Do Capricorn men have courage?

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CapriGirl10
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15 Years

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Just to add to that, he started the affair saying he can't leave his marriage for his daughter's sake, she's important to him. Having said that, he did consider wanting to marry the "love of his life" (twice in the span of 6 months) and to leave his marriage behind. But his reason to stay is his kid. I respect that reason. What boggles me is how wishy washy he got during those 6 months, he spoke about public image which mattered to him, he spoke about losing friends if he got a divorce. Was it confusion or merely misleading his girlfriend? There are many factors that make me think he's spineless, since he said she married him for financial reasons and was already emotionally involved with someone else while being engaged to him (which he found out later on within a year of the marriage). He did consider leaving her then and again the second time when he caught her cheating again. Its sad to stay in such a marriage and I don't think commitment means you have to let someone manipulate you like that. He does want to be happy and move on with his girlfriend but he has friends & family who discourage the divorce. It takes courage to stay with a woman knowing she isn't with him for any other reason but financial support and public image, you think? Sorry I think he's in it since he's too weak to leave. The prove to that is that affair he had with his girlfriend while being married...where's the commitment then?
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CapriGirl10
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15 Years

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Why should he walk away from 11 years? Because he had a failed marriage from year 1 and nothing to feel good about those 11 years, he just didn't have enough courage to walk out of an abusive relationship for the sake of family disapproval (its a cultural thing). He had his kid after 3 years of marriage. Yes my question is how did that happen when she was so unresponsive...haha. She decided they must have a kid now since that would keep them together. All the decisions are hers (I say that since thats what he told his girlfriend) I don't encourage divorce but I certainly don't encourage stupidity. He has spoken about the 11 years of mere manipulation and deceit. It disgusts me how she blatantly tells him to not talk about her so called "affair". The description of their marriage according to his relative is, they are friends at their best. He has many misconceptions about marriage anyways so he's a lost cause. The love affair is off now, but he didn't want to end it, he told her he is starting to feel guilty about it so his girlfriend left him.
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tiki33
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It's his life, he has his own personal reasons that most likely no one knows about why he chose to stay in his marriage...I just think it's nobodies business, some people believe in till death do us part, maybe he's one of those kind of men, I dunno but I know he's married and women who date married men and expect these men to leave there wives and kids are the spineless cowards in my opinion.
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CapriGirl10
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15 Years

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Isn't that harsh to call those women spineless and let the married ones go free without guilt? If thats how they feel, why have affairs, who ran into another woman's arms...weak men who can't fix their marriages or more like don't want to...but choose to stay in them...like real "till death do us part"!!
It is truly nobody's business I agree...I rest my case...This is what women get for trusting jerks anyways...married or not...