Im back, telling you guys about the crazy Capricorn. Back in Nov we started seeing each other. At 1st I wasn't really into him but eventually I fell in love. We use to talk all the time and then we had a agruement and things started to change tremedous. We was just seeing each other but never had any commitment, however he was the only man I was seeing and sexually involved with. This man could have been my king, because that how much I was into him. He was extremely freaky, sexy and intelligent. We would only see each other 1 a month.
For the past 3 months I been basically calling him. He would always say he was busy therfore he never had too much conversation for me. He would call back sometimes. I would always ask to see him and he would give in eventually. He always like for me to stroke his ego because he would ask me why I still love him? Do I want to be his girlfriend? Always wanted me to tell him how I felt about him.
Recently I just stop calling him. We talk a little because he reffered someone to me for busy reasons. Every time he call me I don't pick up but normally I would call him back. Im sure he feel the difference but he so stubborn to even show me he miss me. He made a promise to me he would see me every 3 weeks. I don't even talk about seeing him and I sure he wondering why. Should I continue to act like I have no interest in him and make him think I moved on? He so stubbborn and have so much will power I think he might just forget all about me.
I would like to continue seeing him for now. Im just been so busy and getting tired of being the person to take the 1st step and show I miss him and want him. Im sure he don't really like me anymore. I think he love the attention I was giving him becuase no matter how crazy I would act he would give in and have sex with me. He could still like me but afraid to show any feelings because he think Im crazy!!! If I continue to just talk to him and show no interest in seeing him, would he eventually show any attention or affection? I just would like for things to be the way they were before. He would call me all the time and express some interest.
Im back, telling you guys about the crazy Capricorn. Back in Nov we started seeing each other. At 1st I wasn't really into him but eventually I fell in love. We use to talk all the time and then we had a agruement and things started to change tremedous. We was just seeing each other but never had any commitment, however he was the only man I was seeing and sexually involved with. This man could have been my king, because that how much I was into him. He was extremely freaky, sexy and intelligent. We would only see each other 1 a month.
For the past 3 months I been basically calling him. He would always say he was busy therfore he never had too much conversation for me. He would call back sometimes. I would always ask to see him and he would give in eventually. He always like for me to stroke his ego because he would ask me why I still love him? Do I want to be his girlfriend? Always wanted me to tell him how I felt about him.
Recently I just stop calling him. We talk a little because he reffered someone to me for busy reasons. Every time he call me I don't pick up but normally I would call him back. Im sure he feel the difference but he so stubborn to even show me he miss me. He made a promise to me he would see me every 3 weeks. I don't even talk about seeing him and I sure he wondering why. Should I continue to act like I have no interest in him and make him think I moved on? He so stubbborn and have so much will power I think he might just forget all about me.
I would like to continue seeing him for now. Im just been so busy and getting tired of being the person to take the 1st step and show I miss him and want him. Im sure he don't really like me anymore. I think he love the attention I was giving him becuase no matter how crazy I would act he would give in and have sex with me. He could still like me but afraid to show any feelings because he think Im crazy!!! If I continue to just talk to him and show no interest in seeing him, would he eventually show any attention or affection? I just would like for things to be the way they were before. He would call me all the time and express some interest.
Another case of he's just not that into you...If you were the one holding the whole relationship together by initiating contact first, chasing him for dates and you have now stopped that behavior most likely 2 things will happen, he will begin to pick up and pull his weight or he won't pull his side of the relationship by initiating contact and dates and things will stall. You can't assume he's gone for good, you won't know it until it happens, maybe now that you have switched your behavior from aggressive to passive he will begin to pursue time with you....If he doesn't well he wasn't that into you and it's time for you to move on.
He's calling me now and I be very business so most of the time I won't answer the phone. I will call him back if its not to late. Before we use to talk all time of the day and night. After I started annoying him he ask me not to call past 10 pm. He picks up the phone everytime now when I call him because normally Im returning his call.It don't even matter no more because I be to busy to think about him. He's was a great guy
He most likely still is a great guy but it seems he doesn't want to be YOUR great guy, least not right now....He's initiating contact, that's a start but for the most part if he's not heavily pursuing anything with you, like dates/lunch/walks it's best not to invest too much of your energy into this guy, you pulled back and it seems to be working, continue on with your life and if he wants to get in he will do what he can to get in your life.
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For the past 3 months I been basically calling him. He would always say he was busy therfore he never had too much conversation for me. He would call back sometimes. I would always ask to see him and he would give in eventually. He always like for me to stroke his ego because he would ask me why I still love him? Do I want to be his girlfriend? Always wanted me to tell him how I felt about him.
Recently I just stop calling him. We talk a little because he reffered someone to me for busy reasons. Every time he call me I don't pick up but normally I would call him back. Im sure he feel the difference but he so stubborn to even show me he miss me. He made a promise to me he would see me every 3 weeks. I don't even talk about seeing him and I sure he wondering why. Should I continue to act like I have no interest in him and make him think I moved on? He so stubbborn and have so much will power I think he might just forget all about me.
I would like to continue seeing him for now. Im just been so busy and getting tired of being the person to take the 1st step and show I miss him and want him. Im sure he don't really like me anymore. I think he love the attention I was giving him becuase no matter how crazy I would act he would give in and have sex with me. He could still like me but afraid to show any feelings because he think Im crazy!!! If I continue to just talk to him and show no interest in seeing him, would he eventually show any attention or affection? I just would like for things to be the way they were before. He would call me all the time and express some interest.