I am a Pisces and have been married to a Cap man for almost 13 years. He is a quite younger than me and our relationsip has not always been the best but I have loved and stood by him for many years. At the end of February, he told me he could not live like this anymore and left me and his two kids. A week later I found out he had been talking to a woman he hooked back up with on Facebook. There were many calls and texts between them before he left. I have talked to him pretty much everyday since he has been gone and he tells me he loves me but he's not sure it will work. I have basically not said much at all about this woman except ask him if he is still talking to her. His response to me was "Why would I be talking to her and talking to you at the same time. She lives in a the next state over and it is funny because every weekend that goes by, I don't hear a word from him, but talk to him pretty much all through the week. He has pretty much ignored his kids who he has adored since they were born! This past weekend he was seen with a woman by someone I know! I don't know if it is the same woman or not. He has a prepaid phone, so I could not call him so I put a note on his car on Sunday that he had been seen with another woman. No response! Monday night he calls and leaves me a message that he wants to see his kids today but they have gone to a relatives for a few days. I text him and tell him that. I did not call him all day, and this afternoon he calls me and says "What's going on now"? "You think I have a girlfriend now"? He had a major attitude, so I told him I was tired of arguing with him and hung up. He called me back. Told me the woman was a cousin of his that I have never met and we have been together for 15 years. Does he really expect me to believe that? For the past 5 weeks I have been begging him to try to work on our marriage because I knew we both loved each other. He has been playing with my head, making me think he wanted to work on it but would never commit to doing anything about it. After I found out he was seen with this woman twice in one weekend, I got so upset and called a lawyer yesterday. I know I probably shouldn't have because I really don't want my marriage to be over with, but I know now he is really going to be upset with me and will probably never forgive me for what I did! Why do I care if he forgives me? He is the one who left, he is the one who was caught talking to another woman! Help!!!
