repairable?

i'm an older cap woman in love with a younger scorp man. we've had a major blowout. how can i repair our relationship? i miss him very much. he seems to have changed. is it too late or is he just pulling away to heal? how can i tell?

Pato,

I am not sure that there is any specific way to tell what the other person is doing unless you ask them. Maybe your relationship is doing what it is supposed to be doing for now. Let it go...see what happens. Detach yourself and let life take care of all. It will, I promise.

What is meant to be will be......

I hope this helps some as relationships can be so difficult but then again, I think we are the ones who make them so hard cuz we want to control them and not let them just unfold naturally as they should. Funny, we don't make the grass grow, it just grows. We don't make the flowers bloom, they just bloom. I'm thinking that perhaps we shouldn't make a relationship we should let it make itself.

Keep us posted, Pato 🙂

What Freebird has written is very true pato - sometimes it's best to go with the flow and detach, detach, detach.
Other times, maybe, if it's not happening, we gotta make it happen.
If there's still no contact in a while, why don't you take a deep breath, gather all your courage (and I know that caps have alot of that) and text or ring and ask can you meet just for a drink and a chat? No declarations of love or I want you to be the father of my children stuff...just a drink!!!!
When and if you do meet....one deep look into his eyes will tell you what you want to know, one way or the other......I hope that his eyes will tell you what you really want to know.
Ax