Ok?? Why did this Cappy just pop up?!

Ok, i've known this Cappy man for about a year and a few months now. We first met in March of 2008. Stopped talking in Dec 08 because basically of my impatience and his determination. I wanted what I wanted, and wanted it NOW!
We havent spoke in like, 5 or 6 months, then out of nowhere, he sends me a message wondering about how i am doing and if he could be in my life again and that he was ready for a relationship.

See, when we first met and started to get to know each-other, I think I ended up falling for him, and it was bad. Couldn't go even 10 mins without thinking about him, when we went through our problems, cried because i couldnt be near him or talk to him or have him next to me. I did all the girly goofy things u do when you think you're in love.
Anyways, long story short, I've been wanting to be with this man for a friggin year, but he always would tell me, Im not ready and i dont want a relationship right now and that he needs to focus on his career and needs to be in a better situation . . .

Well 6 months down the line, he pops up out of nowhere, pretty much lets it all out, saying how he missed me, how he can really be himself around me, how he is ready for a relationship now and wants something real. And it extremely different this time around.
Before when we were talking; He didn't hug me alot, He didn't kiss me alot, didn't touch me alot. Basically didnt do any of the touchy feely things . .
Now, it's like WTH! A total 180 degree difference. He kisses me, hugs me, touches me, loves to hold on to me while we are in bed (Although he hasn't initated any sexual activity, just . .sexual gestures i'd say— . . what is up with that?)
Spends alot more time with me. Since he came back into my life, I've seen him everyday ( been 4 days now)

My question is . . . is the the norm for a Cap male? I mean . . im just a bit confused. Did he finally realize he was serious about me or a relationship?
And what is up with the sex thing?! It's been a yr! And he is so damn sexy, i dont want to wait anymore, but ugh! He's so cautious . . .
which is good.

Hello?? Any advice?

Well God forbid it's niether one of those!

Im hoping along the lines of he's dated around and sees that the women he was seeing doesnt compare to me, and made him realize that I may be the one for him after all, and maybe he wants to wait to have sex when he is 'ready'

Hello? Anyone out there that can shed light to this situation?

Lol yes i guess you're right . . He can only shed light

No, not really. I mean he's caressed my *girls* and slapped my butt a couple times, and we kissed a few times before the split, but till this day, no sex.

Not overly. But he does go to church, and he does pray, as far as reading the Bible, he does but not as much.
He plays drums for the church also.

I agree with Cappygolightly. You guys need to talk. I didn't know about the religious thing though. I wouldn't be surprised if that is playing a factor.

Well I did dsicuss with him about it . . and he said that he is a virgin (not to sure about that because I've seen condoms in his bag) and that he is waiting for the right time and wants to wait for marriage.
About the virgin thing, having a hard time believing he is one . .