Need help and advise - getting capy forgiveness.

Stop doing the same things over and over again.
This is what I would tell anybody.

Confused Emotions check.
Childish behavior check.

I think you shouldnt worry about him..not just yet.
You have some work to do on yourself which, is not the end of the world...we all have to work on ourselves from time to time. Think of it more as continuing education🙂

But you should have fun concentrating your efforts and energy inward. Youre not the best you can be right now and its time to upgrade your nanomachines🙂

With your tantrums your skipping a lot of steps involved in the communication process. I would endeavor to solve my erraticism while I know I have this problem. If the task proves too much then medicinal options are available. Nothing wrong with that unless you get addicted to things quickly.

I think your life would enrich when your thinking is clearer.

You cant continue the same behavior and then come to people, possibly asking for manipulative ways to trick your cap back into you. Real talk.

The truth is that there are only short-term avenues which you can invest in currently.
So become a beautiful human being. THEN start extending feelers. This way you'll attract others whose beauty will cling to yours. Then youre surrounded by a wreath of good examples to follow. Then youll possibly make good moves from here on...that is if you stay conscious of your ills and make the effort.

This is only my humble OPINION and not to be taken as certified analysis.

@ SuperCap ~ "With your tantrums your skipping a lot of steps involved in the communication process. I would endeavor to solve my erraticism while I know I have this problem. If the task proves too much then medicinal options are available. Nothing wrong with that unless you get addicted to things quickly."

Excellent.

Taurus-Lily ~ does your temper tantrums have anything to do with the fact he doesn't share the same "feelings" for you that you have for him?

I'm impressed with SuperCap's narration ... I also read this one poem of yours, SC, I cannot remember in which thread it was, but remember it being very powerful.


I wish my CAP guy would be as mature thinking as you, although he is much older than you. Perhaps he will get there one day...



Taurus_Lily -- may I suggest?

You cannot force your friendship onto anyone. Usually Capricorn man seems to come back, but even at his return, you cannot expect more from him. When your feelings for him have subsided, then friendship can be great with Capricorn man. Usually what happens is that you start off with friendship, but then your feelings take over again.

Am happy for you, Taurus that you have seen positive results with your patience. Happened to me in the past as well that I lost my greatest love I ever experienced due to my insecurities and impatience. I used to compare to result I gained when still in my very early 20s. I didn't date much, not even a handful all throughout highschool and later. However, the ones I did befriend, they ended up proposing me.

In my later years, this has all changed. Your mind matures and so do men you date come with baggages or life experiences that they TEST on you. It is not like starting very early in life with all the positive hopes and attitudes. You become vary.


CAP man friendship has a very different level of satisfaction. It is rooted at a deep level once He lets you in.

I am more friends with my CAP man, than I am lovers. I think. I asked him that question the other day, if he sees me more like a friend friend. He said, NO.

Then I asked him the question if he finds me attractive, and instantly he replied, VERY.

I let it be ...

In the past I would have asked, Do you love me? YES/NO (i'm a scorp and we can be very direct if we feel the guy is snoozing around giving us mixed-signals)


TODAY... I wouldn't put a man on a LOVE trip question directly.

*If he wants me, he knows how to find me... And I'm not going to wait forever for him....*


CAP man has his faults too... they are no rare Indian Silk! I do question myself lately of why I don't choose an easier relationship. Someone... when he pops into my mind, makes me smile with ease 🙂

I do know someone like that. He is a SAG man...

He DOES make me smile everytime I think of him. He gives me tingling to my toes...


I dated him 2 years ago for 6 months. For the past 3-4 months, he has been trying to meet me again. He is very insisting... yes he wants SEX, but he can have sex with any woman. Why bother with someone like me who is 16 years older than him. And that was actually the main reason why we split. He wanted to find someone younger.

This time, He was very direct in his intentions. Asked if we can have Sex again. I said, NO... am looking for a more meaningful relation... like YOU!

Then, he tried helping my business pursuits and befriend me on a different level. And asked me again... if he helped me, would I agree to see him again.


Now lately, he is trying to seduce me with .... lol... really funny seductive ways. He calls me seductive names or just sends these ONE-Word emails...


See.... I AM ON HOLD for CAP man!


It better be worth it 😉

Posted by CapGal
You ladies are gonna grow old and miserable waiting around on these guys. Stop walking on egg shells and go live your lives to the fullest... to the point where YOU have to MAKE time for that special man that shows genuine interest.

LOL... true!


Well.. I still am (supposedly) dating this Cap guy. I sure want to live my life.. but then if I start up with another guy, that would be considered *cheating*. Let's say .. if I'd take that cute SAG guy for a night of adventure...


I want to stay loyal to Cappie though, because I care for him.

Once I know where I stand, I could take it -- or as hard as it is -- leave it 🙂


That's a dilemma... I want affection! Most and foremost **HIS** affection! But if that's not going to happen, then I want to move on. Can't keep on playing around hide & seek.

Hi all,
Just for the update... my capy friend is back. Frogiven me all my tantrums... and starting a new page.
No-no... I realise that this is a "last" change... and I won't mess it up.
And I know that he did not "forget"... he probably never will.
And it's ok... because as I said... I value his friendship... and I would not mess up anything anymore.
So there... thank you all for your words of support.
I will you all the best with you caps too. They are precious... diamonds in the raw! 😉
And I am a happy Taurus 🙂) with an ear-to-ear smile today... can't help singing too 🙂))
Life is beautifull after all !

Take car all.