Why does a Cap man worried about public image and not able to walk out of a failed marriage when he's clearly in love with someone else? He's been though a cheating wife who is an unresponsive person for 11 years, what keeps him in the marriage? He has a child. I personally have heard him out, he's hurting from that marriage but is plain spineless in my opinion. Any points of view?
Do Capricorn men have courage?

Yeah he has courage, to stay in an unhappy marriage with his wife and kids and not run away from his problems into another womans arms takes a lot of self control and courage.
Just to add to that, he started the affair saying he can't leave his marriage for his daughter's sake, she's important to him. Having said that, he did consider wanting to marry the "love of his life" (twice in the span of 6 months) and to leave his marriage behind. But his reason to stay is his kid. I respect that reason. What boggles me is how wishy washy he got during those 6 months, he spoke about public image which mattered to him, he spoke about losing friends if he got a divorce. Was it confusion or merely misleading his girlfriend? There are many factors that make me think he's spineless, since he said she married him for financial reasons and was already emotionally involved with someone else while being engaged to him (which he found out later on within a year of the marriage). He did consider leaving her then and again the second time when he caught her cheating again. Its sad to stay in such a marriage and I don't think commitment means you have to let someone manipulate you like that. He does want to be happy and move on with his girlfriend but he has friends & family who discourage the divorce. It takes courage to stay with a woman knowing she isn't with him for any other reason but financial support and public image, you think? Sorry I think he's in it since he's too weak to leave. The prove to that is that affair he had with his girlfriend while being married...where's the commitment then?
Why should he walk away from 11 years? Because he had a failed marriage from year 1 and nothing to feel good about those 11 years, he just didn't have enough courage to walk out of an abusive relationship for the sake of family disapproval (its a cultural thing). He had his kid after 3 years of marriage. Yes my question is how did that happen when she was so unresponsive...haha. She decided they must have a kid now since that would keep them together. All the decisions are hers (I say that since thats what he told his girlfriend) I don't encourage divorce but I certainly don't encourage stupidity. He has spoken about the 11 years of mere manipulation and deceit. It disgusts me how she blatantly tells him to not talk about her so called "affair". The description of their marriage according to his relative is, they are friends at their best. He has many misconceptions about marriage anyways so he's a lost cause. The love affair is off now, but he didn't want to end it, he told her he is starting to feel guilty about it so his girlfriend left him.

It's his life, he has his own personal reasons that most likely no one knows about why he chose to stay in his marriage...I just think it's nobodies business, some people believe in till death do us part, maybe he's one of those kind of men, I dunno but I know he's married and women who date married men and expect these men to leave there wives and kids are the spineless cowards in my opinion.
Isn't that harsh to call those women spineless and let the married ones go free without guilt? If thats how they feel, why have affairs, who ran into another woman's arms...weak men who can't fix their marriages or more like don't want to...but choose to stay in them...like real "till death do us part"!!
It is truly nobody's business I agree...I rest my case...This is what women get for trusting jerks anyways...married or not...
It is truly nobody's business I agree...I rest my case...This is what women get for trusting jerks anyways...married or not...

I have many names for assclowns that choose to marry and stray but I also feel women are equally assclowns for allowing themselves to fall for a married man....Why lord why?? SMH

Its hard for a capricorn man or woman to accept that a lover has gone to another we sees it as failuer on our part. and there is nothing worse than failuer to a capricorn death before dishoner
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