pisces needs help with capricorn guy

Hey y'all it is my second post here ....letss rollll 🙂

Ok I know this capricorn guy for almost 4 years now.
I ve always liked him and sometimes I think he does too but we never
dated and always remained good friends. Meanwhile I moved got involved with someone for 2 years and finally came back.Since
I am back thought,our contact has gotten deeper and we call each other"best friend" now. However I still have strong
feelings for him but I never said anything because I believe a guy should make the first step. Since he was not acting on
it I just did like usual and swam away and decided to do my best to see him in another way other than "friendship".But some
days ago a friend of the cap guy asked me if I like his friend(cap guy)because he told him there was something going on
between us and he likes me. I was kinda of surprised and I told him yes
( i can t help but to be honest😉, then he told me i should go for it.
I replied that i was thinking his friend(cap guy) should be the one approaching me first. and he replied that his friend(cap guy) is very shy.
( in between the cap guy doesn t look so shy with others girls.. he has told me about girls
he asked out just after meeting them for the first time.. so why would he be shy with me??)
So at this point I dont know what i should do.. because I really want to be with him....
But I don't want to screw this occasion up know that I know he likes me.

Helpppp

thank youuu

Posted by kstarks2
Are you attractive? Do you have a career/goals,etc? Are you classy?

Superficial questions, yes, but honestly Caps are very quick to snatch up a winner so if he hasn't by now it might be because there is something about you that he didn't like in that way...

Secondly, he already knows you like him. Caps know everything. trust me.

If I were you, I'd say something to him in regards to how you feel about him.

If he doesn't feel the same, you can always swim away again...

Euhhh, I think so 🙂 well i like how i look🙂 euuh yeah am actually more career oriented than he is. He is actually a really lazy guy. Does not do well in school at all!! but recently I got him to focus more and it worked 🙂
so yeah it might be something he does not like about me.... and seriously i hink am just going to swim away it is getting too complicated 😉

Posted by momidji

Posted by kstarks2
Are you attractive? Do you have a career/goals,etc? Are you classy?

Superficial questions, yes, but honestly Caps are very quick to snatch up a winner so if he hasn't by now it might be because there is something about you that he didn't like in that way...

Secondly, he already knows you like him. Caps know everything. trust me.

If I were you, I'd say something to him in regards to how you feel about him.

If he doesn't feel the same, you can always swim away again...

Euhhh, I think so 🙂 well i like how i look🙂 euuh yeah am actually more career oriented than he is. He is actually a really lazy guy. Does not do well in school at all!! but recently I got him to focus more and it worked 🙂
so yeah it might be something he does not like about me.... and seriously i hink am just going to swim away it is getting too complicated 😉

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Ummm..just wanted to add,,he would say sometimes you are the best, I don't know if that mean anything at all.. and i forget to answer to this part: are you classy??

yes i am!!!, i know how to dress sexy but still be classy 😉

Posted by M
You're swimming away remember?

hahahahaha yeah i think i should. if it has not happen by now it probably never will

I'd go for it and see where it leads. Why live with the 'what if' if you do like him. People do tend to shyer around those they have romantic feelings for. here is more at stake than there is with 'just friends'. If he doesn't like you romantically, then cont. the friendship. We can be loyal friends forever 🙂

Posted by QuietSt0rm
How old is he? It's not ALL about astrology.. he sounds like just a young, shy kid. Are you still in high school or are you in college?

I agree with M.. maybe he was confident with other girls because he knew they liked him. Maybe with you, it's the opposite he might think YOU just like him as a best friend.

It's typical for a pisces to doubt yourself and wanna swim away. I don't think that you should just based off of the assumptions that you find here. None of us know your guy, but you. If his friend is telling you that he has a crush on you, I'm thinking he probably does. I agree with you, that the guy should be more pursuant, but if he's a shy young kid, well then you play the hand that you were dealt. Don't swim away until you know for sure. 🙂

We are both in college almost graduating... and it is funny because we are acting like high schools kids🙂
a little bit of background----- he never had a girlfriend before because he is looking for the right one which is something i like about him. I only had one boyfriend(the 2 years guy) and I was ready to get married with him but he turned out to be pretty bad. So we are both really inexperienced and really shy.
I tend to avoid complicated situation and i feel this is too much for me. if it is destined it shouldn't be that complicated...

Posted by M
My comment was really aimed at seeing where your head was at... I find Pisces to be rather deep thinkers. Whether you swim or not I agree with K. Be sure to give a follow up

I will definitely let you know guys. like i was saying i avoid complicated situation specially when i am not too comfortable. and this is going no where from the beginning... but hey I will stick around and see if he comes forward...