Can a Gem girl be serious with a Vir/Lib Guy?

I'm a cusp Vir/Lib guy, but I feel more Lib most of the time... But there is this Gem girl, that I like and we've gone out a few times... We have a lot in common, and we have shared a few stolen kisses, but I don't know if she really is in to me. She likes to play games, and I'm getting mixed signals from her, and not sure if she wants something serious, or shes just being her Gemini self. Maybe she doesn't want anything serious. So should I invest my time with her and work harder to let her know my feelings for her and that I might want something more serious? Or Should I just back off, and let her have her fun and not pursue her. I just want to know how long does this phase usually last? Or will Gem girl give me an answer?

Oh, I understand. Its just wish, after I try to be either color with her, she will see that I Like her a lot. Trying to direct with her doesn't seem to go no where.

my expereince with Libra was very confusing to me. i never knew how he felt. I knew he enjoyed spending time with me. But we didn't do other things. So when i ended it, it took him like 4 months and he was calling again saying he really liked me and missed me. I was like, dude.... never did i feel that you did. He was kinda boring to me. Same thing everytime we spent time together. Kept me separated from most of his life so i had a bad taste after that.

I dont' know if your like this too if so, be more flexable, act more into her but don't overwhelm her either. a good balance works where you show interest with out pushing. and talk more. lots more.

oh and if she wasn't interested she wouldn't spend time with you. If you feel her pulling away and not coming after your time, she is losing interest. This doesn't mean she wants something serious though. we tend to not be of the serious relationship too quick but we do lust for very quick. its if you can endure the lust phase which typically is oh say about 2 weeks long. STIMULATE HER MIND 🙂 Good luck 🙂 and it's always worth the investment of time if you ask me. 🙂

I think Libras can be really confusing too. I think that if you were direct with her she'd get the point that you like her and she'd choose which way to go with you. Did you come on too strong about it and maybe intimidate her?

Well, like Babygrl said stimulate her mind and don't pressure her into anything!

Thank you for all your help! 🙂

Is it possible to intimidate Gem? 🙂

But the hardest question now is how do you stimulate a Gemini? She seems so out there, and pretty much a wild child. I like to create and play with new things and I'm sure I can come up with something, but it seems like she might be really intense about me trying to I guess... "impress" her.

Well, I like to be straight forward and have told her. I don't think I placed any pressure on her and it's not as if I demanded her to be my gf. I want her to be herself.

Im a libra/Gemini gal...I know what a combo huh? My two cents is we do lust quick, and it takes a bit to get out of that phase, but I also say that if you cant stimulate our minds enough we will be off looking for the next best thing! Not that we aren't interested in you, but if someone is doing a better job keeping out interest at peak then thats where we go until they make us go looking once again. Our minds is our stimulate so good luck my dear!

i'm not about money and never have been. i'm more of a knowledge freak. i hate superficial conversations. They bore me to tears and won't remember your name when our converstation is over. Depending on her interests, talk to her about all kinds of things. World events, fashion (some like it) sports.. most gem's i know are pretty tomboyish in a sense. we love to learn, so something interesting whether she knows about it or not works too.
we love attention, but not overbearring attention. and we LOVE LOVE LOVE mind F&^% S! once your in a position, you can do the slightest of things and make her think about you all day long. That is the secret to me with us gem's... you have to direct our mind to think of you. you need to be creative cuz of coarse we are all different.
if you sense or see her playing games, trya nd play them back.. if you can outwit us, OOOOO that's SO much fun. i love a quick mind. remember, most of our game playing is innocent. alot of it is a test on what you can handle. we are a whole lot to handle due to our multiple personalities. so thats hard to figure out since our moods change like the wind.

i actually like it when they try andmake me jealous. I'm not a jealous person AT ALL. so if they can make me a tad jealous.. i know i'm diggin them more then the normal which always brightens my day. lol don't get me wrong, i don't like it often, but i don't mind that kinda test. I pass em' all so bring it! LMAO

"but dont u hate it that we always like love rough lol I mean when a guy is good and sweet to me its the biggest turn off ever...(in the beginning ofcourse...)
I need my man to be mysterious and play those damn mindgames lol..."

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OMG YES!!! too sweet is a sign of weakness and i will RUN all over you. I have to have a man with BIG balls. Cuz i'm a rough chick. NOt looks wise and so forth but VERY strong. I need my man stronger than me. LMAO thats funny

ditto ditto ditto

I want my man stronger than me too, sweet, but solid and yes, yes, YES i like it a bit rough, I am aggressive and solid by nature, not intentionally, I work on this all the time, I also get called "Angel" thus my screen name....LOL, so with that said, yes, "pull the angels halo off!" LOL, she is quite willing to dance to many tunes, but, also willing to cuddle at home on the reg......

BIGBALLS, LMAO, I got told by my niece's husband that I have bigger balls than most men he knows......DAMN!:p

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I am so trying to learn the smiley's, LOL!

I am so trying to learn the smiley's, LOL!

Angel - me too, i mess em' up all the time. i'm used to different keys to use for what i want.