my boyfriend is very unemotional. he just recently started calling me baby about a month ago. we have been together about six months. he makes sure to talk to me everyday but it is usually just small talk he doesnt really reveal too much about himself. I believe he may be scared i will up and leave him one day. he use to come see me almost everyday now it is down to about two days a week, i asked him about it he says he barely has time for himself this time of year because it is his busiest season at wrk. he has recently started popping up at my job he has introduced me to a few cousins female and male and though he tries to make it seem like a coincidence i can tell it was planned. i feel like he is a onion and i have to peel him bk one layer at a time. is this normal behavior and are their any signs to a cap moon falling in love that i can look for in the future of course
is this usual for a cap moon?
thanks 88 i didnt mean to say unemotional as i know they feel deeply i ment they dont express it. it is ver hard to be with someone and not know how they feel about you. sometimes i try to read between the lines but i try not to do it too often because i dont want to come to my own conclusions. i told him friday he never compliments me and he says you always look nice if you didnt i would tell you i tried to explain to him that he was missing the point but he just didnt get it
miss 88 his sun is taurus and cap is his moon. i have had taurus men before but they were very touchy feely and always wanted to shower me with stuff. he is not touchy feely at all i hear it is common for cap moon though. he has recently just started to sleep under me he use to sleep on his side of the bed and some how never managed to touch me. i asked did he not like sleeping next to me he said if i didnt i would go home and not be at your house almost everynight. he makes it seem like everything is so obvious lol and its not. poor thing i sometimes think that he thinks he is easy to read
i have sun in virgo moon in taurus. is there anymore advice you could give me on the cap moon?

i told him friday he never compliments me and he says you always look nice if you didnt i would tell you i tried to explain to him that he was missing the point but he just didnt get it
Well, if you do ever receive unsolicited compliments from him you can rest assured that they are genuine.

I thought about these Cap moon threads last night.
The Scorp and I were lying on the couch watching the Oscars. I hadn't seen him all weekend.
All of a sudden, we have this conversation:
Cap moon: are you getting sick of me?
Me: Sick of you? No.
Cap moon: ok.
Me: Do you feel like I'm getting sick of you? (turns around to face him) Why?
Cap moon: Ok, ok, don't make a spectacle over it!! turn around!!
Me: Spectacle? There's no one else here. lol.
The Scorp and I were lying on the couch watching the Oscars. I hadn't seen him all weekend.
All of a sudden, we have this conversation:
Cap moon: are you getting sick of me?
Me: Sick of you? No.
Cap moon: ok.
Me: Do you feel like I'm getting sick of you? (turns around to face him) Why?
Cap moon: Ok, ok, don't make a spectacle over it!! turn around!!
Me: Spectacle? There's no one else here. lol.

Posted by capgirl69
I thought about these Cap moon threads last night.
The Scorp and I were lying on the couch watching the Oscars. I hadn't seen him all weekend.
All of a sudden, we have this conversation:
Cap moon: are you getting sick of me?
Me: Sick of you? No.
Cap moon: ok.
Me: Do you feel like I'm getting sick of you? (turns around to face him) Why?
Cap moon: Ok, ok, don't make a spectacle over it!! turn around!!
Me: Spectacle? There's no one else here. lol.
LOL! yep short and sweet will suffice 😛

This is normal. We sometimes show emotions through body language. If you watch really closely, you might catch it. Chances are he already perfected his body language to better conceal it. Leniency is my way of showing emotions. Everyone else suffers the wrath of karma...

Yep, quite normal. I am quite controlled emotionally and am more comfortable with actions, rather than words. It is difficult to put how I feel into words. About the complements on how you look, yeah, he doesn't get it that you need to hear that. To him, you look fine, so take it that no news is good news. lol! If he makes a sarcastic comment about something you're wearing, you'll know he doesn't like it. 🙂
I think cap moons are very aware of our own insecurities about our partners and often wonder if we are crowding you/getting on your nerves/smothering you, etc. I absolutely DON'T want to be that person. So reassure him that you definitely want him around and make him feel welcome - you'll be surprised about how much more relaxed he is and he'll likely spend more time with you.
Like capgirl's scorpio, I used to be overly conscious worrying about smothering my aqua, so I asked him if I was smothering him. He said "I'm breathing, aren't I?" Awww. But, it made me realize he likes the time we spend together. So I don't worry about it anymore, he'll let me know when he needs space. So, from my example - let him know you want him around. He'll appreciate it, be relieved by it! Just don't go overboard.
Based on what you said, I think he is really into you.
I think cap moons are very aware of our own insecurities about our partners and often wonder if we are crowding you/getting on your nerves/smothering you, etc. I absolutely DON'T want to be that person. So reassure him that you definitely want him around and make him feel welcome - you'll be surprised about how much more relaxed he is and he'll likely spend more time with you.
Like capgirl's scorpio, I used to be overly conscious worrying about smothering my aqua, so I asked him if I was smothering him. He said "I'm breathing, aren't I?" Awww. But, it made me realize he likes the time we spend together. So I don't worry about it anymore, he'll let me know when he needs space. So, from my example - let him know you want him around. He'll appreciate it, be relieved by it! Just don't go overboard.
Based on what you said, I think he is really into you.
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