Riff on Capi - Virgin relationship

Hi gang, I'be been here before, sort of float in for help at times, I and could use some feedback.

My relationship with my Virgo in its in 15th month. We get along great, always have fun, have that elusive chemistry, and the sex if off the charts.

But she still has this occasionla sense of detachment that leaves me cold. Short chats, smaller emails, no fire on the phone. She has a mini-crisis of her own making and is obsessed about it even if it's exactly what she wanted, and in the process she'd left "us" behind.

I'm not insecure. I just don't to act spineless and wait for someone to come around, especially when my base fear is that she doesn't love me. She's set high standars for the relationship with fantastic sex energy, rapport as a talked, smar. But she would give up a kidney before any introspective thought of her feelings. She has yet to tell me she loves me but adds that I'm growing on her.

Phrases that "growing or me" of "I prefer a companion" don't wash for me becsuse I'm romantic. I feel like the once-every-two-week boyfriend.

Help. I feel like I need to shed this rather than continue as we have. That growing line seems bogus.

I know Virgos are different, so if someone out there that has experience re waiting for Vs to find their feelind, plesse chip in comments and advice.

Thnks

Bob aka ddsk

Hi ddsk,

I am a Virgo and my advice is to pull her natal chart (free at Astrolabe.com) and then take her Venus sign and Mars sign to cafeastrology.com and read up on her love and romance style . It may shed some light.

Good luck. 🙂

Actually, my virgal is always anxious to open her wallet and pay her fair share ... which was interesting since I had heard the old golddigger comment from others ...