Gemini children

What is the best way to effectively communicate with these children? My friend has a 3 year old Gemini and she is a Scorpio, as am I. It has been very interesting to see this sign at such a young age. All the traits are in tact, the passive-aggressiveness, the favoring of the dark twin, mental restlessness, irrational fear of not being truly loved unconditionally, encourage by the jealousy of the baby brother (Aquarius). I'm sure I'm being too vague about my question here, but there are times that this kid can be so mean and sarcastic, that nobody knows quite how to handle it effectively. Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

Lots of praise and love. Have him or her help out with the caring of other sibling.

I'm guessing you want to know how to stop him from being mean and sarcastic?

I have a 10 year old Gemini son. Hes never been mean. In fact, it's the exact opposite most of the time. He can be too nice (give things away, get taken advantage of) and he ends up getting hurt.
He does have the fear of not being loved like your friends son has. I frequently reinforce that he is an important part of our family & is very much loved. Of course words don't always work with him so I show it in action as well. I include him in the planning of everything from vacations to the grocery list. It really does help him feel important to our family, which he is.
I've also made it a point with both my kids to always keep an open line of communication & always be honest. This was one thing I've done right as a parent lol. He will come and talk to me about anything. Most of our "talks" are about where his place is in the world. We don't do kiddie talks either, he very much wants to be treated more adult-like, always has. Anyway...
The sarcasm? Mines got it but I love it. His wit is awesome. And sometimes when he's sarcastic towards me, he'll get scolded but most of the time he's right. Lol
I will also say that, although treated equally, I do take a very different approach with my gem son than my Virgo son.
If you have a specific incident to share, I can tell you if I've been through it, how I handled it, and if it worked for my Gemini son or not.

My grandson is a Gemini and we took him fishing, he lost interest pretty quick until I caught a really big one, I shouted out, "OMG, I got the biggest one"...

Thats all I had to say....his competitive nature kicked in, he grabbed the pole out of my hand and said, "let me do it now, let me do it!!

He couldn't care less, until I said I caught the biggest one...lol

So cute...I think Gemini kids are adorable, they are so raw and candid. I eat it up.

I have two boys. The eldest is 12 and a Gemini. My other is going to be 12 in Oct. and a Libra.

My Gemini son is a real sweet boy. He smiles a lot. He has a natural passion for sports and a work ethic. He is passionate about things he loves and has an internal drive to work at things on his own that my other son doesn't. He is also easily hurt when he's misunderstood. Although my Gemini son is adopted from overseas, I see a lot of myself in him. The biggest difference between us other than gender is that he is being raised in a home with two parents who spend a ton of quality time with him. I, OTOH, grew up with a loving mother but a very controlling and angry alcoholic father.

Both boys are very athletic, have wonderful senses of humor, and are all "boys".....But I will say with my Gem, all I have to do is ask for some help and he's there happily helping me. Getting my Libra son to help with chores etc. is like pulling teeth.

Geez, i didn't even answer your question about how to communicate with a Gem; Easy, be open and honest. Don't be harsh or demanding. That only builds resentment. Probably the best answer overall comes from a great horse movie in which the man who had a magic touch with horses was asked,
"What do you do that connects you and the horse so well?" The Man said "Be firm, but gentle." Same holds true for Gemini children and all children imho.

Thank you for all of your responses. 🙂