We met each other through a site. In few months we talked on phone and i feel that i found my dream mate.He is so cute in the photographs which he send to me.One thing i found that he told me everything about his life. which i feel good, I have few problems related with my edu and some medical problem. I told him about my past friend and told him about my problems but surprisingly he ignore everything.Is he good or cunning fellow i mean what is the reason that he ignore everything i can'nt understand.After three months we met in my home town.I shocked to see coz he is totally different from the photograh. i feel very bad coz things like my all dreams are shattered.After our meeting he return back to his place.After two days i told him that our marriage is not successful coz ur earning is not enaough for both of us and i ditch him.He crying on the phone and convence me over the phone and told me that u know every thing about me and why you take this decision when we are ready for marriage but i ignore him,after he send me msgs and mails, a few months i feel that somewhere i did it wrong, i check some mails sent by him and some cards. Finally i am not able to take the decision for marriage with him,now he stop calling me and msging but he sent mail after few months.He send astrology match report for both of us. which shows a great match.I am very much confused about the relationship. I need your opinion coz somewhere i am not able to get off him from my mind coz either it is due to planets in our birth chart or due to the past.
Cap and Aries good for MARRIAGE.
actually i am new to this form and i forget to mention that i am 30 yrs old and he us 33.Is this due to the age diiference coz i read somewhere that caps are attracted towards mature persons normally or less than his or her age.

welcome... please trust your instinct on this one. if you have so many doubts in the very beginning, before a relationship has even taken root, you're probably right about those doubts. cappies are very intuitive and when we feel sure of something, it is a good idea to listen to those signals, as i've found that when i ignore those instincts is when disaster happens. trust yourself.
as your post pertains to what kind of match you would be.... instant attraction because there are many similarities between aries and cap. however, it would take a lot of patience and both sides compromising in order for this to work long term. good luck! xoj
as your post pertains to what kind of match you would be.... instant attraction because there are many similarities between aries and cap. however, it would take a lot of patience and both sides compromising in order for this to work long term. good luck! xoj

I say get your edu correct and dont worry about your med problem, then you can move on from there. Its amazing to me that a Cap would want to take care of you especially if you cant take care of him.
Whether you did things right or not...you simply have to factor in the differences in the playing field.
Whether you did things right or not...you simply have to factor in the differences in the playing field.
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