I had posted on here about a month or so ago about a Cap man I was talking to. I wasn't sure at the time if it was going anywhere or not. Well since then, he's really shown an interest in my life and being there for me when things have gone wrong. He began asking me to hang out again and finally after working through conflicting schedules we were able to find a date. He had been flirting with me more than usually in that past week too, which was kind of new, but not a first for him. I just wasn't used to hearing him be so playful so often, if that makes sense. Anyways, we went to dinner (expensive place and his choice) and then we went back to his house to watch movies. This was the first time i'd been at his house. About half way through the movie he found my hand and was really sweet. We held hands for the rest of the movie and then he asked if I'd like to watch another. I agreed and about midway through that one he slid down and layed his head on my shoulder. When i leaned down over to him he turned, looked me right in the eyes and kissed me. It was amazing and turned into a 2 hour session lol. In the back of my head, i didn't want this to go too far so I pulled back the reigns some here and there. Anyways, we ended the night on a good note. I didn't hear from him and then that friday (the date was on a tuesday) I was in a little fender bender. I texted him and told him about it and he answered me an hour later. Asked who i was (he told me a few days before that he was getting a new phone. guess he hadn't updated his number yet). I told him and he was like "oh sorry got a new phone" and that was it. Never even asked if i was okay or anything. So, a couple hours later, i texted him this "So i texted you cuz i was hoping you could calm me down alittle, but i guess you were busy tonight" He replied with " i think you're wanting something alittle more serious than i am" after that i just told him that i needed a friend and asked if we were friends, which he said yes. but he kept going back to the fact that he didn't want a relationship. I told him i appreciated his honesty and that at least now i knew, blah blah and said goodnight. Well I haven't heard from him since, but tonight on his facebook a girl put a little smiley face and told him goodnight. I might be blowing this out of porportion, but girls never post on his fb. It just upsets me that I blindly wasted my time for a guy who possibly only wanted in my pants.
