he just says i know i haven't been talking to you due to some tough time. I am a piscean.. i feel i m more direct thean him... and i have been so nice to him... the other day i was upset as my twin sister's baby was to undergo surgery.. i told him...he was comforting..but did not say much and when i smsed him that the baby is fine he did not reply... i just understand this behaviour....can somebody tell me whats wrong— Plus another complication is that i ma 4-5 years elder to him...can a capricorn male fall for an older woman (now i ma wondering) and I am also a cancer survivor (he doesn't know it yet) our relationship is only a few months old and he had just barely started showing his feeling s to me and now he is ignoring me ...i am freaking out and need help! By the way i am a piscean female..is this relationship going to work

I've been going through the same thing with my cap. My dog broke his leg the other day and when I told him about it he was like "damn that sucks" but he wouldn't stop talking to me until I went to bed that night. I'm guessing that was his way of being there without the mushy "aww are you okay?" junk. He's also been getting better about telling me how he feels...in a round about way anyhow. Then he'll disappear or act strange for a few days or longer. He's asked me to hang out since then but he throws it in my court. When I ask him he is usually busy. It's hard to understand these men at times. The only advice I can give is to be very patient. I"m just as lost as you 😢

Thanks everyone...as it turned out he was just pulling my leg.(he called me and told me so) LOL