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How long is a long time? It takes a while to break down the wall. It comes off layer by layer. Be careful, don't rush it.
Posted by truecap
How long is a long time? It takes a while to break down the wall. It comes off layer by layer. Be careful, don't rush it.
5 years + but we broke up for a year in between...
Posted by M
Seems you have a decent pace going thus far, hopefully a little more patience will reward you. In those senstive moments try and avoid strong reactions until he bolsters himself a bit. 5+ years, that's a great start even with a break in there. Remember even if things go askew, if you've been yourself and good woth him he'll remember and things will work out. Don't sweat it too much.
Best of luck 🙂
M - thank you! Previously it's been because of my strong reactions that's made him close up. They really are sensitive.
I asked him to tell me all the things I do that really get to him n make him wana close up so that I can avoid it.
That went ok and he told me n I listened instead of arguing my case n telling him why I reacted in the ways I had done previously. Just needed to listen
I'm silently hopeful now 🙂
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