Falsely Accused of Cheating

Any CAP being accused of cheating, when in fact the person who was into you was plainly paranoid?

How did you feel? Did your relationship end? Which side ended it? Would you go back again?

Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales

when in fact the person who was into you was plainly paranoid?

When they're paranoid about it, they're usually the one's doing it. That's when they start accusing you about cheating...or they're insecure about the relationship.

fair answer, Angie.

Am insecure of the relationship, but have little motives here and there...

Thank you, honey.. haven't seen you around before. Are you new?

Kinda. Started like a month ago, I think.

Am taking my thread back.

I found out he WAS Cheating on me. Was sleeping with a girl who visited from Germany and stayed in his house for a whole week.

I knew there was something funny going on when he started making his friends on facebook private.

Anyway...

welcome to the boards, Angie.

I was going to, honey, but leo called.


Sheesh, you know..., he (the leo) is the one who never gave up on me since over a year now. When the guy is consistent, that shows he cares. All the rest disappearing act .. not sure, just doesn't add up to be worth waiting for.


Anyway, too bad this scorp got cheated by a sign that promised so much but proved the opposite. He announced me his gf. He wanted to meet my parents. He wanted to open up a business with me. He was the one complaining of a cheating girlfriend. He was the one paying value to loyalty. He was the one telling me, Fumi.. if I ever see you with another man, it will not be good. He was the one telling me he wouldn't like introducing me to his CAP cousin because of my eyes... blah blah blah..... such empty words.

NEVER pay too much value in words; LOOK what he DOES!!!

fumi was told this guy is a clown, why is she suprised that he's cheating when she was forewarned....

now before anyone says I'm being mean, I don't like seeing a woman in pain over a man yet she was told this guy is not on the up and up and I'm glad she now see's it for herself.

Tiki -- honey... I started up a number of threads. Since yesterday I had this strange strange feeling. Anyway.. see the thread on the CAP board please on "CAP Man Cheating?", I have a mention for you there. You were right, but we need to burn our hands first before we are convinced I guess...

Or perhaps I am that type; I put too much trust in one person. But this time I was much faster in recognizing the pattern because of my previous experience with Virguy. Nothing is exactly the same and one usually gives the guy the benefit of the doubt.

Well.. live and learn.

don't be shocked if he comes back, i'm sure he's going to say NOTHING happened while she was visiting...you know what kind of guy he is for sure now and that's all that really matters.

SKYS ... love 🙂


Thank you for always being so supportive towards me. I did care for him. It was quite the experience being with a CAP man. I don't wish to label any one who has sincere intentions. I think as a base rule, it should be truly straight forward when two people love each other. Even if the other is not quite sure... still indications are there.

I started up these different threads and rather than repeating myself, am going to add the link to the scorp board of how I came behind his cheating.

During my online research, it was also stated that you should NEVER confront a person on his cheating unless you have hard evidence. Because cheaters will develop better ways to cover up their doing.


http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=1623120

Posted by tiki33
don't be shocked if he comes back, i'm sure he's going to say NOTHING happened while she was visiting...you know what kind of guy he is for sure now and that's all that really matters.

oops Tiki... I missed your earlier post I see just now. Yes.. not sure if he would come back, but if he dares... wouldn't accept him back anyway.


Will post if anything comes up.