This is whyI wont be with you coz you confusin and noonstraightforward despite how I 'feel' toward you.
Ok so I feel I like you then it didnt happen and coz it didnt happen I told you I dont want to have anything to do with you and said fuck you and goodbye and didnt contact you for a couple of years now that I am getting over myex and back to getting to myself I contact you to see what you doing and now you pushing me for a relationship and that I dont want one, I have told you time and again i have to sort myself out and am busy doing that this is why I dont want a relationship with you.
Also you are way too confusing and non straightforward for me at the moment. Not only that we are not meant to be.
You came into my life for a brief moment to help me through my breakup and that is all it was. Theres no need to pretend you like me when it obvious you never did in the beginning. It is ok you can drop the pretense and move on with your life if thats what you want to do. Or you could keep stalking me and blame me for what you are going through.
I do not want to have a relationship with you and am over you and am getting on with my life and moving on due to realising for myself that it will not work out relationship wise between us two.
Though we can still be friends, its just better for both of us that we are not in relationship together. I hope you will realise this as well.
So she never acted like she truly liked you, but you went back to her anyways & am now upset that she's still the same inconsistent person as she's always been? lol
Yep. You used her as the "Help me get over my ex" rebound. Shame on you! lol j/k
He was making out he liked me and that he wanted to have relationship with me only to later not and blamed me for 'falling in love' with him. So whats his angle I say, and then I told him to fuck himself and get fucked coz he treated me with disrespect and then he go blame me for falling in love with him and making me out to be some sort of loose cannon which to honest they aint seen nothing yet.
So what the fuck was he going on about? He straight up and I find this out and then ditched him and he didnt like that and now trying to get me back? NO it will not work out this way. As a friend yes but nothing more I cant do more than be there for others as best as i can and really i do suk at doing that but thats me and so what?
He shouldnt have pretended to 'love' me to help through my break up, makes me wonder was he behind the whole fiasco? Sounds like it and if so why?
Forget it I am not interested in him I have far more important things to do than worry about something that isnt if you get what I mean.
Unless he was pretending to 'love' me so he could help me get over myex and everything else so that I can get on with what it is I must be doing. Now if this is the case then I thank him and everyone else for helping me see the light or so to speak.
You'll know when someone wants to commit to you. How? B/c they'll commit lol. That simple.
You'll know when someone doesn't wanna commit to you. How? B/c they'll say 1 thing & do another.
You'll know when someone is playing mind games with you. How? B/c they chase you when you have run away, but shrug you off once they have gotten you back. This game requires 2 players though. You guys are both still playing these games after such a long time so I think it's safe to say that neither of you are ready for a commitment, love each other or belong together.
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