Scenario's and Dillema's

Ok fellow Capricorns not sure if you guys read the Strawberry Letter online or hear it on the radio daily on the Steve Harvey show (those in the UK may not know what this is). Well daily people right in with all kinds of scenario's and dillema's. I have a scenario that I want some input on. As a Capricorn, often people pay more attention to what we say then others I find and I want to make sure that something that I might say on this won't be taken offensively so let me give you the scenario.

Case:

You as a Capricorn have a younger sister who calls and tells you she is getting married. Before she calls you people around you have been asking you and congratulating your sister to you yet you are dumbfounded and don't know anything because she has yet to tell you. So she finally calls you and says that she is getting married and you tell he rhow happy you are for her. Prior to this she was on a social networking site as well as facebook of which she met several guys. Now one day you guys are out together and you ask casually how did she meet the guy and she tells you she met him at a wedding 2 yrs ago that took place in our state. You know your sister is lying because she can't even look at you and tell you the truth. Maybe she is embarrassed but you suspect she is not being truthful. Ok Capricorn people normally have good instincts and are generaly right about things. Rewind back to Valentine's Day Weekend this year. You called your sister to wish her a Happy Valentine's Day Weekend and she turned her phone off the whole weekend. So you leave her a message saying you guess she is with her Valentine

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and that you were calling to say Hi and wish her a Happy one. Well she finally calls and was like "Oh I was studying". So you know better but you say oh well. Now your sister shares everything with other mutal people you both know in common and they always come back and ask you as if you know. Anyway, speed up to your sister's graduation day and the guy is here so you meet him for the first time yet other people have known all about him and met him. So the guy comes over and greets you, very friendly. A friend of the family asks him how he likes our state and he says "Oh, this is just my 2nd time here, the first time I came was in February." BINGO, you think back to your sister who told you she met him at a wedding here 2yrs ago. You don't say anything so someone congrats him and asks him how they met and you decided to save face for your sister so you speak up and say oh they met at tom's wedding 2yrs ago and they guy looks at you and says "Who?". Now he has confirmed your sister lied to you. You still don't ask your sister why she lied but you are somewhat hurt by this. Speed up to 3weeks ago you attend a wedding and the people who your sister says she met the guy from their wedding approaches you and says they heard your sister is getting married and why didn't she invite them. You are looking dumb and then someone says "didn't you tell me your sister met the guy at his wedding?" You stand there embarassed and the guy says "No she did not meet him at my wedding because the guy was not there but his family members were". You walk away embarassed.

What would you do? Would you confront your sister and ask her why she felt the need to lie about how she met the guy and that even if she met him online it is nothign to be ashamed of? Or would you let it go and not say anything to upset her?

SO WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS (IN CASE YOU ARE WONDERING, THE YOUNGER SISTER IS A CAPRICORN, 2ND DECAN JAN. 6) AND YOU ARE A CAPRICORN TOO.

Sorry for the typos, Dxp need a Spell checker.

Cappygolightly, you provided an interesting perspective. I wonder If you known the background and history of the relationship aq bit more possibly your answer might change. To make a long story short. Tell me if you answer changes. The Older Sister only wants the best for her younger sister and wouldn't impose her views on her but only want to make sure noone hurts her. In no way could she be judgmental because she supports the sister and has often expressed this although the younger sister has done some VERY bad things in the past(sabatoging her older sister relationship, dating a guy her older sister was introduced to, etc), she loves her nonetheless. The older sister has always tried to reach out to this sister in love but hasn't rec'd the same in return. They have the same father but different mothers and the younger sister has always tried to act indifferently to her older sister no matter what she tries to do to show her love. The older sister was upset about her behavior but as a forgiving capricorn just chalked it up as immaturity and accepted the fact they are sisters no matter what. The older sister is happy for her younger sister and is excited for her and has been trying to help her with the wedding in anyway she can but the younger sister acts as if she doesn't want her help. This hurts the older sister because she has really tried. When the older sister travels soon for a special ceremony does she extend her help or just be there and wait and see how her sister will treat her? Should she grin and bear it if her sister hurts her by looking over her older sister who is supposed to be helping her and reject her and use outside people to help instead? How does she cope with this? What would you do cappygolightly? Is there a way to possibly see a different perspective on this given that information?

I mispelled the title for those who noticed, Sorry again

Cappygolightly a very close friend of mine who we share the same birthday. Thanks for your comments!

I welcome other comments perspectives on this. I've kinda avoided talking about this with my friend because I don't want to say the WRONG thing as this is a really hard time for her and I know what she is going through.