why is cappy man acting like this?? :(

i know its bit long but iv tried to keep it simple, please help me to understand him 😢

hes capricorn and im aries
two years ago we were best friends and saw each other most days
he started to like me as more than friends
but i was happy to keep us as we were- just friends
so we tried
but kept bickering- over silly stuff- and always over txt or online- never face to face
we went out separate ways
he dated someone else (and later moved in with her)
i got back with my ex


now this month he got in touch (they broke up few months back)
we went for food
i REALISED woah i like him as more than a friend!!!!
he came shopping with me a few days later
he paid for lunch
carried my bag
we messed around and were kinda flirty- like he was hugging me and we kept knocking in to each other as walking.
on train home he was sayin how his x made him turn a film off coz the actress looked too much like me LOL
we were texting later that night and it was kinda flirty
so i start liking him more and moreeee

next day i see online some comments between him, his mates and one of his female friends. it was jokey but sounded like something was going on with him n her. i felt so upset and jealous i guess
he asked why i was being moody
i said i saw those comments
he said it was a joke- playing up to a rumour that had gone round.
he asked why i care- i admitted i like him

he went on how i never showed any indication of liking him
(WELL I AM NOW)

HERES THE CRUX....
since i told him (through text) he said hes always liked me, and what i feel now, he felt then. and that he doesnt wana jump just because now i decide i like him that way———————??
so hes been really distant since and not happy chatty to me like before

i even went to see his band play this wk hoping that in person we would be ok, but he hardly spoke to me!

what have i done wrong?
and i know hes hangin out with these other girls (i hang out with other boys- altho i cud never like my guy friends as more(incest eurghh lol) but i duno whats going on with him

i told him again i like him, yet hes says well mayb we can be friends and if it pans out then maybe more one day— i dont understand. is he testing me? is he getting his own back and lettin me sit on edge?


😢

by the way i think his

sun- capricorn
moon- aquarius----flighty?
venus- scorpio
rising- aries

I don't think you did anything wrong. I think he liked flirtting with you.

your doing everything right.

u want a real advice just ask me?