Capricon, are you JEALOUS in a relationship?

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Miguel0114
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I'm secretly the jealous type but you'd never know it. I've changed. I no longer go around showcasing my insecurities and vulnerablities to the whole world just so that some girl can take advantage of me. It has happened before and I'm not about to make the same mistake again.

A little jealousy every now and then is cute but when a girl starts getting hysteric on me, that's when I fall out of love. hysteric equals immature. which is very unattractive.
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TERRITORIAL is the word. Ima cap male age 22. I get jealous but not really jealous of someone, but It's more like a threat. For say, If I'm with a chick and she has a friend that she diggs on... I get weird and appear to be what you would consider jealous. But I'm not jealous of the person and nor would I wanna trade qualities or whatever. I get very TERRITORIAL. Not jealous. So if your dude get's hella jealous on you, take it as a compliment.
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Posted by michellemabelle
I get jealous if its someone I really like but most of the time Im being distant emotionally. For me if you have something spiritual special quality then I would but if your just eat sleep work and snuggle in front of the tv then I wont get jealous. But Im a bit of an oddball with a fixation on buddhism



The Cap I'm dating says that he seldom checks on his partner/gf but..once he gets jealous he usually resorts to silent treatment..
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If there is trust and respect in the relationship, then no I don't get jealous UNLESS I feel threatened... I'm happy enough to give my partner freedom in the relationship to go out and socialise with other people (male or female), I don't need to be there or around him all the time (mind you, I have a lot of air and fire in my chart, and I love my freedom too!)

I don't mind my partner expressing a lil' jealousy every now and then - at least I know they like/care about me too - but too much jealousy in a partner frightens me, and would send me on my way - I don't like to be restrained/kept in a cage - but I'm hardly the type to wander off, so they wouldn't need to do that!
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Posted by kristalaries
To all the Caps..
Please share your behavior in a relationship. Are you the jealous type?
Do you show /express your jealousy or keep quiet about it?
And..do you appreciate if your partner gets jealous? Or does it make you uncomfortable?
Share please 🙂



I am on the possessive side so if it is mine its mine....when a guy shows me that i am number one pick...my heads at that point where any other chick is a nun fuckin factor
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i am with you aon that...its MINES!!! dont touch unless i give permission to...otherwise its on and poppin...dont like to be like this but i know that my virgo guy his like this at times and we just laugh about it later because we each see some of eachother in ther other one....so we have a mutural understandin there.....Once trust is established in any relationship with me i do not worry anymore about the jealousy because I know that if he wanted them he wouldnt be comin back to me....but i am possessive and it will seem like every cap is
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yea one thing i have been workin on ...knowin they are your men and not tryin to get upset if they are hangin with the opposite sex...i think that is a problem for me and my guy....but i am not doin it anymore because he is like me (poseesive/jealous)
Bein possessive is when you arelike this is mine Jealous is when you are bothered by another persons company of the opposite sex is around your mate..

I do this when i dont know what the relationship is with these twoo..or if it is a person i know wants that person...that is when i guess we should just join in and worry bout our mate wantin them and knowin how much trust we have for one another....i am still really bad with it just because i know what i have seen come from these typrs of situations...especially from coed hangin

i tell mine they have no need to cheat i like females myself but not every one....if we needed to get a girl i would be willin to try that but we have to have complete trust with eachother and understandin...if i meet the right guy for that (as if only in dreams) i would be willin to take a chance and go for what i truely feel on all levels ...that guy has to be willin to work at openin up to...I show my more play ful side to my guy by touchin on women and playin around a bit ...because i am tryin to show him who i am...each person has aside ofthem that is more exotic(I am one of them )

Its hard to be free when you dont really know peoples intentions

when we caps try to show our trueselves people take us for being bossy,conceited,untrstin of others,aloof,etc...some more things i cant remember but we are some of the best people youd ever meet in your lives also if a virgo?cap relation evolves into wha its potential really is then there will be a lot of truely great things from this